{"id":17153,"date":"2017-10-28T10:06:18","date_gmt":"2017-10-28T08:06:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=17153"},"modified":"2017-10-28T10:06:18","modified_gmt":"2017-10-28T08:06:18","slug":"pyesni-njeri-tjetrin-11","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/10\/pyesni-njeri-tjetrin-11\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyesni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin"},"content":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Na ndau mamaja e tij<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7e, para 3 vitesh u dashurova me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe ai me mua, m\u00eb prezantoi me familjar\u00ebt e tij, ne kishim nj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb pashpjegueshme, p\u00ebr \u00e7do t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb keqe ne ishim pran\u00eb nj\u00ebri tjetrit por xhelozia e mamit t\u00eb tij e mposhti dashurin\u00eb ton\u00eb t\u00eb madhe. Ai dhe un\u00eb arrit\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb q\u00eb vet\u00ebm ziheshim p\u00ebr fajin e saj, kush e di sa her\u00eb jemi ndar\u00eb dhe jemi kthyer bashk\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00ebsova edhe q\u00eb djali kishte filluar t\u00eb konsumonte drog\u00eb. Fillova ti q\u00ebndroja pran\u00eb por mamaja e vet nd\u00ebrhynte dhe ai nuk ndante asnj\u00eb muhabet me mua. Kam duruar aq shum\u00eb sa s\u00ebmura veten \u00a0e kalova n\u00eb depression. Q\u00ebndruam 4 muaj t\u00eb ndar\u00eb dhe djali m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi prap\u00eb por un\u00eb kisha frik\u00eb. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ndihesha keq dhe \u00a0i shkruajta erdhi pim\u00eb kafe, ndenj\u00ebm 3 dit\u00eb bashk\u00eb pa e ditur askush. I thash\u00eb tregoji familjes por ai m\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtonte e p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye u zum prap\u00eb. Ai kishte filluar drog\u00ebn e nuk dinte \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebnte, i thash\u00eb stop m\u00eb! Mbas 3 dit\u00ebsh shoh statusin i fejuar, i shkruajta, u luta por asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje vet\u00ebm “i mendoje m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara” p\u00ebrs\u00ebri iu luta por m\u00eb ofendoi. U b\u00ebra keq e p\u00ebrfundova prap\u00eb n\u00eb spital kurse ai b\u00ebnte foto dhe k\u00ebrcente me tjetr\u00ebn! Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb pas shum\u00eb gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe kam duruar ai m\u00eb hodhi posht\u00eb? Jam shum\u00eb keq dhe nuk di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ai nuk meriton njeriun e mir\u00eb prandaj dashurin\u00eb askush se do, se duan ta duan me mashtrime dhe sinqeriteti s\u2019b\u00ebn pun\u00eb. Shiko jet\u00ebn dhe kujdesu p\u00ebr veten, a ja vlejti vall\u00eb se vajte n\u00eb spital p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe ai b\u00ebnte qejf me tjetr\u00ebn? Kujdesu p\u00ebr veten, sh\u00ebrohu e mos lejo qelb\u00ebsirat t\u00eb t\u00eb mposhtin. T\u00eb uroj m\u00eb t\u00eb mirat. Ornela<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur! Kur Zoti t\u00eb largon nga dikush do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ka rezervuar p\u00ebr ty nj\u00eb fat shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ashtu si\u00e7 ti v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e meriton. Ki besim n\u00eb Zot dhe kujdesu p\u00ebr veten t\u00ebnde. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat. Armando<\/strong><\/p>\n

– L\u00ebri Zotin se nga hund\u00ebt ka p\u00ebr ti dal\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka, shiko jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde e fshije nga zemra. Sara<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mos u m\u00ebrzit, njer\u00ebzit sot nuk ti din vlerat e t\u00eb hedhin posht\u00eb shum\u00eb leht\u00eb duke qeshur sepse jan\u00eb pashpirt por Zoti sheh. Alda<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mir\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb je ndar\u00eb sepse nuk rrihet me nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb p\u00ebrdor drog\u00eb, sot p\u00ebrdor drog\u00ebn nes\u00ebr b\u00ebn gj\u00ebra m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Brikena<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pyetje t\u00eb reja<\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u00c7\u2019mendim keni p\u00ebr ata njer\u00ebz q\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i b\u00ebr\u00eb qejfin dikujt? P\u00ebr mendimin tim jan\u00eb pa pik\u00eb personaliteti. Moza <\/strong><\/p>\n

-Pse ndodhin konfliktet n\u00eb martes\u00eb? Burri e konsideron veten ”padron” t\u00eb gruas dhe kjo gj\u00eb krijon probleme mendoj un\u00eb.\u00a0 Viktoria <\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u201cMishi social\u201d i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb po vazhdon t\u00eb dob\u00ebsohet deri ku mund t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb kjo prirje gati e pakthyeshme?<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Ore m\u00eb duket mua apo po tallet me njer\u00ebzit kjo qeveria nj\u00ebher\u00eb Sajmir Tahiri e tani loja e fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb Edi Ram\u00ebs me gazetar\u00ebt? Shk\u00eblzen<\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u201cNdihmoje veten dhe pastaj t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb parimi i dashuris\u00eb v\u00eblla.\u201d Un\u00eb mendoj q\u00eb njeriu kur humb respektin dhe dashurin\u00eb p\u00ebr veten nuk mund t\u00eb pretendoj ta fitoj nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Blerta<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Pse njeriu i lir\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb i keq? Liria e t\u00ebp\u00ebrt i b\u00ebn d\u00ebm njer\u00ebzve. Igli<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Vritet gruaja p\u00ebr xhelozi? Kush ja ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb burrit? Pse n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb ka kaq shum\u00eb vrasje nga xhelozia? Pse tek ne si rrall\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb europiane xhelozia dhe dhuna jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb binom kaq i rreziksh\u00ebm me pasoja vdekjeprur\u00ebse p\u00ebr grat\u00eb? Mandi<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

-A duhet ti ndjek\u00eb mandatet opozita n\u00ebse votohet pro bandave? Po,\u00a0 duhet t\u2019i djeg\u00eb mendoj un\u00eb por nuk e b\u00ebn askush. Patricia<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Opozita nuk duhet t\u00eb njoh\u00eb asnj\u00eb institucion t\u00eb mazhoranc\u00ebs n\u00ebse nuk i hiqet mandati Sajmir Tahirit. Duhet t\u00eb njoftoj edhe ambasador\u00ebt p\u00ebr vendimin dhe ministrit\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse (sepse ambasador\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb implikuar n\u00eb trafikun e drog\u00ebs). Arb\u00ebr<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po t\u00eb ket\u00eb burra po por si v\u00ebshtir\u00eb duket kjo pun\u00eb. Sk\u00ebnder<\/strong><\/p>\n

– P\u00ebr mendimin tim duhet ti dor\u00ebzojn\u00eb mandatet se nuk mund t\u00eb kapen me ata ve\u00e7 b\u00ebhen bashk\u00ebpuntor\u00eb. Anton<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Pse \u00ebnd\u00ebrroni kot, ata nuk kan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb djegur mandate kurr\u00eb. Reshat <\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong>Nuk ka asnj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb votohet kundra Saimirit, kjo dihet me siguri absolute! Irena<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong>Opozita po sillet si pa kuptim! Ka mjete demokratike dhe arsye t\u00eb bollsheme p\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebn me shpatulla pas muri k\u00ebt\u00eb qeverisje antishqiptare. Pirro<\/strong><\/p>\n

– N\u00ebse jan\u00eb demokrat dhe t\u00eb ndersh\u00ebm q\u00eb kan\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb parlament p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur interesat e popullit, ata duhet t\u00eb largohen dhe ti hedhin mandatet e k\u00ebtij parlamenti n\u00eb lan\u00eb. Enkelejd<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00ebndrra juaj n\u00eb sirtar? Un\u00eb\u00a0 nuk e kam t\u00eb futur ne sirtar akoma. Blerina<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Un\u00eb kam patur \u00ebnd\u00ebrr t\u00eb b\u00ebhesha piktor por e braktisa k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sepse zgjodha emigracionin. Olgert<\/strong><\/p>\n

– I kam realizur t\u00eb gjitha \u00ebndrrat e mia sepse Zoti vonon por nuk t\u00eb harron dhe \u00ebndrrat realizohen vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse je njeri i sinqert\u00eb, i ndersh\u00ebm dhe i padjall\u00ebzuar. Zoti ti jep t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb mirat nj\u00eb dit\u00eb n\u00ebse v\u00ebrtet\u00eb i meriton. Rafaela<\/strong><\/p>\n

– M\u00eb kan\u00eb vjedh komodin\u00ebn bashk\u00eb me sirtar dhe \u00ebndrr\u00ebn po ashtu. Denisa<\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Sa \u00ebndrra jan\u00eb po m\u00eb mir\u00eb mos ti zgjojm\u00eb se fillojm\u00eb e k\u00ebnaqemi pak \u00e7aste. Emi<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ta kem sirtarin plot me lek\u00eb. Selma<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Sa g\u00ebnjeshtar\u00eb jeni? Cila ka q\u00ebn\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra m\u00eb e dhimbshme q\u00eb keni th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe m\u00eb pas jeni ndier\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb keq apo nuk e vrisni mendjen fare, mjafton t\u00eb dilni nga situata ku jeni gjendur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po, kam g\u00ebnjyer prind\u00ebrit e nj\u00eb shoku, m\u00eb mor\u00ebn n\u00eb telefon dhe m\u00eb than\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebn X? Mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i thash\u00eb nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ai ishte aksidentuar. Enea<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Zakonisht g\u00ebnjej kur s\u2019dua ose s\u2019kam koh\u00eb t\u00eb rri t\u00eb degjoj p\u00ebr minuta t\u00eb t\u00ebra njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb telefon duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb\u00a0 isha n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe s\u2019munda t\u00eb flisja. Arvjona<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Mashtrime momentale b\u00ebjm\u00eb por deri m\u00eb sot s\u2019kam b\u00ebr\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb keq se e keqja mos sot nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kthehet. Joel<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk g\u00ebnjej sepse m\u00eb tradh\u00ebton fytyra. Florida<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> D\u00ebshira \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb t\u00eb detyron t\u00eb fitosh, kur llogjika t\u00eb thot\u00eb se e ke humbur! Ju si mendoni? P\u00ebr mendimin tim \u00ebsht\u00eb egoja ajo q\u00eb s\u2019t\u00eb l\u00eb. Kristi<\/strong><\/p>\n

-D\u00ebshirat mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha por kur njeriu piqet nuk mund t\u00eb veproj m\u00eb n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshirave por t\u00eb llogjik\u00ebs. Arta <\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Po, d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur at\u00eb q\u00eb do dhe e arrin sepse at\u00eb gj\u00eb mendon e ta jep Zoti kur beson. Marjon<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Udh\u00ebkryq \u00a0 Na ndau mamaja e tij P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7e, para 3 vitesh u dashurova me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe ai me mua, m\u00eb prezantoi me familjar\u00ebt e tij, ne kishim nj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb pashpjegueshme, p\u00ebr \u00e7do t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb keqe ne ishim pran\u00eb nj\u00ebri tjetrit por xhelozia e mamit t\u00eb tij […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17153","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kryesore"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17153","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17153"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17153\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17153"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17153"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17153"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}