{"id":18545,"date":"2018-05-15T12:44:44","date_gmt":"2018-05-15T10:44:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=18545"},"modified":"2018-05-15T12:44:44","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T10:44:44","slug":"pse-ndodh-keshtu-me-ne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/05\/pse-ndodh-keshtu-me-ne\/","title":{"rendered":"Pse ndodh k\u00ebshtu me ne?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam nj\u00eb psikolog nga jugu i Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb. Desha t\u00eb pyesja nj\u00eb nga koleget e mija q\u00eb shkruajn\u00eb n\u00eb gazet\u00ebn tuaj dhe japin mendime \u00e7do jav\u00eb. N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, njer\u00ebzit shkruajn\u00eb letra, mesazhe por kontaktin e p\u00ebrballjes me nj\u00eb psikolog e kan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Shkojn\u00eb te psikologu shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos th\u00ebn\u00eb fare, nd\u00ebrsa jasht\u00eb shtetit, p\u00ebr gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, kontaktojn\u00eb direkt me psikologun. Pasoj\u00eb e kujt \u00ebsht\u00eb se at\u00ebhere njer\u00ebzit s\u2019e kishin iden\u00eb e psikologut apo nga ndonj\u00eb faktor tjet\u00ebr? Me respekt, psikologu nga jugu!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/strong> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje koleg! T\u00eb falwnderoj p\u00ebr pyetjen, e cila pasqyron nj\u00eb aktualitet dhe pjes\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme t\u00eb pun\u00ebs s\u00eb psikologut n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n<p>E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb faktor\u00ebt q\u00eb nxisin apo pengojn\u00eb vajtjen tek psikologu dhe ndjekjen e terapis\u00eb, jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme; sa njer\u00ebzore, q\u00eb i gjejm\u00eb n\u00eb cdo popullat\u00eb, ashtu dhe kulturore, q\u00eb ndeshen n\u00eb vende t\u00eb caktuara, bazuar mbi fizionomin\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjithshme t\u00eb kombeve t\u00eb vecanta.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se realisht, p\u00ebr k\u00ebdo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb marrja e vendimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar tek psikologu dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019i besuar atij shqet\u00ebsimin q\u00eb e mundon. Ky hezitim nuk ndodh n\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb vendin ton\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjur pyetjes t\u00ebnde, m\u00eb posht\u00eb do t\u00eb listohen disa argumente, se pse e kemi t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb tek psikologu, sipas vizionit ton\u00eb komb\u00ebtar.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, psikologu \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb profesion relativisht i ri n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, krahasuar me nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb profesionesh t\u00eb tjera. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ne mund t\u00eb mos e kemi kultur\u00ebn e duhur p\u00ebr t\u2019ju drejtuar nj\u00eb profesionisti t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor, sepse nuk e njohim objektivisht shum\u00eb mir\u00eb rolin e tij; fakt q\u00eb rrjedhimisht sjell dhe nj\u00eb besim m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt tek ky profesionist. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, shpeshher\u00eb nga nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e madhe e popullsis\u00eb paragjykohet dhe stigmatizohet gabimisht ai q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon k\u00ebshillimin me nj\u00eb psikolog, kur realisht po b\u00ebn gj\u00ebn\u00eb e duhur p\u00ebr veten dhe jet\u00ebn e tij.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t\u2019ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam nj\u00eb psikolog nga jugu i Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb. Desha t\u00eb pyesja nj\u00eb nga koleget e mija q\u00eb shkruajn\u00eb n\u00eb gazet\u00ebn tuaj dhe japin mendime \u00e7do jav\u00eb. N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, njer\u00ebzit shkruajn\u00eb letra, mesazhe por kontaktin e p\u00ebrballjes me nj\u00eb psikolog e kan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Shkojn\u00eb te psikologu shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos th\u00ebn\u00eb fare, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1070,1194],"class_list":["post-18545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18545"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18545\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}