{"id":17923,"date":"2018-02-19T12:41:33","date_gmt":"2018-02-19T11:41:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17923"},"modified":"2018-02-19T12:41:33","modified_gmt":"2018-02-19T11:41:33","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/02\/pyetje-pergjigje-13\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-P\u00ebrgjigje"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Udh\u00ebkryq<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cbsht\u00eb epilektik dhe me rreh<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Jam e lidhur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe n\u00eb fillim raportet tona ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira.\u00a0 Partneri im vuan nga epilepsia. Ne duhemi shum\u00eb me njeri-tjetrin por shpesh kemi mosmarr\u00ebveshje dhe n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb partneri im nervozohet m\u00eb ofendon shum\u00eb. Sjelljet e tij ndryshojn\u00eb dhe dy her\u00eb ka ushtruar edhe dhun\u00eb fizike mbi mua. Problemi tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb se asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk mundohet t\u00eb m\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhet si thot\u00eb ai. Tani d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb edhe fejes\u00ebn por kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb se nuk do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb aspak gjendja e tij. Prej disa koh\u00ebsh jam njohur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i cili edhe pse e di q\u00eb jam e lidhur prap nuk leshon pe. Edhe pse s\u2019i kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb asnj\u00eb shpres\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i kuptush\u00ebm dhe i qet\u00eb, ose t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn ashtu duket. Jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb keqe dhe friksohem se n\u00ebse un\u00eb fejohem ky djal\u00eb mund t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb di\u00e7ka vetes n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr nuk jam e sigurt\u00eb se sa \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb t\u00eb fejohem me at\u00eb njeri apo jo.Un\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb dhe s\u2019mund t\u00eb heq dor\u00eb nga ai por m\u00eb mban nj\u00eb lloj frik\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb madhe edhe pse partneri im kur \u00ebsht\u00eb\u00a0 i qet\u00eb sillet shum\u00eb mir\u00eb me mua.\u00a0 Ju lutem mos ofendoni vet\u00ebm me jepni nj\u00eb mendim sepse jam n\u00eb dilem\u00eb. Faleminderit!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-B\u00ebj zgjedhje sa je n\u00eb koh\u00eb. Kur e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb dy her\u00eb dhun\u00ebn mund t\u2019a b\u00ebj\u00eb prap n\u00eb vazhdim. -Mos e l\u00ebndoni veten se me von\u00eb vijn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e ky ndoshta ushtron dhun\u00eb edhe mbi to.<strong> Matilda<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-L\u00ebre at\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb. Boll se je i s\u00ebmur\u00eb rri urt\u00eb, po p\u00ebrdor edhe dhun\u00eb mor pis. <strong>Franco<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ne sepse ti e di \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb thot\u00eb zemra, por n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast duhet t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh dhe trurin.<strong> Roza<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Mjafton q\u00eb t\u00eb ka dhunuar dy her\u00eb akoma rri \u00a0me t\u00eb apo do t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh n\u00eb lajme. Je n\u00eb koh\u00eb thuaj ik zhduku me gjith\u00eb nervat e tij, nj\u00eb jet\u00eb kemi. T\u00eb uroj gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat.<strong> Maria<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Blet\u00eb pun\u00ebtore qenke,\u00a0 paske dy kunguj n\u00ebn nj\u00eb sqetull.<strong> Araniti<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Po me njerin shko dit\u00ebn me tjetrin rri nat\u00ebn, \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb t\u00eb themi ne <strong>\u00a0Djali simpatik<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; A ka ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb keni dashur ta thoni me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebrtisni, t\u00eb ngrini z\u00ebrin n\u00eb familje, n\u00eb pun\u00eb apo kudo dhe s\u2019e keni b\u00ebr\u00eb? P\u00ebrse? Lola.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Kam dashur shum\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb them di\u00e7ka me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb por jam rimenduar dhe nuk e kam th\u00ebn\u00eb. Megi<\/p>\n<p>-Eh sa her\u00eb, por k\u00ebtu askush nuk t\u00eb d\u00ebgjon. Landi<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Po sikur t\u00eb them q\u00eb nuk d\u00ebgjon njeri do m\u00eb besosh Lola? Andi<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Sa vite thuaj kam, por nuk m\u2019a mban. Edi<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Kam nj\u00ebr\u00ebn n\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb dua t\u2019i fus nj\u00eb dru t\u00eb mir\u00eb por s\u2019ke \u00e7\u2019b\u00ebn se do humb pun\u00ebn. Anisa<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t\u2019ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Udh\u00ebkryq \u00cbsht\u00eb epilektik dhe me rreh Jam e lidhur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe n\u00eb fillim raportet tona ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira.\u00a0 Partneri im vuan nga epilepsia. Ne duhemi shum\u00eb me njeri-tjetrin por shpesh kemi mosmarr\u00ebveshje dhe n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb partneri im nervozohet m\u00eb ofendon shum\u00eb. Sjelljet e tij ndryshojn\u00eb dhe dy her\u00eb ka ushtruar edhe [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[1237],"class_list":["post-17923","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","tag-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17923","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17923"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17923\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17923"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17923"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17923"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}