{"id":17535,"date":"2017-12-16T09:23:08","date_gmt":"2017-12-16T08:23:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17535"},"modified":"2017-12-16T09:23:08","modified_gmt":"2017-12-16T08:23:08","slug":"pyesni-njeri-tjetrin-13","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/12\/pyesni-njeri-tjetrin-13\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyesni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin"},"content":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nuk e dua por s\u2019mund t\u00eb jetoj dot k\u00ebtu!<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista! Dua t\u00eb drejtoj nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr rubrik\u00ebn e udh\u00ebkryqit por dua t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj anonimitetin e plot\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb grua rreth t\u00eb 35-ve me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe kam ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb jam ndar\u00eb nga burri p\u00ebr shkaqe t\u00eb forta. Jetoj me prind\u00ebrit e mi dhe nuk kam as p\u00ebrkrahje asgj\u00eb dhe \u00e7do dit\u00eb kam vet\u00ebm konflikte e sherre p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e gjendjes ekonomike. Por kam disa muaj q\u00eb jam njohur me nj\u00eb zot\u00ebri\u00a0 q\u00eb n\u00eb fakt \u00ebsht\u00eb 15 vite m\u00eb i madh se un\u00eb dhe ai ka t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin problem si un\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i divorcuar dhe jeton n\u00eb Gjermani. Ai m\u00eb ka propozuar q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoj t\u00eb jetoj me t\u00eb por nuk di n\u00ebse duhet ta marr k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se kam ndonj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb.\u00a0 Ai m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se m\u00eb pranon me gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim por un\u00eb nuk jam e sigurt\u00eb pasi ai dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vet\u00eb nuk i ka mbajtur po ia ka ish-bashk\u00ebshortja e nuk di n\u00ebse do ti lind\u00eb dashuria p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tim. N\u00eb nj\u00eb an\u00eb dua t\u00eb jem dhe e qet\u00eb e lir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb iki diku larg.\u00a0 Jam shum\u00eb konfuze p\u00ebr marrjen e k\u00ebtij vendimi dhe nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj.<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Po \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i madh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb\u00a0 ai moj zonj\u00eb. Ti je f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb por ti e di b\u00ebj si t\u00eb duash dhe ndjesh. Eri<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Ti shyqyr q\u00eb je me prind\u00ebrit, rrit vajz\u00ebn vet\u00ebm se s\u2019ka \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb duhet plaku. Tina<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb puna e mosh\u00ebs se mosha s\u2019ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi shum\u00eb por ti kur nuk ndien asgj\u00eb s\u2019b\u00ebn dot as veten t\u00ebnde as personin tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb lumtur apo do pres\u00ebsh t\u00eb ndodhi ndonj\u00eb mrekulli? Vjollca<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Po si mund t\u00eb lidhesh me dik\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019ta ndjen p\u00ebr t\u00eb? Teo<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Ka edhe meshkuj q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb k\u00ebtu n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb lidhin jet\u00ebn me nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr t\u00eb divorcuar, pse e keni mendjen vet\u00ebm t\u00eb ikni jasht\u00eb me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb si njihni fare dhe\u00a0 pastaj shumica e femrave p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb policen me bilbil n\u00ebp\u00ebr semafore. Elton<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Prit mos u nxito, do t\u00eb dali edhe ty fati i mir\u00eb s\u2019ke pse t\u00eb shkosh tek plaku, ai t\u00eb ishte i mir\u00eb nuk braktiste f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vet. Nora<\/strong><\/p>\n

-M\u00eb mir\u00eb gjej nj\u00eb pun\u00eb e futu puno vet se sa ti futesh nj\u00eb valleje q\u00eb dihet si e ka fundit mos e k\u00ebrko belan\u00eb me zor po shih t\u00eb punosh se \u00a0nuk ke jetes\u00eb me plakun. Mandi<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pyetje t\u00eb reja<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ore ky Tahiri ka apo nuk ka faj tani se jemi b\u00ebr\u00eb l\u00ebmsh me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra q\u00eb po dalin \u00e7do dit\u00eb? Meri<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kujt i shkojn\u00eb meritat q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb kan\u00eb patur dhe kan\u00eb nj\u00eb harmoni familjare edhe sot? Pse ne brezi i ri nuk arrijm\u00eb dot ta kemi k\u00ebt\u00eb harmoni? Belkisa<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Aventurat t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sprovuar n\u00eb jet\u00eb apo t\u00eb degjenerojn\u00eb, e kam fjal\u00ebn n\u00eb dashuri? Un\u00eb them se t\u00eb degjenerojn\u00eb fare. Miranda<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Burri duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr familjen, p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn apo burr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb ai q\u00eb i mban mir\u00eb t\u00eb dyja. Them k\u00ebshtu sepse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb burrat tani kan\u00eb t\u00eb dashur dhe minimalisht t\u00eb sillen mir\u00eb me t\u00eb dyja, u pa puna. Ervisi<\/strong><\/p>\n

-A duhet besuar p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nj\u00eb person q\u00eb t\u00eb ka zhg\u00ebnjyer nj\u00ebher\u00eb? Sabina<\/strong><\/p>\n

-A mendoni se duhet th\u00ebn\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e verteta, apo ka edhe g\u00ebnjeshtra “t\u00eb tolerueshme”, ose si\u00e7 quhen ndryshe “g\u00ebnjeshtra t\u00eb bardha”. Endri<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t’ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq Nuk e dua por s\u2019mund t\u00eb jetoj dot k\u00ebtu! P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista! Dua t\u00eb drejtoj nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr rubrik\u00ebn e udh\u00ebkryqit por dua t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj anonimitetin e plot\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb grua rreth t\u00eb 35-ve me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe kam ca koh\u00eb q\u00eb jam ndar\u00eb nga burri p\u00ebr shkaqe t\u00eb forta. Jetoj me prind\u00ebrit […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[1237],"class_list":["post-17535","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17535","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17535"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17535\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17535"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17535"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17535"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}