{"id":17536,"date":"2017-12-16T09:26:12","date_gmt":"2017-12-16T08:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17536"},"modified":"2017-12-16T09:26:12","modified_gmt":"2017-12-16T08:26:12","slug":"a-ekzistojne-xhindet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/12\/a-ekzistojne-xhindet\/","title":{"rendered":"A ekzistojn\u00eb xhindet?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur psikologe Anxhela! Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 23 vje\u00e7e dhe dit\u00ebt e fundit kam hasur nj\u00eb problem n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb ka filluar t\u00eb m\u00eb krijoj edhe nj\u00eb lloj stresi. Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb bisede n\u00eb grup u hap nj\u00eb muhabet feje pasi kam edhe nj\u00eb shok q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb besimtar, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb djal\u00eb shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb por ka nj\u00eb ves q\u00eb flet sikur nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb bashk\u00ebmoshatari im po sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb gjyshi im dhe ka jetuar e \u00ebsht\u00eb pleq\u00ebruar dhe n\u00eb \u00e7do bised\u00eb do q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj e tija. K\u00ebshtu ndodhi edhe n\u00eb bised\u00ebn e fundit duke folur p\u00ebr fen\u00eb. Un\u00eb kam mendimin tim dhe nuk mund t\u00eb m\u00eb imponojn\u00eb dikush nj\u00eb mendim, respekti q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kem p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person nuk mund t\u00eb ndryshoj mendimin q\u00eb un\u00eb kam. Un\u00eb gjat\u00eb bised\u00ebs i thash\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb besoj n\u00eb Zot, nuk kam lexuar kurr\u00eb as Bib\u00ebl as Kuran dhe nuk kam p\u00ebr t\u2019i lexuar dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment apo n\u00eb tjetrin b\u00ebjn\u00eb gabime, duke g\u00ebnjyer p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat sado t\u00eb vogla dhe t\u00eb pad\u00ebmshme etj dhe nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen fakti q\u00eb shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz i kan\u00eb hyr\u00eb fes\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fshehur pislliqet e veta ky nuk donte fare t\u00eb m\u00eb d\u00ebgjonte mendimin tim por vazhdonte ngulmonte me t\u00eb veten e nga kjo bised\u00eb rodhi dhe nj\u00eb tem\u00eb tjet\u00ebr e cila mua m\u00eb duket si nj\u00eb fantazi e njer\u00ebzve me \u00e7rregullime mendore p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa nuk i kam par\u00eb me syt\u00eb e mi dhe ato jan\u00eb xhindet. Kam disa dit\u00eb q\u00eb mendoj p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb pasi gjithmon\u00eb mendoj p\u00ebr veprimet apo fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb ja them dikujt. Si mund t\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk i shohim por si nuk ka nj\u00eb person q\u00eb t\u00eb flasi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb si\u00e7 ju shpjegoni problemet psikologjike duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb problem? \u00c7far\u00eb jan\u00eb k\u00ebto xhinde q\u00eb flasin pak njer\u00ebz? Pse k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz mendojn\u00eb se u shfaqen k\u00ebto? Jam shum\u00eb n\u00eb dilem\u00eb me veten. Nuk kam lexuar kurr\u00eb kundrejt k\u00ebtyre pasi kam frik\u00ebn se do m\u00eb fusin n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb rreme dhe t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Anxhela Peza, Psikologe Klinike dhe K\u00ebshillimi, Adresa: Sheshi \u00cbillson, pran\u00eb Post\u00ebs Shqiptare nr.8, Num\u00ebr telefoni: 0695726669:-<\/strong> P\u00ebrshendetje e dashur lexuese. S\u00eb pari ju falenderoj q\u00eb ju k\u00ebrkoni mendimin tim. Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb rr\u00ebfimit tuaj ju flisni m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti p\u00ebr nj\u00eb frik\u00eb t\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebs s\u00eb \u201cxhindeve\u201d. Di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk e shikoni dhe as nuk e prekni. E panjohura krijon ndjesit\u00eb e frik\u00ebs, tek secili individ. N\u00eb fakt ju keni hapur nj\u00eb debat t\u00eb madh n\u00eb lidhje me fen\u00eb, konceptin e Zotit, njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb besojn\u00eb n\u00eb \u201cxhinde\u201d gj\u00ebra t\u00eb mbinatyrshme. P\u00ebr shekuj me rradh\u00eb kan\u00eb q\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dilem\u00eb shkenctar\u00ebt t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb parapsikologjin\u00eb por s\u00eb fundmi kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pranuar dhe nga psikolog\u00ebt. P\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb flasin me persona q\u00eb vet\u00ebm ato mund kontaktojn\u00eb, psikolog\u00ebt i quajn\u00eb halu\u00e7inacion. Halu\u00e7ionacionet vizive dhe ato auditive vijn\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb \u00e7rregullimeve mendore t\u00eb njeriut.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur psikologe Anxhela! Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 23 vje\u00e7e dhe dit\u00ebt e fundit kam hasur nj\u00eb problem n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb ka filluar t\u00eb m\u00eb krijoj edhe nj\u00eb lloj stresi. Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb bisede n\u00eb grup u hap nj\u00eb muhabet feje pasi kam edhe nj\u00eb shok q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb besimtar, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb djal\u00eb shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":17451,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[1592],"class_list":["post-17536","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-anxhela-peza"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17536","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17536"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17536\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17451"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17536"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17536"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17536"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}