{"id":19001,"date":"2018-07-12T13:03:45","date_gmt":"2018-07-12T11:03:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=19001"},"modified":"2018-07-12T13:03:45","modified_gmt":"2018-07-12T11:03:45","slug":"psikologu-jam-e-ndrojtur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/07\/psikologu-jam-e-ndrojtur\/","title":{"rendered":"Psikologu\/Jam e ndrojtur"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7e, studente. Ndoshta edhe un\u00eb, si gjith\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb e sot\u00ebm, mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb pyetje v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb r\u00ebndomt\u00eb, ama m\u00eb mundon shum\u00eb. K\u00ebrkoj shum\u00eb nga vetja dhe nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. K\u00ebshtu e p\u00ebrmbledh problemin tim. D\u00ebshiroj shum\u00eb t\u00eb njihem me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb rinj, ama nuk afrohem dot, gjithmon\u00eb i shmang bisedat dhe asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e hedh dot e para hapin p\u00ebr t\u00eb filluar nj\u00eb bised\u00eb me dik\u00eb. M\u00eb r\u00ebndon shum\u00eb ky fakt, sepse nganj\u00ebher\u00eb humbas njer\u00ebz v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm nga ky karakter q\u00eb kam. M\u00eb ndodh q\u00eb t\u00eb rastis me djem q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrroj t\u2019i kem n\u00eb krah, ndodh nj\u00eb flirt (her\u00eb-her\u00eb edhe s\u2019e jap veten, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebn) dhe m\u00eb pas harrohet e gjitha. Nuk kaloj dot n\u00eb faz\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, n\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb njohjes. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ndihmoni me nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje se si t\u00eb veproj. Theksoj se nga pamja e jashtme nuk m\u00eb mungon asgj\u00eb, jam t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse dhe e bukur dhe prandaj m\u00eb vjen dhe inat! Faleminderit<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com<\/strong>:- P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! T\u00eb falenderoj q\u00eb ndan me ne k\u00ebt\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim.\u00a0 P\u00ebr hir t\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb nxirren konkluzione t\u00eb sakta vet\u00ebm nga ky p\u00ebrshkrim sepse arsyet t\u00eb cilat na cojn\u00eb n\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb caktuara lidhur me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta dhe variojn\u00eb q\u00eb prej tipareve t\u00eb karakterit e deri tek ngjarje t\u00eb hershme t\u00eb ndodhura n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb, ajo q\u00eb ndodh \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb caktuara t\u00eb jet\u00ebs na l\u00ebn\u00eb gjurm\u00eb. E them k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh cilat mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb arsyet dhe se cfar\u00eb e shkakton k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00ebndrim q\u00eb ke ti p\u00ebrball\u00eb gjinis\u00eb s\u00eb kund\u00ebrt.<\/p>\n<p>Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, ajo q\u00eb duhet gjithashtu t\u00eb kesh t\u00eb qart\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb se jo detyrimisht duhet t\u2019u p\u00eblqesh t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. Ne jetojme n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb ku nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve jan\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore dhe duke qen\u00eb se ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi zgjedhjeje, njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb relativisht \u201cdembel\u00eb\u201d e jo shum\u00eb t\u00eb motivuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb investuar n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. 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