Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb sitet e internetit dedikuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve jasht\u00ebmartesore jan\u00eb shtuar shum\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit, lind pyetja: Sa vler\u00eb kan\u00eb tani klishet\u00eb mbi tradhtin\u00eb? Jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta idet\u00eb e ngulitura mbi nocionin e tradhtis\u00eb n\u00eb gjirin e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti dhe shum\u00eb burra e gra pyesin veten tashm\u00eb se cili \u00ebsht\u00eb kufiri q\u00eb nuk duhet kap\u00ebrcyer. Rrotull nesh, sa persona e kan\u00eb tradhtuar partnerin\/en e tyre? Po ne, a jemi tunduar? Mund ta kalosh jet\u00ebn vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb person, pa shkuar me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Sigurisht, t\u00eb gjitha pretekstet jan\u00eb t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr t\u00eb takuar persona q\u00eb do t\u00eb na shtynin t\u00eb tradhtonim: Puna, pushimet, por gjithashtu dhe sidomos, interneti. Sipas nj\u00ebrit prej siteve t\u00eb takimeve jasht\u00ebmartesore, t\u00eb quajtur Gleeden, grat\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb m\u00eb arsye t\u00eb besojn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebndrr\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb, sipas s\u00eb cil\u00ebs, do ta kalonim gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn me princin e kalt\u00ebr, pasi kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e mundur. Megjithat\u00eb, sondazhet tregojn\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Sigurisht, sot shum\u00eb martesa p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb me divorc p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve jasht\u00ebmartesore, por megjith\u00ebk\u00ebt\u00eb, 68% e t\u00eb anketuarve mendojn\u00eb se mund t\u2019i q\u00ebndrosh besnik\/e t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit person gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn. N\u00ebse kjo shif\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb ulje q\u00eb prej viteve \u201870 (ku arrinte 86% te grat\u00eb), shifra prap\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft pozitive, duke n\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb ende shpres\u00eb. Sidomos, kur dihet se sot, kufiri q\u00eb nuk duhet kaluar, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i ngusht\u00eb.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb fakt, mentalitetet evoluojn\u00eb me koh\u00ebn, por \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh me klishet\u00eb e tjera mbi tradhtin\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Ja, frazat q\u00eb kemi zakon t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb:<\/p>\n
\u00abKur dashuron, nuk ke sy p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00eb\u00bb. – Sipas sondazhit, 63% e personave t\u00eb martuar, ose n\u00eb \u00e7ift, mendojn\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn (10% m\u00eb shum\u00eb se n\u00eb 2010-n).<\/p>\n
\u00abTradhti quhet akti seksual\u00bb – Sipas sondazhit, edhe puthja konsiderohet akt tradhtie, nga 62% e t\u00eb anketuarve.<\/p>\n
\u00abM\u00eb shpesh tradhtojn\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb\u00bb – Sipas sondazhit, kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Te personat n\u00ebn 35 vje\u00e7, tradhtar\u00ebt p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsonin 20% t\u00eb t\u00eb anketuarve, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ata jan\u00eb 32% te 35-49 vje\u00e7 dhe 45%, tek ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb mbi 50 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, 55% e burrave t\u00eb anketuar (pra, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjysma) kishin tradhtuar dhe 35% e tyre, deklaruan se ishin gati t\u00eb tradhtonin, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb ishin t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb q\u00eb gruaja me t\u00eb cilin ishin lidhur, nuk do ta merrte vesh. P\u00ebrsa u p\u00ebrket grave, 32% (nj\u00eb n\u00eb tre), pohonin se kishin tradhtuar dhe 27%, tundoheshin p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb hap.<\/p>\n
Tradhtia, e papranueshme p\u00ebr tradhtar\u00ebt!<\/strong><\/p>\n Siti i takimeve jasht\u00ebmartesore AshleyMadison.com ka publikuar nj\u00eb sondazh q\u00eb kishte lidhje me perceptimin e tradhtis\u00eb. P\u00ebr 47% t\u00eb t\u00eb anketuarve, ky akt shihet si \u201cmoralisht i papranuesh\u00ebm\u201d. \u201cB\u00ebj si them un\u00eb, por mos b\u00ebj si b\u00ebj un\u00eb\u201d, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shprehja e preferuar e evropian\u00ebve. Me sa duket, kjo ka vler\u00eb sidomos n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e tradhtis\u00eb. Bota n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jetojm\u00eb sot, i nxit gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin rrjetet shoq\u00ebrore si vend joshjeje. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb Facebook dhe Tvvitter p\u00ebrdoren gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar lidhje, siti AshleyMadison.com, lider n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e takimeve jasht\u00ebmartesore, ka marr\u00eb n\u00eb pyetje 1082 prej pjes\u00ebtar\u00ebve t\u00eb tij, p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar mendimin e tyre mbi tradhtin\u00eb.<\/p>\n Me sa duket, tradhtar\u00ebt e marr\u00eb n\u00eb pyetje nuk shohin asnj\u00eb problem n\u00eb sjelljen e tyre. Megjithat\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb atyre u p\u00eblqen t\u2019ia kalojn\u00eb mir\u00eb me persona q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt e tyre, 78% e tyre e kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb kategorikisht iden\u00eb q\u00eb, at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn dashnori\/ja, ta b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe partneri\/ja e tyre. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb ironike ta mendosh se, 32% e tyre guxojn\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb se, n\u00ebse partneri\/ja do t\u00eb sillej nj\u00ebsoj, ata do ta merrnin si nj\u00eb tradhti! P\u00ebrkundrazi 26% e tyre vler\u00ebsojn\u00eb se do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb shp\u00ebrblim i merituar ndaj veprimeve t\u00eb tyre, pra, do ta pranonin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb sitet e internetit dedikuar marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve jasht\u00ebmartesore jan\u00eb shtuar shum\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit, lind pyetja: Sa vler\u00eb kan\u00eb tani klishet\u00eb mbi tradhtin\u00eb? Jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta idet\u00eb e ngulitura mbi nocionin e tradhtis\u00eb n\u00eb gjirin e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti dhe shum\u00eb burra e gra pyesin veten tashm\u00eb se cili \u00ebsht\u00eb kufiri q\u00eb nuk duhet kap\u00ebrcyer. Rrotull […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1698","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1698","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1698"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1698\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1698"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1698"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1698"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}