{"id":16794,"date":"2017-09-16T14:12:55","date_gmt":"2017-09-16T12:12:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=16794"},"modified":"2017-09-16T14:12:55","modified_gmt":"2017-09-16T12:12:55","slug":"kemi-stile-te-ndryshme-edukimi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/09\/kemi-stile-te-ndryshme-edukimi\/","title":{"rendered":"Kemi stile t\u00eb ndryshme edukimi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Gazeta Intervista, ju uroj vet\u00ebm suksese sepse jeni nj\u00eb gazet\u00eb serioze por edhe shum\u00eb arg\u00ebtuese e edukative n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam mama e nj\u00eb djali t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe kam nj\u00eb marrdh\u00ebnie shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshortin. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson mua \u00ebsht\u00eb rritja e djalit, sepse un\u00eb dhe bashk\u00ebshorti kemi mendime t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr edukimin dhe rritjen. Un\u00eb jam e rrept\u00eb ku duhet dhe l\u00ebshoj pe p\u00ebr\u00ebs\u00ebri aty ku duhet, kurse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb stil europian, ka b\u00ebr\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn p\u00ebr shum\u00eb vite jasht\u00eb shtetit dhe ka marr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mentalitet. Ai mendon se po t\u00eb mos e pengosh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn dhe po t\u00eb mos i v\u00ebsh shum\u00eb kufij, pra ti jap\u00ebsh m\u00eb shum\u00eb liri se \u00e7\u2019duhet, f\u00ebmija do rritet m\u00eb i dashur dhe m\u00eb i mir\u00eb. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, un\u00eb mendoj se n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend si Shqip\u00ebria liria e tep\u00ebrt \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u2019a \u00e7osh vet\u00eb me duart e tua n\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar. Nuk di si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj. \u00c7far\u00eb mendimi mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb psikologia juaj p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb problem? <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email <\/strong>lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/strong> E<\/a> dashur let\u00ebrshkruese, un\u00eb e kuptoj q\u00ebllimin e pyetjet tuaj po aq sa kuptoj edhe faktin q\u00eb ju k\u00ebrkoni q\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj t\u00eb rritet nga prind\u00ebr me stile t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb edukimi. Prind\u00ebrimi, n\u00ebse do t\u00eb shihet si nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb me an\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00eb cil\u00ebs secili prind i qaset marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies me f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, sigurisht q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb individuale dhe specifike p\u00ebr gjithk\u00ebnd. Ashtu sic njer\u00ebzit dallojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn sesi socializohen, sesi nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet, sesi komunikojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri me tjetrin, ashtu jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm edhe kur vjen puna p\u00ebr t\u00eb edukuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Kur dy prind\u00ebrit mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb edukuari, natyrsh\u00ebm do t\u00eb lindin dilemat, a duhet t\u00eb edukohen f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb\u00a0 familje m\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin standard, apo secili prind le t\u2019ua p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb vlerat n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e tij? Shpesh, problemet fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb shfaqen kur edukimi b\u00ebhet n\u00eb form\u00eb trek\u00ebndore, pra kur f\u00ebmija krijon marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie individuale me secilin prind n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb vecant\u00eb dhe t\u00eb krijohen disa \u201cmini aleanca\u201d brenda familjes. Kjo situat\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte e rrezikshme n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija, duke ditur pikat e forta dhe t\u00eb dob\u00ebta t\u00eb secilit prind, t\u2019i p\u00ebrdorte p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur at\u00eb q\u00eb do.<\/p>\n

Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t’ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Gazeta Intervista, ju uroj vet\u00ebm suksese sepse jeni nj\u00eb gazet\u00eb serioze por edhe shum\u00eb arg\u00ebtuese e edukative n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam mama e nj\u00eb djali t\u00eb vog\u00ebl dhe kam nj\u00eb marrdh\u00ebnie shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshortin. Ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson mua \u00ebsht\u00eb rritja e djalit, sepse un\u00eb dhe bashk\u00ebshorti kemi mendime t\u00eb ndryshme […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-16794","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16794","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16794"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16794\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16794"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16794"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16794"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}