{"id":16932,"date":"2017-09-30T10:43:30","date_gmt":"2017-09-30T08:43:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=16932"},"modified":"2017-09-30T10:43:30","modified_gmt":"2017-09-30T08:43:30","slug":"si-tia-themi-qe-po-ndahemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/09\/si-tia-themi-qe-po-ndahemi\/","title":{"rendered":"Si t\u2019ia themi q\u00eb po ndahemi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>E dashur psikologe, kemi nj\u00eb problem t\u00eb madh. N\u00eb jemi nj\u00eb \u00e7ift nga Tirana q\u00eb po shkon drejt divorcit. E mor\u00ebm k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim bashkarisht me partnerin sepse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia jon\u00eb prej shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh ka probleme serioze,\u00a0 mosmarr\u00ebveshje, z\u00ebnka, keqkuptime, m\u00ebrzi. Ne kemi nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl 10 vje\u00e7e dhe nuk dim\u00eb si t\u2019ia themi q\u00eb do ndahemi sepse nuk dim\u00eb se si do e pres\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lajm . Ju lutem na jepni nj\u00eb mendim. Faleminderit<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com: <\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur dhe t\u00eb falenderoj q\u00eb na shkruan! M\u00eb b\u00ebhet qejfi q\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7ift keni arritur t\u00eb merrni nj\u00eb vendim t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt me qet\u00ebsi dhe qytetari, pasi n\u00eb kontekstin shqiptar shum\u00eb her\u00eb divorci \u00ebsht\u00eb burim konfliktesh dhe problematikash t\u00eb nj\u00ebpasnj\u00ebshme. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vajza juaj, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh. Megjithat\u00eb, kjo i duhet shpjeguar me qet\u00ebsi e fjale t\u00eb thjeshta, duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb mbase se edhe pse prind\u00ebrit e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrzem\u00ebr dhe e respektojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, kan\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb arsyeshme t\u00eb mos jetojn\u00eb m\u00eb bashk\u00eb. I duhet shpjeguar q\u00eb martesa nuk po shkonte si\u00e7 duhej koh\u00ebt e fundit, e n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb ajo nuk ka fare faj dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi (kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb n\u00ebnvizohet pasi f\u00ebmij\u00ebt shpeshher\u00eb e konsiderojn\u00eb veten fajtor\u00eb dhe shkaktar\u00eb t\u00eb divorceve t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve). Fill pas k\u00ebsaj, vajza duhet siguruar q\u00eb do t\u00eb marr\u00eb dashurin\u00eb, afeksionin dhe mb\u00ebshtetjen e pakusht\u00ebzuar nga ana e t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrve. Nuk duhet faj\u00ebsuar prindi tjet\u00ebr dhe n\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret f\u00ebmija p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb aleat me nj\u00ebrin apo tjetrin prind. T\u2019ja komunikoni lajmin e divorcit vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb bashku me bashk\u00ebshortin, apo t\u00eb zgjidhni q\u00eb secili prej jush t\u00eb flas\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb individuale me t\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjedhja juaj n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb raportit q\u00eb keni me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E dashur psikologe, kemi nj\u00eb problem t\u00eb madh. N\u00eb jemi nj\u00eb \u00e7ift nga Tirana q\u00eb po shkon drejt divorcit. E mor\u00ebm k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim bashkarisht me partnerin sepse marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia jon\u00eb prej shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh ka probleme serioze,\u00a0 mosmarr\u00ebveshje, z\u00ebnka, keqkuptime, m\u00ebrzi. Ne kemi nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl 10 vje\u00e7e dhe nuk dim\u00eb si t\u2019ia themi q\u00eb do [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-16932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}