{"id":18275,"date":"2018-03-24T14:55:54","date_gmt":"2018-03-24T13:55:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=18275"},"modified":"2018-03-24T14:55:54","modified_gmt":"2018-03-24T13:55:54","slug":"psikologu-si-ta-largoj-pikellimin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/03\/psikologu-si-ta-largoj-pikellimin\/","title":{"rendered":"Psikologu\/ Si ta largoj pik\u00ebllimin?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>E dashur psikologe jam Bleona. M\u00eb ka ndodhur di\u00e7ka. Jam mashtruar nga nj\u00eb person. Mendoja se ai m\u00eb donte, por ai m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, m\u00eb ka l\u00ebnduar shum\u00eb dhe tani e kam t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoj jet\u00ebn. Si do eci p\u00ebrpara n\u00eb jet\u00eb? Kam harruar si \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh e lumtur dhe e qet\u00eb. Nuk gjej rehati aspak, t\u00ebr\u00eb koh\u00ebn rri e qaj edhe p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra koti. Ju lutem, m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloni, si t\u2019a largoj pik\u00ebllimin dhe nervozizmin q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm n\u00eb \u00e7do minut\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Fillimisht t\u00eb falenderoj q\u00eb ndan me ne shqet\u00ebsimin t\u00ebnd. \u00a0\u00cbsht\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjimet t\u00eb cilat vijn\u00eb nga ndarjet t\u00eb sjellin shum\u00eb munges\u00eb, trishtim, boshll\u00ebk dhe ndjesi refuzimi. Sidomos kur koha e kaluar me dik\u00eb ka qen\u00eb e gjat\u00eb dhe pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e larta; at\u00ebher\u00eb dhe zhg\u00ebnjimi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i madh dhe dhimbja m\u00eb e thell\u00eb. Natyrisht q\u00eb l\u00ebndimet prej lidhjeve dashurore jan\u00eb ato t\u00eb cilat l\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjurm\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohen, sidomos kur n\u00eb mes ka element\u00eb t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjimit, braktisjes, e kur k\u00ebto ndodhin n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re.\u00a0 P\u00ebr nga natyra q\u00eb ka marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia me partnerin, ndryshe nga marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tjera shoq\u00ebrore apo profesionale, kur p\u00ebrfundon sjell m\u00eb shum\u00eb kosto emocionale sepse preken m\u00eb shum\u00eb aspekte t\u00eb vetes ton\u00eb. \u00c7do ndarje \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe shkakton ndjenja negative, duke e kthyer mendjen shpeshher\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00ebn dhe kujtimet e bukura t\u00eb kaluara me at\u00eb njeri q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm normal q\u00eb i ndodh pothuajse gjithkujt n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ngjashme, e q\u00eb nuk b\u00ebn gj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr vet\u00ebm prodhon m\u00eb shum\u00eb trishtim dhe vetmi.\u00a0 Megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb mir\u00eb, natyra njer\u00ebzore \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrb\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e aft\u00eb t\u00eb gjej\u00eb burime dhe forma t\u00eb shumta p\u00ebr t\u00eb shprehur dashurin\u00eb, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e cila ka shum\u00eb dimensione, trajta dhe destinacione.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t\u2019ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E dashur psikologe jam Bleona. M\u00eb ka ndodhur di\u00e7ka. Jam mashtruar nga nj\u00eb person. Mendoja se ai m\u00eb donte, por ai m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, m\u00eb ka l\u00ebnduar shum\u00eb dhe tani e kam t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdoj jet\u00ebn. Si do eci p\u00ebrpara n\u00eb jet\u00eb? Kam harruar si \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh e lumtur dhe e [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1070],"class_list":["post-18275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18275"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18275\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}