{"id":16991,"date":"2017-10-07T09:35:56","date_gmt":"2017-10-07T07:35:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=16991"},"modified":"2017-10-07T09:35:56","modified_gmt":"2017-10-07T07:35:56","slug":"me-kundershton-per-cdo-gje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/10\/me-kundershton-per-cdo-gje\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00eb kund\u00ebrshton p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb dhe dua t\u00eb kontaktoj me psikologe Lorel\u00ebn, ju lutem t\u2019ia referoni mesazhin tim. Djali im \u00ebsht\u00eb dy vje\u00e7 dhe koh\u00ebt e fundit p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb ai m\u00eb thot\u00eb jo. Nuk arrij dot ta kuptoj se si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb mund t\u00eb arrij t\u00eb m\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb. Ju lutem mund t\u00eb ma shpjegoni pse ndodh kjo? Faleminderit<\/p>\n<p>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com: P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur dhe t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj q\u00eb na shkruan! Mesazhin tuaj e mora dhe e u mundova t\u2019a lexoja shum\u00eb her\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoja m\u00eb shum\u00eb.  \u00c7\u00ebshtja q\u00eb ti ke sjell\u00eb n\u00eb fokus \u00ebsht\u00eb e prekshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 2-3 vje\u00e7are dhe paraqet jo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb problematik\u00eb, por shpesh l\u00eb vend dhe p\u00ebr keqkuptime. Them keqkuptime, pasi fakti q\u00eb f\u00ebmija fillon t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb e t\u00eb thot\u00eb jo, prind\u00ebrve mund t\u2019u duket si akt rebelimi apo sikur nuk po menaxhojn\u00eb dot edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre e q\u00eb nuk po kryejn\u00eb rolin e tyre si prind\u00ebr. N\u00eb fakt, asgj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00ebse normale q\u00eb f\u00ebmija rreth mosh\u00ebs 2-vjecare t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala se po kund\u00ebrshton; por n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb shfaq\u00eb pavars\u00ebin\u00eb e tij, autonomin\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron dhe mendon. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tregues i nj\u00eb zhvillimi t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm psikologjik q\u00eb f\u00ebmija t\u00eb dij\u00eb t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb q\u00ebndrim mbi gj\u00ebrat dhe ngjarjet q\u00eb ndodhin rreth tij.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb dhe dua t\u00eb kontaktoj me psikologe Lorel\u00ebn, ju lutem t\u2019ia referoni mesazhin tim. Djali im \u00ebsht\u00eb dy vje\u00e7 dhe koh\u00ebt e fundit p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb ai m\u00eb thot\u00eb jo. Nuk arrij dot ta kuptoj se si nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb mund t\u00eb arrij t\u00eb m\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtoj\u00eb. Ju lutem mund t\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-16991","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16991","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16991"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16991\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}