Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb nga Tirana. Mendoj se kam b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebkat shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb ndaj edhe vendosa t\u2019ju shkruaja p\u00ebr t\u2019u rr\u00ebfyer sinqerisht. Kam nj\u00eb breng\u00eb t\u00eb madhe sepse akoma jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb dilem\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb: A b\u00ebra mir\u00eb apo jo?<\/p>\n
N\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb ju do t\u00eb mendonit se shkat\u00ebrrova nj\u00eb familje, por mendoj se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndosh dhe t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjesh njer\u00ebzit e tu m\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt q\u00eb t\u00eb adhurojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb duan shum\u00eb! N\u00ebse do ta vendosnit veten tuaj n\u00eb vendin tim, jam e sigurt q\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnit.<\/p>\n
Kam lindur e jam rritur n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb t\u00eb Re dhe nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb sime e kam z\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri. Akoma kam shoqe t\u00eb cilat i kam patur edhe n\u00eb kop\u00ebsht, edhe n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn tet\u00ebvje\u00e7are dhe fillore. Nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr to \u00ebsht\u00eb shoqja ime, ose m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb themi ajo q\u00eb tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ish-shoqja ime, Linda.<\/p>\n
Linda, q\u00eb e vog\u00ebl ishte nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb \u00e7apk\u00ebne dhe shum\u00eb e hedhur. Vraponte shpejt, b\u00ebrtiste me t\u00eb madhe kur luanim, ishte e shkath\u00ebt. Binte n\u00eb sy madje edhe p\u00ebr bukurin\u00eb e saj, gj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e humbi, por e ruajti edhe me kalimin e viteve.<\/p>\n
Me Lind\u00ebn u rrit\u00ebm si dy motra. Shpeshher\u00eb vinte ajo nga un\u00eb e shpeshher\u00eb flija un\u00eb tek ajo. Kur ishim t\u00eb vogla m\u00eb mbronte gjithnj\u00eb kur m\u00eb ngacmonin shok\u00ebt e lagjes ose kur m\u00eb merrnin lodrat. N\u00eb gjimnaz madje mbaj mend q\u00eb merrte nota m\u00eb t\u00eb mira se un\u00eb, ndaj edhe m\u00eb ndihmonte. Shpeshher\u00eb vinte e studionte me mua. E kishte p\u00ebr borxh t\u00eb ma p\u00ebrs\u00ebriste nj\u00ebqind her\u00eb m\u00ebsimin derisa ta fiksoja! Edhe tani q\u00eb u rrit\u00ebm dilnim shpeshher\u00eb bashk\u00eb. Flisnim p\u00ebr problemet tona dhe k\u00ebshillonim nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn. Ishte nj\u00eb shoqe e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kur dol\u00ebm p\u00ebr kafe m\u00eb tregoi se n\u00eb pun\u00eb kishte ardhur nj\u00eb punonj\u00ebs i ri, i cili i dukej mjaft interesant. Un\u00eb nisa ta pyesja \u201cme kureshtje\u201d dhe v\u00ebrejta q\u00eb ajo po m\u00eb fliste me shum\u00eb pasion. Po m\u00eb thoshte q\u00eb sapo kishte ardhur ai ia kishte ngulur syt\u00eb! Gjithsesi, ne e kaluam me t\u00eb qeshur k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, sepse Linda kishte pothuajse dy vjet e martuar me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb shembullor, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin t\u00eb gjith\u00eb thoshin \u201cLum si ajo q\u00eb do ta marr\u00eb!\u201d, sepse djal\u00eb si ai, rrall\u00eb gjenden sot. Ata kishin 6 vjet q\u00eb njiheshin dhe dashurin\u00eb e tyre m\u00eb n\u00eb fund e kuror\u00ebzuan me martes\u00eb. Edhe pse Linda thot\u00eb q\u00eb, nj\u00eb arsye kryesore e martes\u00ebs ishte f\u00ebmija q\u00eb ajo po priste, prap\u00eb s\u00eb prap\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb mohohet fakti q\u00eb ata dukej se ishin b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin!<\/p>\n
Pasi kalojn\u00eb disa dit\u00eb dol\u00ebm me Lind\u00ebn p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sh\u00ebtitje nga liqeni dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ai djali i pun\u00ebs po i afrohej shum\u00eb edhe madje i kishte propozuar t\u00eb darkonin bashk\u00eb! Un\u00eb e pyeta:<\/p>\n
\u201cPo a e di ai q\u00eb ti je e martuar?\u201d<\/p>\n
Dhe ajo m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n
\u201cPo, tani besoj se po! Un\u00eb kam unaz\u00eb n\u00eb gisht dhe… besoj se do ta ket\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar aty rrotull…\u201d<\/p>\n
I thash\u00eb:<\/p>\n
\u201cMos m\u00eb thuaj q\u00eb po tundohesh!!!\u201d<\/p>\n
Dhe… ajo fatkeq\u00ebsisht m\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigj pozitivisht!<\/p>\n
\u201cO Linda\u201d, i thash\u00eb. \u201cPo \u00e7\u2019jan\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra q\u00eb mendon? Ti je e martuar dhe ke nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort q\u00eb gjithkush ta ka zili, nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl t\u00eb bukur si drita…\u201d.<\/p>\n
Ajo ma ktheu me nj\u00eb prepotenc\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e kisha par\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb tek ajo:<\/p>\n
\u201cOhuuu ti Rezi, gjithnj\u00eb paragjykuese do mbetesh!\u201d<\/p>\n
U habita nga kjo sjellje dhe m\u2019u duk shum\u00eb e ndryshuar! Vazhduam t\u00eb ecnim pa b\u00ebr\u00eb fjal\u00eb dhe pasi kaluan disa minuta, ajo m\u00eb tha:<\/p>\n
\u201cRezi, nuk e di se si ta them, por… un\u00eb e pranova ftes\u00ebn e tij!\u201d<\/p>\n
Q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin e par\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb foli p\u00ebr at\u00eb djal\u00eb sikur e parandjeva q\u00eb do lindte di\u00e7ka mes tyre. Dhe ja ku ndodhi. Ajo m\u00eb tha disa dit\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb se tashm\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb lidhje jasht\u00ebmartesore me t\u00eb. Ai k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb mezi e duronte pasi ishte tip shum\u00eb xheloz, por nuk kishte rrug\u00ebzgjidhje tjet\u00ebr. P\u00ebr martes\u00eb mes t\u00eb dyve as q\u00eb b\u00ebhej fjal\u00eb. Linda m\u00eb thoshte q\u00eb nuk donte ta ndante burrin. Un\u00eb i thosha gjithnj\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb mendohej p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn q\u00eb kishin bashk\u00eb, por ajo gjithnj\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte se ishte rr\u00ebmbyer aq shum\u00eb nga pasioni, saq\u00eb tani nuk dinte \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebnte. I shoqi i saj kishte filluar t\u00eb dyshonte dhe ajo m\u2019u lut nj\u00eb mij\u00eb her\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00ebse m\u00eb pyeste p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb, t\u2019ia mohoja \u00e7do dyshim.<\/p>\n
Ai nj\u00eb dit\u00eb erdhi edhe m\u00eb takoi n\u00eb pun\u00eb. M\u00eb mori p\u00ebr kafe dhe mua ma ndjeu zemra q\u00eb do m\u00eb pyeste p\u00ebr Lind\u00ebn. Ne kishim dal\u00eb edhe her\u00eb t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr kafe, por kur ka qen\u00eb edhe Linda, nd\u00ebrsa tani ai ishte vet\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Q\u00eb me v\u00ebshtrimin e tij d\u00ebshp\u00ebrues kuptova pyetjet q\u00eb donte t\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebnte. M\u00eb tha q\u00eb i kishte marr\u00eb pak a shum\u00eb vesh gj\u00ebrat sepse e ndiente k\u00ebt\u00eb larges\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00eb shoqes, pastaj dyshimet e tij i kishte p\u00ebrforcuar kur kishte kontrolluar celularin e saj.<\/p>\n
M\u2019u desh t\u2019i thoja t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. Shkela betimin q\u00eb i kisha dh\u00ebn\u00eb shoqes sime m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, por kjo n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb t\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortit t\u00eb saj i cili po vuante shum\u00eb nga veprimet e saj. Ai tashm\u00eb i ka k\u00ebrkuar divorcin dhe po lufton me mish e shpirt q\u00eb t\u2019i marr\u00eb edhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebn. Linda i \u00ebsht\u00eb betuar se ka nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb lidhjen e saj me at\u00eb tjetrin dhe k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb t\u00eb lidhen prap\u00eb si n\u00eb fillim, por ai mendon se besimi q\u00eb thyhet, nuk mund t\u00eb ngjitet m\u00eb! M\u00eb thoni pra, a kam b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebkat q\u00eb ia tregova t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb nga Tirana. Mendoj se kam b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebkat shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb ndaj edhe vendosa t\u2019ju shkruaja p\u00ebr t\u2019u rr\u00ebfyer sinqerisht. Kam nj\u00eb breng\u00eb t\u00eb madhe sepse akoma jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb dilem\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb: A b\u00ebra mir\u00eb apo jo? N\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb ju do t\u00eb mendonit se […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[95],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1955","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-rrefime-mekatesh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1955","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1955"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1955\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1955"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1955"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1955"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}