{"id":17888,"date":"2018-02-13T15:51:06","date_gmt":"2018-02-13T14:51:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17888"},"modified":"2018-02-13T15:51:06","modified_gmt":"2018-02-13T14:51:06","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-12","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/02\/pyetje-pergjigje-12\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-P\u00ebrgjigje"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Udh\u00ebkryqi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Si t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj nga ky njeri?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Jam 30 vje\u00e7e, e martuar e me 3 f\u00ebmij\u00eb, burrin e kam pijanec, zakonisht nuk punon. Kur punon, pi dhe ha p\u00ebr vete n\u00ebp\u00ebr lokale. Na torturon t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, mua m\u00eb bie me \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb, m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebrzit jeta me t\u00eb, nuk po mundem ta duroj m\u00eb. Kam frik\u00eb ta denoncoj, sepse deri kur t\u00eb zgjidh\u00eb policia \u00e7\u00ebshtjen ai m\u00eb vret fare ashtu si\u00e7 kan\u00eb vrar\u00eb gjith\u00eb femrat deri tani. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt s\u2019kan\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb han\u00eb. I kam t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl dhe s\u2019i l\u00eb dot vet\u00ebm. Familja e burrit \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e keqe, m\u2019i rrahin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt sa her\u00eb u vjen rasti. Ju lutem, m\u00eb ndihmoni, m\u00eb thoni si t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj nga ky njeri, ju lutem t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve? Si t\u00eb veproj? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>-K\u00ebrko mb\u00ebshtetjen e familjes t\u00ebnde. Shko n\u00eb polici e mos lejo njeri t\u00eb t\u00eb prek\u00eb me dor\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tu. Mos ki frik\u00eb t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb polici. Tek e fundit, nuk ke asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb humbur. <strong>Sonila<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; P\u00ebr mendimin tim, merr nj\u00eb fotoksin\u00eb dhe hidhja ta haj\u00eb se nuk ke zgjidhje tjet\u00ebr, m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq. <strong>Xhevo <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk ta zgjidh policia, dil jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpie me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, mbylli brenda burrin me njer\u00ebzit e vet dhe v\u00ebri flak\u00ebn, digji si miun. <strong>Kejda <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Shko te familja jote me gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ose b\u00ebj letrat e divorcit gati dhe shko n\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me qira, se nuk shtyhet e gjith\u00eb jeta me dhun\u00eb. <strong>Enisa <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Menj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb ankohesh n\u00eb polici. N\u00ebse s\u2019ke mb\u00ebshtetje n\u00eb polici, mos e torturo veten m\u00eb shum\u00eb. <strong>Eldo<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Bisedo me prind\u00ebrit, moj vajz\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00eb ky siklet q\u00eb mban mbi vete? \u00c7do gj\u00eb, sado e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb qoft\u00eb, e ka nj\u00eb zgjidhje. <strong>Fatbardha<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; M\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq, ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk e konceptojn\u00eb fjalen familje. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta jon\u00eb dhe e gjith\u00eb lufta p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt b\u00ebhet. P\u00ebr mendimin tim, duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkosh ndihm\u00eb te qendrat sociale p\u00ebr grat\u00eb e papuna ose t\u00eb dhunuara. Jam e sigurt\u00eb se ata do t\u00eb t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb dhe e vetme s\u2019ke \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh.<strong> Silva. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; K\u00ebrko ndihm\u00eb nga policia dhe b\u00ebje urgjent. <strong>Marigleni <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; M\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb keq p\u00ebr ju, por zgjedhja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ta denonconi n\u00eb polici, merr guxim e shko sa m\u00eb par\u00eb. <strong>Romina <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; E lexova k\u00ebt\u00eb problem dhe m\u00eb erdhi shum\u00eb keq. Un\u00eb jam baba vet\u00eb, kam 3 goca dhe e ndihmoj gruan n\u00eb \u00e7do aspekt edhe pse jemi shtres\u00eb normale, nuk kemi ndonj\u00eb luks t\u00eb madh por kemi komunikim dhe jetojm\u00eb. Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb e shenjt\u00eb mbi t\u00eb gjitha. <strong>Pllumbi <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pyetje t\u00eb reja<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; A ka ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb keni dashur ta thoni me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebrtisni, t\u00eb ngrini z\u00ebrin n\u00eb familje, n\u00eb pun\u00eb apo kudo dhe s\u2019e keni b\u00ebr\u00eb? P\u00ebrse? Lola.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Sa vler\u00eb ka p\u00ebr ju patriotizmi? Bashkimi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; M\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh shembullin apo opinionin, cila z\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb vend? Dioni.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-Mendoni se sporti \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb biznes politik tani q\u00eb ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb mes edhe politika? Genci<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-A duhet t\u00eb hiqen nga tregu shqiptar monedhat e huaja? Stavros<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-N\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishit t\u00eb pasur do t\u00eb kishit b\u00ebr\u00eb\u2026Un\u00eb do kisha ikur larg nga k\u00ebto. Flavja<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb muzika q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqen t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni m\u00eb tep\u00ebr kur jeni t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitur? Mua m\u00eb p\u00eblqen shum\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj balada. Anisa<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-A mendoni se kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb taksa dhe biznesit t\u00eb vog\u00ebl? Nuk din\u00eb nga cila an\u00eb t\u00eb na han\u00eb. Ilir <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-Koh\u00ebt e fundit martesa po kthehet n\u00eb nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim p\u00ebr t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, pse? M\u00eb shum\u00eb po ndahen se po martohen. Domenika<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-\u00c7\u2019mendim keni p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn me komb\u00ebsi t\u00eb huaj? Mendoni se funksionon m\u00eb mir\u00eb? Megi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj fare, mjafton njeriu. <strong>Elda<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Nuk ka asnj\u00eb problem kur n\u00eb mes \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria. <strong>Miranda<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Un\u00eb nuk e di se se kam provuar. <strong>Mondi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Nuk besoj se do funksiononte sepse nuk kemi t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn tradit\u00eb. <strong>Fatos<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-T\u00eb huajt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb puntor\u00eb dhe nuk besoj se do i p\u00eblqente t\u00eb martoheshin me shqiptar\u00eb q\u00eb e kan\u00eb mendjen t\u00ebr\u00eb dit\u00ebn n\u00ebp\u00ebr kafene. <strong>Mirjan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Po besoj se do funksiononte se kemi traditat q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme dhe k\u00ebshtu jeta nuk b\u00ebhen monotone sepse do shk\u00ebmbenim kultur\u00ebn.<strong> Elvira<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-N\u00eb rast se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri i mir\u00eb dhe i kuptuesh\u00ebm pse jo mos funksiononte. <strong>Sidorela<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Martes\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe ajo s\u2019ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. <strong>Elsa<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Nuk jam paargjykues por n\u00eb rast se funksionon nuk ka pse t\u00eb ket\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe. <strong>Olti<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Nj\u00eb mikesha ime \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar me Italian dhe ndihet shum\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqur nga martesa e saj. <strong>Jeta<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t\u2019ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Udh\u00ebkryqi \u00a0 Si t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj nga ky njeri? Jam 30 vje\u00e7e, e martuar e me 3 f\u00ebmij\u00eb, burrin e kam pijanec, zakonisht nuk punon. Kur punon, pi dhe ha p\u00ebr vete n\u00ebp\u00ebr lokale. Na torturon t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve, mua m\u00eb bie me \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb, m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebrzit jeta me t\u00eb, nuk po mundem [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[322],"class_list":["post-17888","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","tag-pyetje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17888","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17888"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17888\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17888"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17888"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17888"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}