{"id":17782,"date":"2018-01-27T11:08:21","date_gmt":"2018-01-27T10:08:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17782"},"modified":"2018-01-27T11:08:21","modified_gmt":"2018-01-27T10:08:21","slug":"pergjigje-me-njeri-tjetrin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/01\/pergjigje-me-njeri-tjetrin\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00ebrgjigje me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Ish burri m\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon. T\u00eb kthehem tek ai?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam 41 vje\u00e7e dhe kam nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, nga bashk\u00ebshorti im kam rreth nj\u00eb vit q\u00eb jam ndar\u00eb sepse nuk donte t\u2019ia dinte as p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e as p\u00ebr mua. Ikte dhe vinte kur donte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Rreth 6 muajt e par\u00eb t\u00eb ndarjes as nuk m\u00eb takonte fare as mua as djalin nuk e donte. Pas 6 muajve erdhi na k\u00ebrkonte. Un\u00eb kam njohur nj\u00eb mashkull tjet\u00ebr ku me t\u00eb ndihem mir\u00eb dhe e do djalin tim si t\u00eb jet\u00eb i veti, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se e dua por e kam p\u00ebrzem\u00ebr sepse ndihem mir\u00eb me t\u00eb, m\u00eb respekton dhe m\u00eb vler\u00ebson p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb jam. I kam treguar \u00e7do gj\u00eb dhe ka shprehur mir\u00ebkuptim ndaj meje dhe m\u00eb ka ndihmuar e q\u00ebndruar pran\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por ish bashk\u00ebshorti m\u00eb ka par\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00eb me at\u00eb dhe tani m\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon se do m\u00eb marr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn dhe se un\u00eb nuk kam qen\u00eb besnike kundrejt tij dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb kthehemi bashk\u00eb. S\u2019di ca t\u00eb b\u00ebj? Ju lutem m\u00eb jepni nj\u00eb mendim.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-E dashur ti duhet ta denoncosh menj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb polici at\u00eb njeri t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm sepse askush nuk ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnoj dik\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rind\u00ebrtuar jet\u00ebn nga fillimi.<strong> Milena<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Nuk duhet ti q\u00ebndrosh pran\u00eb atij maskarai q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoi kur t\u00eb kishte. <strong>Elvira<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Merre personin q\u00eb do dhe djalin e ikni larg se k\u00ebtu nuk ke pse q\u00ebndron t\u00eb stresosh veten pran\u00eb tij.<strong> Suada<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Mos i jep asnj\u00eb lloj komunikimi dhe largoje n\u00ebse t\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon denoncoje. <strong>Ervin<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-P\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa jeni t\u00eb ndar\u00eb nuk t\u2019a merr dot djalin sepse nuk quhet tradh\u00ebti se t\u00eb ka par\u00eb me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. <strong>Jurgen<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Sa njer\u00ebz ka si puna atij por k\u00ebshtu jan\u00eb m\u00ebsuar k\u00ebta duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb presion njer\u00ebzve. <strong>Elda<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pyetje t\u00eb reja<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-\u00c7\u2019mendim keni p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn moderne sot? Amantja<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-A kemi elit\u00eb Politike apo thjesht nj\u00eb shtres\u00eb kalimtare njer\u00ebzish q\u00eb merren me politik\u00eb? Ema<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-A \u00ebsht\u00eb normale q\u00eb njeriu t\u00eb b\u00ebhet thjesht makineri q\u00eb t\u00eb nxitet vet\u00ebm nga nevojat biologjike? Ornela<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-\u00c7far\u00eb na duhet kapitaliz\u00ebm tregu apo kapitaliz\u00ebm mafioz? Olger<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-Pse kaq e zgjeruar n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb kultura e urrejtjes p\u00ebr tjetrin? Jerina<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-Keni par\u00eb q\u00eb shum\u00eb krime etiketohen si konfikt privat? Pse ndodh kjo? Elton<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb rruga\u00a0 t\u00eb sulmojm\u00eb t\u00eb keqen sociale apo t\u00eb m\u00ebsohemi e t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatemi me to? Mira<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-E mira q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatemi se nuk ke zgjidhje tjet\u00ebr. <strong>Lona<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk m\u00eb ka shkuar n\u00eb mendje\u00a0 p\u00ebrshtatja me t\u00eb keqen sociale. E keqja sociale \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vdekje e ngadalt\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa sulmi do t\u00eb na jap nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim t\u00eb ri.<strong> Ylli<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong>Ne jemi m\u00ebsuar tashm\u00eb me t\u00eb keqen sociale dhe kot e kemi t\u00eb p\u00ebrbetohemi se nuk mund ta pranojm\u00eb. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb negativitet social\u00a0 ne po arrijm\u00eb t\u00eb bindim edhe brezin e ri\u00a0 duke ju propaganduar\u00a0 se k\u00ebshtu ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e k\u00ebshtu do jet\u00eb. Gjendja ndryshon kur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bindeni t\u00eb bashkoheni p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grusht godit\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos vazhduar m\u00eb tej kjo gjendje .<strong> Rifat<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Nuk duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsohemi me t\u00eb keqen duhet ta luftojm\u00eb at\u00eb.<strong> Erald<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-E keqja sociale? Po ne a jemi pjes\u00eb e saj? E keqja fillon q\u00eb nga familja. Familje e sh\u00ebndetshme sjell social t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm, n\u00ebse nj\u00eb familje nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme ashtu do jet\u00eb dhe socialiteti q\u00eb merr. <strong>Dorina<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-T\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatesh me t\u00eb keqen\u00a0 sociale do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatesh, t\u00eb p\u00ebrulesh apo t\u00eb dor\u00ebzohesh\u00a0 p\u00ebrpara t\u00eb k\u00ebqinjve apo t\u00eb paaft\u00ebve.<strong> Elsa<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A duhet t\u00eb jemi diskriminues kundrejt personave me Hiv\/Aids? Stelina<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong>Jo, \u00a0nuk kemi arsye pse t\u00eb jemi diskriminues kur ata kan\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre dhe nuk i b\u00ebjn\u00eb keq njeriu. <strong>Eralda<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong>Nuk kemi pse t\u00eb jemi diskriminues se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00ebn e tyre tashm\u00eb q\u00eb ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb. <strong>Miri<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong>Edhe Hiv\/Aids \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje si shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjera dhe ne nuk kemi pse t\u2019i diskriminojm\u00eb k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz, p\u00ebrkundrazi duhet ti mbajm\u00eb sa m\u00eb af\u00ebr. <strong>Sabina<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong>Jo, apsolutisht q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb ekzistoj diskriminimi dhe ne duhet ti japim kurajo personave q\u00eb vuajn nga nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje e till\u00eb e jo ti diskriminojm\u00eb. <strong>Klea<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ish burri m\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon. T\u00eb kthehem tek ai? P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam 41 vje\u00e7e dhe kam nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, nga bashk\u00ebshorti im kam rreth nj\u00eb vit q\u00eb jam ndar\u00eb sepse nuk donte t\u2019ia dinte as p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e as p\u00ebr mua. Ikte dhe vinte kur donte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Rreth 6 muajt e par\u00eb t\u00eb ndarjes as [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[1237],"class_list":["post-17782","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17782","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17782"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17782\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17782"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17782"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17782"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}