{"id":17886,"date":"2018-02-13T15:48:36","date_gmt":"2018-02-13T14:48:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17886"},"modified":"2018-02-13T15:48:36","modified_gmt":"2018-02-13T14:48:36","slug":"psikologu-me-ofendojne-se-flas-shume","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/02\/psikologu-me-ofendojne-se-flas-shume\/","title":{"rendered":"Psikologu\/M\u00eb ofendojn\u00eb se flas shum\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"

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E dashur psikologe si fillim p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 30 vje\u00e7e dhe dua t\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb pyetje lidhur me nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim timin. E meta ime \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb kur flas me njer\u00ebzit i shpjegoj gj\u00ebrat me shum\u00eb detaje dhe kur dua t\u00eb shpjegoj di\u00e7ka m\u00eb ndodh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmend edhe persona q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb prezent gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs dhe kjo m\u00eb ka krijuar konflikte me njer\u00ebzit dhe m\u00eb thon\u00eb q\u00eb jam shum\u00eb llafazane dhe e pabes\u00eb sepse un\u00eb flas t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn dhe kam humbur shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz nga kjo gj\u00eb por un\u00eb nuk mundem ta shmang dot vesin q\u00eb kam sepse k\u00ebshtu jam m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb flas. Un\u00eb nuk g\u00ebnjej dhe gjithmon\u00eb tregohem e drejt\u00eb me njer\u00ebzit e se kuptoj pse ata sillen me mua keq duke m\u00eb ofenduar p\u00ebr mir\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb p\u00ebrcjell. Ju lutem m\u00eb jepni nj\u00eb mendim.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Juliana Dulla, psikologe, e-mail <\/strong>julianadulla67@gmail.com<\/strong><\/a>, 0699670329: <\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje!M\u00ebnyra e komunikimit ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje komplekse sepse jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb shprehuri. Lodhja nga e p\u00ebrditshmja i b\u00ebn njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb jo t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm apo t\u00eb duruar p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar nj\u00eb bised\u00eb deri n\u00eb fund. Ndodh edhe q\u00eb bisedat t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb n\u00eb interesin e t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebve. Shpjegimi i detajeve tregon se ju u kushtoni r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi edhe gj\u00ebrave mjaft te vogla q\u00eb ndoshta nuk jan\u00eb te r\u00ebndesishme p\u00ebr t\u2019u treguar apo edhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u marr p\u00ebr baz\u00eb nga bashk\u00ebbiseduesi. N\u00eb fakt kur t\u00eb tret\u00eb p\u00ebrm\u00ebnden gjat\u00eb bisedimeve n\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb prezenc\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre normal q\u00eb ndodhin dhe keqkuptime. E drejta jo gjithmone \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb , kjo varet nga k\u00ebnd\u00ebv\u00ebshtrimi i gjithsecilit, \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr ju nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Ndodh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb egoja jon\u00eb na imponon q\u00eb t\u00eb jemi ne ata q\u00eb i vendosin pik\u00eb bised\u00ebs. N\u00eb momente t\u00eb caktuara ndjejm\u00eb nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019a b\u00ebr\u00eb interesante biseden mes miqsh. Un\u00eb ju ftoj t\u00eb mendoni dhe t\u00eb reflektoni se p\u00ebrse kan\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi detajet p\u00ebr ju? Po kur p\u00ebrfshini personat e tjer\u00eb e b\u00ebni p\u00ebr t\u00eb konkretizuar at\u00eb q\u00eb thoni ,ndoshta p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb m\u00eb bindese?<\/p>\n

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  E dashur psikologe si fillim p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 30 vje\u00e7e dhe dua t\u00eb b\u00ebj nj\u00eb pyetje lidhur me nj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim timin. E meta ime \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb kur flas me njer\u00ebzit i shpjegoj gj\u00ebrat me shum\u00eb detaje dhe kur dua t\u00eb shpjegoj di\u00e7ka m\u00eb ndodh ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmend edhe persona q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":17887,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1713],"class_list":["post-17886","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-juliana"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17886","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17886"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17886\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17887"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17886"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17886"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17886"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}