{"id":18640,"date":"2018-05-22T12:51:20","date_gmt":"2018-05-22T10:51:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=18640"},"modified":"2018-05-22T12:51:20","modified_gmt":"2018-05-22T10:51:20","slug":"pse-hakmerren-meshkujt-kur-refuzohen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/05\/pse-hakmerren-meshkujt-kur-refuzohen\/","title":{"rendered":"Pse hakmerren meshkujt kur refuzohen?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje psikologe! Dua t\u00eb di, a duhet t\u00eb hakmerret nj\u00eb mashkull kundrejt femr\u00ebs vet\u00ebm sepse s\u2019ka b\u00ebr\u00eb seks? Kaq l\u00ebndim \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr mashkullin refuzimi i femr\u00ebs? T\u00eb b\u00ebsh intriga, t\u00eb gjesh numrin e ish-t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs, ta shqet\u00ebsosh me numra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, me telefonata me z\u00ebra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb&#8230; ta ofendosh, t\u00eb shpif\u00ebsh, t\u00eb kurdis\u00ebsh takime me shok\u00ebt e tu n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet telefonit, gjoja p\u00ebr ngat\u00ebrres\u00eb numri e pastaj, t\u2019i k\u00ebrkosh q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb seks me shok\u00ebt e tu, me mashtrime apo joshje me para apo edhe ta k\u00ebrc\u00ebnosh me jet\u00ebn e saj apo t\u00eb familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb saj ngaq\u00eb s\u2019b\u00ebn seks me ata q\u00eb ti fut&#8230; Po kur e shqet\u00ebson me numra t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm telefoni dhe sms banale, a quhet hakmarrje? Shkaku i ndarjes s\u00eb k\u00ebtij djali e k\u00ebsaj vajze \u00ebsht\u00eb se s\u2019kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb seks. Djali donte seks dhe e ka k\u00ebrkuar n\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00ebnyra q\u00ebllimin e tij. Vajza donte premtim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr martes\u00eb s\u2019besonte ne dashurine e tij. \u00c7\u2019vler\u00ebsim i jepni ju k\u00ebsaj lidhjeje?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Juliana Dulla, psikologe, email julianadulla67@gmail.com, 0699670329:-<\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia n\u00eb \u00e7ift, ashtu si \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie tjet\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb e nd\u00ebrsjellt\u00eb dhe e p\u00ebrqafuar nga t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt. Veprimet, afrimiteti deri te marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia intime vijn\u00eb si pasoj\u00eb e d\u00ebshir\u00ebs t\u00eb dyve, nuk mjafton t\u00eb doje vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebri fejese apo tjetri me imponim t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb kryerje t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale. Ekzistojn\u00eb individ t\u00eb cil\u00ebt me t\u00eb drejt\u00eb apo pa t\u00eb drejt\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb synuar apo d\u00ebshiruar dhe n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ata refuzohen krenaria e tyre c\u00ebnohet. B\u00ebhen obsesiv pas d\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre duke arritur edhen\u00ebe ekstrem si n\u00eb rastin tuaj. Arsyet q\u00eb e \u00e7ojn\u00eb personin n\u00eb fjal\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb veprime k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuese mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb shumta: Disa individ\u00eb mendojn\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb duan edhe pse nuk u p\u00ebrket, s\u00ebrish b\u00ebjn\u00eb tentativa t\u00eb shumta p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur q\u00ebllimin e tyre. Nj\u00eb kategori tjet\u00ebr personash jan\u00eb edhe ata t\u00eb cilet marrin k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi dh\u00eb k\u00ebnaqin egon e tyre\u00a0 kur \u201cdhunojn\u00eb\u201d t\u00eb drejtat dhe jet\u00ebn e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. P\u00ebr sa i p\u00ebrket pyetjes q\u00eb a mundet dikush t\u00eb veproje n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb?<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t\u2019ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje psikologe! Dua t\u00eb di, a duhet t\u00eb hakmerret nj\u00eb mashkull kundrejt femr\u00ebs vet\u00ebm sepse s\u2019ka b\u00ebr\u00eb seks? Kaq l\u00ebndim \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr mashkullin refuzimi i femr\u00ebs? T\u00eb b\u00ebsh intriga, t\u00eb gjesh numrin e ish-t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs, ta shqet\u00ebsosh me numra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, me telefonata me z\u00ebra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb&#8230; ta ofendosh, t\u00eb shpif\u00ebsh, t\u00eb kurdis\u00ebsh takime [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":18422,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1713],"class_list":["post-18640","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-juliana"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18640","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18640"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18640\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}