{"id":17585,"date":"2017-12-23T11:51:05","date_gmt":"2017-12-23T10:51:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17585"},"modified":"2017-12-23T11:51:05","modified_gmt":"2017-12-23T10:51:05","slug":"jam-shume-xheloze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/12\/jam-shume-xheloze\/","title":{"rendered":"Jam shum\u00eb xheloze"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb \u00a0t\u00eb rritur kam nj\u00eb ves shum\u00eb t\u00eb keq t\u00eb cilin nuk po e heq dot. Un\u00eb b\u00ebhem shum\u00eb xheloze n\u00eb lidhje me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb si p\u00ebr gjinin\u00eb fem\u00ebrore ashtu edhe at\u00eb mashkullore, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb duket sikur bota rrotullohet rreth meje dhe b\u00ebhem edhe negative kur gj\u00ebrat nuk b\u00ebhen ashtu si dua un\u00eb. Nuk di si t\u2019a heq k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj vesi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email <\/strong><a href=\"mailto:lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-\"><strong>lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/strong><\/a> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur dhe t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj q\u00eb ndan me ne shqet\u00ebsimin t\u00ebnd. N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, natyra njer\u00ebzore \u00ebsht\u00eb e prirur t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb nga vetja dhe t\u00eb jet\u00eb egoiste. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb dhe kur nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e tepruar nuk p\u00ebrb\u00ebn asnj\u00eb problem. Por, n\u00eb rast se individi ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes, egocentriz\u00ebm, d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb admirim dhe vler\u00ebsim t\u00eb lart\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb vazhdueshme prej t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, at\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr nj\u00eb egoiz\u00ebm patologjik q\u00eb mund t\u00eb shfaq\u00eb probleme apo dhe \u00e7rregullimin narcistik t\u00eb personalitetit. N\u00ebse shqet\u00ebsimi yt \u00ebsht\u00eb i lidhur vet\u00ebm me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tua shoq\u00ebrore apo intime, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr nj\u00eb lloj perceptimi t\u00eb vetes q\u00eb ka mbetur q\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria, periudh\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn padyshim ke marr\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhe p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje t\u00eb shumta. N\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, n\u00eb rast se e gjen veten edhe me karakteristikat e listuara m\u00eb sip\u00ebr, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr element\u00eb narcisist\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb trajtimin p\u00ebrkat\u00ebs. Bashk\u00ebjetesa me narcisismin sigurisht q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb e ka nj\u00eb personalitet t\u00eb till\u00eb, por dhe p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dhe kontakte me k\u00ebt\u00eb individ.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb \u00a0t\u00eb rritur kam nj\u00eb ves shum\u00eb t\u00eb keq t\u00eb cilin nuk po e heq dot. Un\u00eb b\u00ebhem shum\u00eb xheloze n\u00eb lidhje me shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb si p\u00ebr gjinin\u00eb fem\u00ebrore ashtu edhe at\u00eb mashkullore, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb duket sikur bota rrotullohet rreth meje dhe b\u00ebhem edhe negative kur gj\u00ebrat nuk b\u00ebhen ashtu si [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-17585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17585"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17585\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}