{"id":16842,"date":"2017-09-23T10:13:01","date_gmt":"2017-09-23T08:13:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=16842"},"modified":"2017-09-23T10:13:01","modified_gmt":"2017-09-23T08:13:01","slug":"si-tia-heq-kete-ves-te-keq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/09\/si-tia-heq-kete-ves-te-keq\/","title":{"rendered":"Si t\u2019ia heq k\u00ebt\u00eb ves t\u00eb keq?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>E dashur Lorela p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! Un\u00eb jam mamaja e nj\u00eb vajze n\u00eb klas\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb. Prej nj\u00eb viti vajza m\u00eb ka filluar nj\u00eb ves q\u00eb ha thonjt\u00eb, i kam b\u00ebrtitur disa her\u00eb por \u00ebsht\u00eb e kot\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment ajo harron dhe fillon prap\u00eb. Nuk e kuptoj pse e ka k\u00ebt\u00eb ves dhe ju lutem m\u00eb thoni \u00a0\u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj p\u00ebr t\u2019ia hequr? Faleminderit<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:- <\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur! T\u00eb falenderoj q\u00eb na shkruan dhe q\u00eb sjell n\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen ton\u00eb e t\u00eb lexuesit \u00e7\u00ebshtje q\u00eb duken t\u00eb thjeshta, por jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb njohim f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt han\u00eb thonjt\u00eb dhe n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve e perceptojm\u00eb si nj\u00eb \u201cves\u201d apo sjellje t\u00eb zakonshme q\u00eb ndodh r\u00ebndom. P\u00ebr hir t\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs, ngr\u00ebnia e thonjve mund t\u00eb mbart\u00eb dometh\u00ebnie m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, e n\u00ebse nuk trajtohet si\u00e7 duhet n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb, do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb shfaqet dhe n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e rritur. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sjellje e cila shfaqet rreth mosh\u00ebs 4-5 vje\u00e7are dhe n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve \u00ebsht\u00eb tregues i nj\u00eb parehatie apo pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie q\u00eb f\u00ebmija p\u00ebrjeton; duke kryer nj\u00eb veprim t\u00eb caktuar (n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, ngr\u00ebnien e thonjve), f\u00ebmija shkarkon ankthin. Mund t\u00eb shfaqet n\u00eb form\u00ebn e nj\u00eb sjelljeje qet\u00ebsuese lidhur me nj\u00eb ankth t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm apo ankthit q\u00eb vjen si rrjedhoj\u00eb e situatave specifike: hyrja n\u00eb kop\u00ebsht, ardhja n\u00eb jet\u00eb e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije tjet\u00ebr, konflikte brenda familjes, xhelozi apo pasiguri. N\u00eb thelb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq shqet\u00ebsues veprimi i ngr\u00ebnies s\u00eb thonjve pasi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb kuptohet se \u00e7far\u00eb motivi q\u00ebndron pas tij dhe arsyet q\u00eb e nxisin f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb haj\u00eb thonjt\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. 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Nuk e kuptoj pse e ka k\u00ebt\u00eb ves dhe ju lutem m\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-16842","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16842","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16842"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16842\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16842"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16842"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16842"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}