{"id":17828,"date":"2018-02-05T10:28:55","date_gmt":"2018-02-05T09:28:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17828"},"modified":"2018-02-05T10:28:55","modified_gmt":"2018-02-05T09:28:55","slug":"kam-frike-te-flas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/02\/kam-frike-te-flas\/","title":{"rendered":"Kam frik\u00eb t\u00eb flas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur psikologe, un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 17 vje\u00e7e, n\u00eb vitin e dyt\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb kam qen\u00eb dhe jam nx\u00ebn\u00ebse e shk\u00eblqyeshme por duke filluar q\u00eb nga klasa e n\u00ebnt\u00eb ka filluar t\u00eb m\u00eb shfaqet nj\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0 folurit ose t\u00eb shpjeguarit t\u00eb gjerave, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb merret fryma kur filloj e flas apo shpjegoj di\u00e7ka.\u00a0 Kam filluar mos jem shum\u00eb aktive n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson shum\u00eb. Po ashtu nuk kam shum\u00eb shok\u00eb edhe shoqe, sepse jam\u00a0 mbyllur ne vetvete dhe n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre i largoj njer\u00ebzit sepse kam hall se mos nuk m\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb kur flas. Un\u00eb k\u00ebto probleme i kam p\u00ebrshembull kur kam p\u00ebr t\u00eb shpjeguar\u00a0 di\u00e7ka t\u00eb gjat\u00eb dhe kur gjith\u00eb\u00a0 v\u00ebmendja \u00ebsht\u00eb tek un\u00eb. A mund t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmosh t\u00eb lutem, sepse e kam shum\u00eb problem q\u00eb ndihem k\u00ebshtu. T\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes e dashur psikologe dhe shum\u00eb faleminderit! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur. T\u00eb falenderoj q\u00eb na ke shkruar dhe p\u00ebr besimin q\u00eb tregon. Kur i referohesh v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsis\u00eb q\u00eb ke, besoj se e ke fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr fobin\u00eb sociale. Megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs un\u00eb nuk do doja n\u00eb asnj\u00eb moment q\u00eb t\u00eb vendosnim etiketime em\u00ebrtimesh dhe diagnozash, pasi jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk kam informacion t\u00eb plot\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se ti ke fobi sociale, por gjithashtu sepse nuk m\u00eb duket etike, pasi pro\u00e7esi i diagnoz\u00ebs kalon n\u00ebp\u00ebr disa hapa e biseda me profesionistin p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb dalim aty p\u00ebr aty n\u00eb k\u00ebto p\u00ebrfundime. Duke u p\u00ebrqendruar tek kjo q\u00eb ti thua, duket se \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr ndjenja ankthi, sikleti dhe stresi t\u00eb cilat shfaqen n\u00eb \u00e7astin e p\u00ebrformimit t\u00eb veprimeve t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb prani t\u00eb personave t\u00eb tjer\u00eb; gj\u00eb q\u00eb ti e ke v\u00ebn\u00eb re m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur psikologe, un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 17 vje\u00e7e, n\u00eb vitin e dyt\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb kam qen\u00eb dhe jam nx\u00ebn\u00ebse e shk\u00eblqyeshme por duke filluar q\u00eb nga klasa e n\u00ebnt\u00eb ka filluar t\u00eb m\u00eb shfaqet nj\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb\u00a0 folurit ose t\u00eb shpjeguarit t\u00eb gjerave, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb merret fryma kur filloj e flas apo shpjegoj [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-17828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17828"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17828\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}