{"id":17624,"date":"2018-01-06T09:48:43","date_gmt":"2018-01-06T08:48:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17624"},"modified":"2018-01-06T09:48:43","modified_gmt":"2018-01-06T08:48:43","slug":"pyetje-pergjigje-11","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2018\/01\/pyetje-pergjigje-11\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Udh\u00ebkryqi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00eb mbaj gruan time apo gruan e tjetrit?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista! Dua t\u00eb ndaj me lexuesit e faqes tuaj problemin tim! Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 29 vje\u00e7 dhe jam i martuar por koh\u00ebt\u00a0 e fundit un\u00eb kam nj\u00eb larges\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshorten time p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale. Ajo shpesh m\u00eb refuzonte duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ishte gati n\u00eb ato momente. Kjo situat\u00eb m\u00eb m\u00ebrziti jasht\u00ebzakonisht shum\u00eb por e duroja sepse e doja shum\u00eb por erdhi nj\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk arrita dot ta kontrolloja veten, u njoha me nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7e e cila ishte e martuar dhe filluam t\u00eb qanim hallet me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin pasi dhe ajo e kishte burrin pijanec. Q\u00eb nga dita q\u00eb u njoh\u00ebm takimet tona filluan t\u00eb b\u00ebheshin m\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshta dhe t\u00eb dy kishim di\u00e7ka t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt, t\u00eb dy ishim jasht\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes s\u00eb partner\u00ebve tan\u00eb. Dukej qart\u00eb m\u00eb q\u00eb tani mes nesh kishte lindur nj\u00eb p\u00eblqim. Ajo ishte shum\u00eb e \u00e7ilt\u00ebr dhe un\u00eb ndihesha\u00a0 mir\u00eb kur komunikoja me t\u00eb. Erdhi dhe dita q\u00eb me d\u00ebshir\u00ebn e t\u00eb dyve ne shkuam n\u00eb hotel, un\u00eb pas asaj dite fillova t\u00eb ndjej dashuri p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe ajo m\u00eb shprehte se ndjente dashuri p\u00ebr mua. Un\u00eb i k\u00ebrkova q\u00eb t\u00eb iknim larg por ajo m\u00eb thoshte se nuk donte ta linte bashk\u00ebshortin e saj p\u00ebr hat\u00ebr t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve e un\u00eb po e vuaj shum\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pjes\u00eb. Ndoshta ajo po kalon vet\u00ebm koh\u00ebn me mua q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb t\u00eb marr k\u00ebt\u00eb iniciativ\u00eb? \u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj? M\u00eb mir\u00eb ti tregoj gruas t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjidhje e t\u00eb nisim \u00e7do gj\u00eb nga fillimi e zonj\u00ebn e martuar mos ta takoj m\u00eb apo t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj i martuar dhe t\u00eb takohem fshehurazi me gruan e martuar? Jam n\u00eb dilem\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>-N\u00ebse edhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb do nuk ka arsye pse mos vij me ty. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb k\u00ebmbngul edhe nj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe shihe \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb. <strong>Sofia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-N\u00ebse gruaja nuk t\u00eb plot\u00ebson m\u00eb mir\u00eb ulu dhe sqaroje e ndahu prej saj dhe mos luaj fshehurazi.<strong> Brikena<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-M\u00eb mir\u00eb se ty askush nuk mund t\u00eb jap nj\u00eb zgjidhje. Ulu analizoje edhe nj\u00ebher\u00eb situat\u00ebn dhe b\u00ebj at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb leverdis m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<strong> Megi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Faji \u00ebsht\u00eb i joti, duhet t\u00eb ishe ulur t\u00eb kishe gjetur nj\u00eb zgjidhje me gruan t\u00ebnde ose n\u00ebse nuk kishte zgjidhje ndaheshe por s\u2019kishe pse e tradh\u00ebtoje sepse tradhtia \u00ebsht\u00eb e pafalshme.<strong> Ermiona<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Zgjidh o nj\u00ebr\u00ebn o tjetr\u00ebn mos mbaj dy kunguj n\u00ebn nj\u00eb sqetull se do digjesh vet\u00eb pastaj.<strong> Afrimi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-P\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa ajo t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb dua dhe nuk ndahet nga bashk\u00ebshorti i saj do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb do mjaftuesh\u00ebm ose nuk ka besim tek ty e t\u00eb mban p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb e veta.<strong> Dean<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo zgjidhja e duhur q\u00eb b\u00ebn, m\u00eb mir\u00eb ndahu nga gruaja dhe rri me at\u00eb ose mos e tako m\u00eb at\u00eb dhe rri me gruan.<strong> Silvi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Ka shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn situat\u00eb si ty dhe b\u00ebjn\u00eb po t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn zgjidhje por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak e mir\u00eb se fundja fundit edhe kjo quhet tradh\u00ebti edhe pse nuk ndihesh i plot\u00ebsuar.<strong> Zerina <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pyetje t\u00eb reja<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Si i kaluat festat? Dol\u00ebt apo si t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi? Ela<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Mos vesh q\u00eb nat\u00ebn e vitit t\u00eb ri, nj\u00eb tavolin\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb klub t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs ka qen\u00eb vet\u00ebm prenotimi 200 euro dhe klubi kishte qen\u00eb plot. Kaq t\u00eb pasur jemi apo dhi t\u00eb zgjebosura sa p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dit\u00eb? Merita<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-A mund t\u00eb rifitohet besimi pasi thyhet? Eva<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-N\u00ebse i\/e dashuri\/a juaj ju ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb vuani si reagoni ndaj tij\/saj? Andi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-\u00c7far\u00eb shijesh ju la ky vit q\u00eb shkoi? Keni ndonj\u00eb prespektiv\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vit q\u00eb vjen? Leo<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong> <strong>Sa r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi i kushtoni nj\u00eb miq\u00ebsie t\u00eb re? Miri<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>-\u00c7\u2019mendim keni p\u00ebr ata njer\u00ebz q\u00eb i p\u00eblqen t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb q\u00ebnd\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb sajojn\u00eb edhe gj\u00ebra. Erald<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Shumica e njer\u00ebzve sot duan t\u00eb duken n\u00eb q\u00ebnd\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes dhe kjo gj\u00eb ka filluar mos m\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypje.<strong> Egzon<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong>Ka shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb sajojn\u00eb gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr tu dukur dhe kjo m\u00eb ka ndodhur edhe mua koh\u00ebt e fundit me nj\u00eb person dhe kur e mora vesh t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn nuk doja ta shihja m\u00eb me sy at\u00eb njeri. Njer\u00ebzit duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb sa m\u00eb t\u00eb thjesht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme t\u00eb sajosh gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr tu p\u00eblqyer nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<strong> Silvi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Vet\u00ebm njer\u00ebzit injorant\u00eb sajojn\u00eb gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb q\u00ebnd\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes por kur e v\u00ebrteta merret vesh shum\u00eb shpejt dhe ata do ikin nga v\u00ebmendja e njer\u00ebzve. <strong>Elsa<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Un\u00eb jam indiferent kundrejt k\u00ebtyre njer\u00ebzve sepse p\u00ebrderisa jan\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb sajojn\u00eb gj\u00ebra thjesht p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb v\u00ebmendje jan\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr faktin q\u00eb duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb q\u00ebnd\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur sodisfaksionet e tyre. <strong>Seldi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Udh\u00ebkryqi T\u00eb mbaj gruan time apo gruan e tjetrit? P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista! Dua t\u00eb ndaj me lexuesit e faqes tuaj problemin tim! Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 29 vje\u00e7 dhe jam i martuar por koh\u00ebt\u00a0 e fundit un\u00eb kam nj\u00eb larges\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshorten time p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve seksuale. Ajo shpesh m\u00eb refuzonte duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17624","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17624","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17624"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17624\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17624"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17624"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17624"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}