Besoj se Amerika do t\u00eb m\u00eb jap\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ma dha vendi im!<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 37 vje\u00e7are. Nuk jam martuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, sepse kam patur mamin e s\u00ebmur\u00eb dhe ia kam kushtuar jet\u00ebn asaj dhe babait. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 prind\u00ebrve, kam kontribuar n\u00eb rritjen e v\u00ebllait dhe motr\u00ebs. V\u00ebllai tani \u00ebsht\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7,i martuar e me nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Ai jeton n\u00eb Itali s\u00eb bashku me familjen e tij. Edhe motra \u00ebsht\u00eb e martuar e ka nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Me t\u00eb dy jam marr\u00eb q\u00eb kur mami u s\u00ebmur e babi shkoi n\u00eb emigrim n\u00eb Greqi. Babi nuk diskutohet se shkoi p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn ton\u00eb, por mungesae tij b\u00ebri q\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb t\u00eb binte mbi mua. N\u00ebse babi nuk do t\u00eb kishte shkuar n\u00eb Greqi,un\u00eb do t\u00eb kisha ndjekur jet\u00ebn time e do t\u00eb kisha nj\u00eb familje tashm\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Megjithat\u00eb ai ka vuajtur shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar e p\u00ebr t\u00eb na mbajtur. Un\u00eb nga puna e tij nuk kam patur nevoj\u00eb kurr\u00eb t\u00eb punoj. Detyra ime e vetme ishte t\u00eb kujdesem p\u00ebr mamin. Kjo ishte detyra ime e cila me b\u00ebri t\u00eb jem beqare e t\u00eb mos kem nd\u00ebrtuar familjen time.<\/p>\n
Jeta ka surpriza t\u00eb cilat mund t\u00eb vijn\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb kur nuk i pret. Para dy muajve u njoha me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Kisha nxjerr\u00eb mamin me karroc\u00eb tek kafja pran\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb sime dhe na u bashkua dhe nj\u00eb fqinj\u00eb. Ajo ishte nj\u00eb grua e mir\u00eb, vet\u00ebm se flet pak si shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
-Ka ardhur nipi im nga Amerika p\u00ebr pushime! A do kishe d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb pije nj\u00eb kafe me t\u00eb?<\/p>\n
-Po s\u2019jam n\u00eb mosh\u00eb p\u00ebr takime tani!<\/p>\n
-Ua, pse mi?! Ti je tamam n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn q\u00eb duhet njeriu t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb familje. Kur je e vog\u00ebl gjithmon\u00eb gabon.- pastaj u kthye nga mami e shtoi:<\/p>\n
-Si thua?<\/p>\n
-Po shum\u00eb mir\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebje! Edhe ti ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebri.- tha ajo.<\/p>\n
-Eh, tani nuk m\u00eb bie nd\u00ebrmend p\u00ebr burr\u00eb! Pastaj ti mami me k\u00eb do t\u00eb rrish n\u00ebse martohem un\u00eb?<\/p>\n
-Po p\u00ebr mua s\u2019ka problem se e gjejm\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjidhje.<\/p>\n
I kishte r\u00ebn\u00eb nd\u00ebrmend mamit t\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb tani q\u00eb po shkoja drejt t\u00eb 40-tave. Kisha gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn q\u00eb kujdesesha p\u00ebr familjen e askujt nuk i kishte shkuar mendja t\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte t\u00eb pija kafe me dik\u00eb p\u00ebr njohje, apo p\u00ebr martes\u00eb,tani m\u00eb paskan gjetur, madje dhe nj\u00eb t\u00eb huaj. Nejse nuk doja ta m\u00ebrzisja mamin prandaj i mbajta p\u00ebr vete k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb.<\/p>\n
-S\u2019e di nj\u00ebher\u00eb! T\u00eb pim\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kafe e pastaj flasim. \u2013 e mbylla shpejt bised\u00ebn p\u00ebr at\u00eb djalin q\u00eb t\u00eb mos m\u00eb duhej t\u00eb flisja ndonj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb keqe.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen erdhi babi nga Greqia. Ai gjithmon\u00eb sillte shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra,por m\u2019u duk se k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb kishte sjell\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se her\u00ebt e tjera.<\/p>\n
-Nuk do t\u00eb shkoj m\u00eb n\u00eb Greqi! E mbylla me kaq.<\/p>\n
-Sa mir\u00eb po b\u00ebn babi! Ne jemi mir\u00eb tani e mund t\u00eb filloj edhe un\u00eb ndonj\u00eb pun\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Ai u kthye e pa mamin e m\u00eb pas tha:<\/p>\n
-Ti shiko gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera tani, se pun\u00eb nuk ke ku punon se nuk ke zanat. P\u00ebr lek\u00eb t\u00eb jap un\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos mbetesh keq!<\/p>\n
Dyshova se di\u00e7ka po b\u00ebnin pas shpin\u00ebs sime, por e mora si gjithmon\u00eb me gjakftoht\u00ebsi. \u201cIsha st\u00ebrvitur\u201d t\u00eb duroja gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb familjes.\u00a0 Pasdite dol\u00ebm p\u00ebr kafe t\u00eb tre.<\/p>\n
-Tani q\u00eb un\u00eb jam k\u00ebtu ti duhet t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde!- ia nisi bised\u00ebn babi.<\/p>\n
I kishte r\u00ebn\u00eb nd\u00ebrmend her\u00ebt t\u00eb kujtohej p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn time. Kur ishte koha t\u00eb martohesha e t\u00eb krijoja familje ai krisi e iku e m\u00eb la mua t\u00eb gjitha hallet e s\u00ebmundjes s\u00eb mamit.<\/p>\n
-\u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb ky mendim q\u00eb t\u00eb ka ardhur n\u00eb kok\u00eb tani?! Po habitem se si m\u00eb p\u00ebrmendni gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla! N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb q\u00eb jam un\u00eb nuk m\u00eb merr njeri!<\/p>\n
-Mos thuaj k\u00ebshtu zem\u00ebr!-tha mami. \u2013 ti je nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr e bukur e shum\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb.<\/p>\n
-E pse qenkam e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb mama?! Se shoqet e mia jan\u00eb t\u00eb martuara ,kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb,kan\u00eb nj\u00eb pun\u00eb e karrier\u00eb madje. E un\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb kam?<\/p>\n
-Mos i fol kaq ashp\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebs bij\u00eb! Ajo p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn t\u00ebnde po mundohet! Tani \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb pish nj\u00eb kafe me at\u00eb djalin q\u00eb t\u00eb ka gjetur mami e t\u00eb shikosh se \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh!<\/p>\n
-Cilin djal\u00eb mama?<\/p>\n
Mami nuk e priti q\u00eb babi ta nxirrte sekretin. Pra, qenka mami ajo q\u00eb donte t\u00eb m\u00eb lidhte me at\u00eb djalin nga Amerika.<\/p>\n
-Po ja, se babi u nxitua pak! \u2013u shfaj\u00ebsua mami.<\/p>\n
-L\u00ebre tani grua se nuk kemi pse t\u2019i ngadal\u00ebsojm\u00eb k\u00ebto pun\u00eb. Ta takoj\u00eb e t\u00eb vendos\u00eb.<\/p>\n
-Si? \u00c7far\u00eb po m\u00eb thoni se nuk po kuptoj asgj\u00eb?<\/p>\n
-At\u00eb po themi. T\u00eb fillosh k\u00ebrkimet p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb vendim i shpejt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb hequr qafe tani q\u00eb erdhi n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi babai. Nejse, nuk fola se nuk desha si gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb prish pun\u00eb. E kan\u00eb vendosur! Ndoshta dhe un\u00eb kam t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj jet\u00ebn time, ndon\u00ebse pak me vones\u00eb.<\/p>\n
-Mir\u00eb, se do ta takoj.-vendosa t\u00eb mos ua prish qejfin.<\/p>\n
Erdhi dita q\u00eb pas kaq vitesh si kujdestare e t\u00eb gjith\u00eb familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb filloja me takime djemsh, q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb martohesha. U vesha jo fort e pispillosur,sepse e dija se nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente sido q\u00eb t\u00eb vishesha.<\/p>\n
Ai po priste tek kafja dhe kur un\u00eb u futa u ngrit n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoja se ishte ai.<\/p>\n
-Sa mir\u00eb m\u00eb njoh\u00ebt!- i thash\u00eb pasi e p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndeta.<\/p>\n
-Po portretin t\u00ebnd e kam skalitur n\u00eb mendje!<\/p>\n
-Portretin tim? Ku e keni hasur?<\/p>\n
-N\u00eb foton q\u00eb m\u00eb ka d\u00ebrguar halla!<\/p>\n
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Besoj se Amerika do t\u00eb m\u00eb jap\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ma dha vendi im! Un\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 37 vje\u00e7are. Nuk jam martuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, sepse kam patur mamin e s\u00ebmur\u00eb dhe ia kam kushtuar jet\u00ebn asaj dhe babait. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 prind\u00ebrve, kam kontribuar n\u00eb rritjen e v\u00ebllait dhe motr\u00ebs. V\u00ebllai tani \u00ebsht\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":13812,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[282],"class_list":["post-16663","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori-nga-jeta-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16663","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16663"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16663\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13812"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16663"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16663"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16663"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}