{"id":18421,"date":"2018-04-25T14:33:31","date_gmt":"2018-04-25T12:33:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=18421"},"modified":"2018-04-25T14:33:31","modified_gmt":"2018-04-25T12:33:31","slug":"kam-frike-nga-vdekja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/04\/kam-frike-nga-vdekja\/","title":{"rendered":"Kam frik\u00eb nga vdekja"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 17 vje\u00e7e. N\u00eb qytetin tim nuk gjendet ndonj\u00eb psikolog, ndaj e ndiej shum\u00eb nevoj\u00ebn t\u2019ju shkruaj, sepse kam nj\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb ka filluar q\u00eb para dy viteve. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb isha me mamin te dyqani dhe po mendoja si gjithmon\u00eb vdekjen. Kisha d\u00ebgjuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb vdiq dhe q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb thoshte: \u201cJa, ta martoj edhe djalin dhe pastaj le t\u00eb vdes\u201d. Kisha d\u00ebgjuar edhe mamin q\u00eb tregonte p\u00ebr daj\u00ebn q\u00eb ka vdekur, i cili thoshte gjithmon\u00eb: \u201cJa, vdiq n\u00ebna, do m\u00eb marr\u00eb me vete\u201d. N\u00eb ato momente fillova edhe un\u00eb t\u00eb mendoja me nj\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. Un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb g\u00ebnjej kurr\u00eb. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb g\u00ebnjej dik\u00eb, e takoj s\u00ebrish dhe ia them t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. M\u00eb duket sikur b\u00ebj m\u00ebkat, sikur m\u00eb d\u00ebnon Zoti. Nuk e mbaj dot p\u00ebrbrenda. Jam shum\u00eb ndryshe nga m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ndihmoni, m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloni dhe m\u00eb thoni si \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo situata ime? Sa e kujtoj qaj dhe sa her\u00eb ka festa, nuk festoj aspak. M\u00eb zuri frika sikur me nj\u00eb dat\u00eb 13 do t\u00eb vdes dhe at\u00eb dit\u00eb s\u2019m\u00eb z\u00eb gjumi asnj\u00ebher\u00eb&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Juliana Dulla, psikologe, email <a href=\"mailto:julianadulla67@gmail.com\">julianadulla67@gmail.com<\/a>, tel 0699670329:-<\/strong> Frika nga vdekja ekziston te t\u00eb gjith\u00eb individ\u00ebt Kur frik\u00ebrat thellohen ato cenojn\u00eb ekuilibrin e jetes\u00ebs.N\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre kur frika nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e tepruar ajo quhet frik\u00ea e sh\u00ebndetshme p\u00ebr arsye se e mban njeriun n\u00eb alarm p\u00ebr tu mbrojtur nga rreziqet. Frik\u00ebrat p\u00ebr konceptin e vdekjes jan\u00eb disa: Frik\u00eb nga e panjohura, askush nuk e di se \u00e7do ndodh\u00eb me t\u00eb pas vdekjes, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb besimit t\u00eb tyre mundohen te marin dhe shpjegimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb. Frik\u00eb nga mos ekzistenca. Mendojn\u00eb q\u00eb kur t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb do harrohen, shfaqin shqet\u00ebsim p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb do len\u00eb pas.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t\u2019ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 17 vje\u00e7e. N\u00eb qytetin tim nuk gjendet ndonj\u00eb psikolog, ndaj e ndiej shum\u00eb nevoj\u00ebn t\u2019ju shkruaj, sepse kam nj\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb ka filluar q\u00eb para dy viteve. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb isha me mamin te dyqani dhe po mendoja si gjithmon\u00eb vdekjen. Kisha d\u00ebgjuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb vdiq [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":18422,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1713],"class_list":["post-18421","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-juliana"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18421","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18421"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18421\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18422"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18421"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18421"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18421"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}