{"id":18002,"date":"2018-03-07T13:12:42","date_gmt":"2018-03-07T12:12:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=18002"},"modified":"2018-03-07T13:13:47","modified_gmt":"2018-03-07T12:13:47","slug":"do-behet-xheloze-kur-te-linde-femija-psikologe-lorela-garuli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/03\/do-behet-xheloze-kur-te-linde-femija-psikologe-lorela-garuli\/","title":{"rendered":"Do b\u00ebhet xheloze kur t\u00eb lind\u00eb f\u00ebmija?\/Psikologe Lorela Garuli"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>E dashur psikologe, un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb kat\u00ebr vje\u00e7are dhe jam n\u00eb pritje t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb dyt\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb vij\u00eb shum\u00eb shpejt n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson dhe m\u00eb b\u00ebn merak \u00ebsht\u00eb reagimi i vajz\u00ebs time kur t\u00eb lind\u00eb bebi, kam frik\u00eb mos b\u00ebhet xheloze dhe t\u2019a p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb keq. A mund t\u00eb m\u00eb jepni disa k\u00ebshilla se si duhet t\u00eb sillem me t\u00eb kur t\u00eb lind\u00eb f\u00ebmija i vog\u00ebl? Faleminderit.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur! T\u00eb falenderoj q\u00eb ndan me ne shqet\u00ebsimin t\u00ebnd por dhe q\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht ke sjell\u00eb n\u00eb fokus nj\u00eb tematik\u00eb e cila prek nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb familjeve kur jan\u00eb n\u00eb pritjen e \u00ebmb\u00ebl, sic je ti tani.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr hir t\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs, mosha 4-vjecare n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe vajza jote, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb ku f\u00ebmija p\u00ebrjeton shum\u00eb ndjenja egocentrizmi, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb kujdessh\u00ebm kur po vjen nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i dyt\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb. Puna me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn p\u00ebr pritjen e motr\u00ebs q\u00eb po vjen n\u00eb jet\u00eb realisht duhet t\u00eb nis\u00eb her\u00ebt, q\u00eb n\u00eb castet e para t\u00eb shtatzanis\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit duhet ta ndajn\u00eb lajmin me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, duke ia treguar q\u00eb her\u00ebt dhe duke e nxitur t\u00eb jet\u00eb pjes\u00eb aktive e parap\u00ebrgatitjeve p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn q\u00eb do t\u00eb vij\u00eb, duke i folur p\u00ebr t\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb nj\u00eb ngjarje e panjohur. Mund\u00ebsisht, n\u00ebse keni ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrme apo mikesh\u00eb q\u00eb sapo ka lindur, mund t\u00eb shkoni ta vizitoni me vajz\u00ebn q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb njihet m\u00eb nga af\u00ebr me foshnjen.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t\u2019ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E dashur psikologe, un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb kat\u00ebr vje\u00e7are dhe jam n\u00eb pritje t\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00ebl t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb dyt\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb vij\u00eb shum\u00eb shpejt n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson dhe m\u00eb b\u00ebn merak \u00ebsht\u00eb reagimi i vajz\u00ebs time kur t\u00eb lind\u00eb bebi, kam frik\u00eb mos b\u00ebhet xheloze dhe t\u2019a p\u00ebrjetoj\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[364],"class_list":["post-18002","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-psikologu-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18002","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18002"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18002\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18002"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18002"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18002"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}