{"id":17717,"date":"2018-01-20T10:44:33","date_gmt":"2018-01-20T09:44:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17717"},"modified":"2018-01-20T10:44:33","modified_gmt":"2018-01-20T09:44:33","slug":"pse-ndryshoi-kaq-shume","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/01\/pse-ndryshoi-kaq-shume\/","title":{"rendered":"Pse ndryshoi kaq shum\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"

E nderuar psikologe. Desha nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb nga ju meq\u00eb e vetme nuk po mundem m\u00eb t\u2019ia dal\u00eb edhe pse un\u00eb vet\u00eb jam me profesion nj\u00ebsoj si ju. Problemi q\u00ebndron k\u00ebtu: kam dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb, djali q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb 6 vjet e gjysm\u00eb dhe vajza q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dy vje\u00e7e. Un\u00eb si n\u00ebn\u00eb kisha kujdes t\u00eb ve\u00e7ante p\u00ebr djalin dhe mendoj se me lindjen e vajz\u00ebs kujdesi u nda n\u00eb dysh, gj\u00eb q\u00eb e prishi rendin dhe rregullat n\u00eb familjen time. N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi djali ishte shum\u00eb i qet\u00eb, i edukuar dhe gjith\u00e7ka ishte n\u00eb rregull, tani q\u00eb ka filluar edhe shkoll\u00ebn ku \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb me m\u00ebsime por n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi \u00ebsht\u00eb rebeluar paksa, nj\u00eb jo e imja p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb normale dhe nuk ia v\u00eb veshin fare, gj\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson dhe fjala e kthyer e tij, edhe pse un\u00eb e kuptoj k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb por s\u2019m\u00eb duket shum\u00eb normale ndryshimi i tij aq i shpejt, motr\u00ebn e do\u00a0 shum\u00eb por ka raste kur b\u00ebn gj\u00ebra t\u00eb q\u00ebllimshme ndaj saj. Kam provuar me bised\u00eb, kam provuar pak me d\u00ebnime, pak me nd\u00ebshkim por mendoj se nuk m\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb askund k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra\u00a0 sepse djali vet\u00ebm sa m\u00eb largohet edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb vret m\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb se e ndjej sikur s\u2019m\u00eb do m\u00eb dhe s\u2019m\u00eb afrohet si dikur, \u00c7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb m\u00eb sugjeroni ju q\u00eb ta kaloj nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Juliana Dulla, psikologe, e-mail julianadulla67@gmail.com<\/a>, 0699670329:-<\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! T\u00eb sjell\u00ebsh n\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb dyt\u00eb k\u00ebrkon angazhim\u00a0 n\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb. Gjithashtu duhet dhe\u00a0 vetnd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsim i prindit,\u00a0 t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb ekuilib\u00ebr si t\u00eb ndjenjave po ashtu dhe t\u00eb sjelljeve kundrejt\u00a0 f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb porsalindur, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shmangen xhelozit\u00eb. Me ardhjen e nj\u00eb pjes\u00ebtari t\u00eb ri n\u00eb familje f\u00ebmija shikon q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb personazhi kryesor. Prind\u00ebrit rendin pas bebit, duke e mbajtur n\u00eb krah\u00eb kur qan apo nj\u00eb temperatur\u00eb e mund\u00ebshme b\u00ebn q\u00eb e gjith\u00eb v\u00ebm\u00ebndja t\u00eb zhvendoset aty. Gjat\u00eb dark\u00ebs n\u00ebnat jan\u00eb t\u00eb lodhura ose t\u00eb z\u00ebna me p\u00ebrkujdesjen e bebit dhe v\u00ebllai apo motra m\u00eb e madhe i z\u00eb gjumi pa u lexuar p\u00ebrrall\u00ebn e tyre.\u00a0 E dashur let\u00ebrshkruese \u00a0ju thoni q\u00eb jeni e fush\u00ebs s\u00eb psikologjis\u00eb dhe nga ana teorike besoj jeni e mir\u00ebinformuar, k\u00ebshtu un\u00eb po ju jap disa k\u00ebshilla t\u00eb thjeshta praktike. Kujdesi dhe p\u00ebrkushtimi juaj tashm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fokusuar tek vajza aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr n\u00ebse e mbani n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kaloni gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn me t\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa djali shkon n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe\u00a0 i ngelet vet\u00ebm pasditja p\u00ebr t\u00eb q\u00ebndruar pran\u00eb jush.<\/p>\n

Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t’ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

E nderuar psikologe. Desha nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb nga ju meq\u00eb e vetme nuk po mundem m\u00eb t\u2019ia dal\u00eb edhe pse un\u00eb vet\u00eb jam me profesion nj\u00ebsoj si ju. Problemi q\u00ebndron k\u00ebtu: kam dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb, djali q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb 6 vjet e gjysm\u00eb dhe vajza q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dy vje\u00e7e. Un\u00eb si n\u00ebn\u00eb kisha kujdes t\u00eb ve\u00e7ante p\u00ebr djalin […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":17159,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[1612],"class_list":["post-17717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-juliana-dulla"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17717\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17159"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}