{"id":18109,"date":"2018-03-12T15:07:18","date_gmt":"2018-03-12T14:07:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=18109"},"modified":"2018-03-12T15:07:18","modified_gmt":"2018-03-12T14:07:18","slug":"psikologu-nuk-kam-deshire-te-flas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/03\/psikologu-nuk-kam-deshire-te-flas\/","title":{"rendered":"Psikologu\/Nuk kam d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb flas!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>E nderuar psikologe, ka ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb po mundon nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb mendoj se e kam me veten time. Nuk kam pik\u00eb d\u00ebshire t\u00eb flas ose ndjej p\u00ebrtes\u00eb. Kjo gj\u00eb po m\u00eb ndodh koh\u00ebt e fundit, nd\u00ebrsa m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara nuk kam qen\u00eb k\u00ebshtu. Zakonisht, m\u00eb shum\u00eb kam d\u00ebgjuar sesa kam folur, por m\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb qeshja me ato q\u00eb thosha kur ia fusja kot ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Po ashtu, shpesh debatoja me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm p\u00ebr tema t\u00eb ndryshme, por tani po ndryshon gjith\u00e7ka, ka koh\u00eb q\u00eb ndihem keq dhe sikur nuk kam \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb them. Personi me t\u00eb cilin jam mjaft e af\u00ebrt, p\u00ebr shum\u00eb biseda m\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtonte gjithmon\u00eb. Edhe pse e dija q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ashtu si thoshte, mundohesha ta bindja, por kot, derisa nj\u00eb dit\u00eb s\u2019e duroja m\u00eb. Si duket, kjo e r\u00ebndoi problemin tim dhe u b\u00ebra akoma m\u00eb keq. Tani edhe me t\u00eb flas me \u201cpo\u201d, \u201cjo\u201d dhe nuk e kund\u00ebrshtoj m\u00eb, nuk jap asnj\u00eb mendim timin p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb. M\u00eb duket sikur m\u00eb kan\u00eb humbur fjal\u00ebt e s\u2019i gjej dot. Edhe kur dua t\u00eb them di\u00e7ka, mendoj me vete: \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00ebsoj, si e thash\u00eb, si jo, s\u2019do t\u2019ia v\u00ebr\u00eb kush veshin fjal\u00ebs sime\u201d. Dua t\u00eb dal nga kjo gjendje q\u00eb po m\u00eb mundon, q\u00eb po m\u00eb vret \u00e7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb, por nuk di si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj. M\u00eb jepni ndonj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb, ju lutem. Si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj? Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb flisja edhe budallall\u00ebqe, vet\u00ebm t\u00eb ndjeja d\u00ebshir\u00ebn q\u00eb po thoja di\u00e7ka.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Juliana Dulla, psikologe, e-mail julianadulla67@gmail.com, 0699670329:- <\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, ju falenderoj p\u00ebr letr\u00ebn!Vetvler\u00ebsimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb proces I cili zhvillohet te individi q\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria e deri n\u00eb vazhdim dhe b\u00ebhet pjes\u00eb e karakterit t\u00eb tij. Disa njer\u00ebz kritikojn\u00eb veten e tyre vazhdimisht sepse me kritika jan\u00eb rritur , gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebn jan\u00eb ktitikuar n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb motivuar apo k\u00ebshilluar. Ose jan\u00eb faj\u00ebsuar dhe d\u00ebnuar shpesh p\u00ebr gabimet e tyre.Cdo individ brenda tij ka aft\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb rrisi vetvler\u00ebsimin, t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb veten nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht krijon siguri n\u00eb t\u00eb shprehur dhe n\u00eb veprime. Po i p\u00ebrgjigjem letr\u00ebs tuaj me an\u00ebn e disa k\u00ebshillave: Gjat\u00eb bisedave tregoni seriozitet p\u00ebr ato q\u00eb thoni dhe mos i hidhni posht\u00eb vet\u00ebm pse dikush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dakord me mendimin tuaj , mendimi nj\u00ebrit edhe pse nuk \u00ebshte i nj\u00ebjt\u00eb me t\u00eb tjetrit gjithmon\u00eb duhet respektuar.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t\u2019ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E nderuar psikologe, ka ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb po mundon nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb mendoj se e kam me veten time. Nuk kam pik\u00eb d\u00ebshire t\u00eb flas ose ndjej p\u00ebrtes\u00eb. Kjo gj\u00eb po m\u00eb ndodh koh\u00ebt e fundit, nd\u00ebrsa m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara nuk kam qen\u00eb k\u00ebshtu. Zakonisht, m\u00eb shum\u00eb kam d\u00ebgjuar sesa kam folur, por m\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":17887,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[364],"class_list":["post-18109","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-psikologu-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18109","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18109"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18109\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17887"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18109"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18109"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18109"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}