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N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 2-3 vje\u00e7are f\u00ebmij\u00ebt shfaqin nj\u00eb lloj agresiviteti me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb, u marrin lodrat, u shkulin flok\u00ebt, apo i shtyjn\u00eb. K\u00ebto veprime jan\u00eb sa t\u00eb pafajshme aq edhe me dashje. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb f\u00ebmija nuk e di apo nuk e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb tij\u00ebn konceptin e \u201ct\u00eb mir\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb keqes\u201d. Edhe pse n\u00eb pamje \u00ebsht\u00eb agresive dhe e keqe, n\u00eb fakt jan\u00eb hapat e para drejt nd\u00ebrtimit t\u00eb komunikimit me tjetrin si moshatar dhe f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe natyrisht hapat e par\u00eb, nuk jan\u00eb as t\u00eb leht\u00eb dhe as t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmija nuk kontrollon ende as veten dhe as veprimin. Ai nuk di ende konceptin \u201ce imja, e tjetrit\u201d, ai thjesht\u00eb do nj\u00eb gj\u00eb apo nuk e do. Pik\u00ebrisht me shfaqjen e k\u00ebtyre sjelljeve fillon dhe m\u00ebsimi i skem\u00ebs \u201ce imja-e tjetrit\u201d dhe \u201ce mire-e keqe\u201d. Ky \u201cm\u00ebsim\u201d k\u00ebrkon prezenc\u00ebn e t\u00eb rriturit dhe durimin e tij. Gjthashtu n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb, f\u00ebmija nuk di ende t\u00eb luaj\u00eb vet\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb, duhet patjet\u00ebr prezenca e t\u00eb rriturit q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsin, t\u00eb ushqej\u00eb loj\u00ebn dhe t\u00eb evitoj\u00eb situata t\u00eb tilla. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq ne i lejm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb luajn\u00eb vet\u00ebm, por kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb, duhet patjet\u00ebr prezenca e t\u00eb rriturit. Kur f\u00ebmija shkul flok\u00ebt e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs tjet\u00ebr\u00a0 apo e shtyn ose i merr lodr\u00ebn, duhet ndaluar me takt, duke cil\u00ebsuar q\u00eb \u201c\u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb veprim i gabuar dhe nuk t\u00eb lejon ty t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh vajz\u00eb e zonja apo djal\u00eb i zoti si\u00e7 d\u00ebshiron\u201d. T\u00eb rritur! N\u00eb t\u00eb tilla raste, mos nd\u00ebrhyni me rr\u00ebmbim dhe me fjal\u00ebn \u201cmos\u201d, por p\u00ebrdorni vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb duke e shqiptuar prer\u00eb. Mbase fjala m\u00eb e sakt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrdorur mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb, fjala \u201cjo\u201d. Duhet p\u00ebrdorur nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb e vetme sepse f\u00ebmija fjal\u00ebn e par\u00eb nuk e d\u00ebgjon, k\u00ebshtu duke e p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur dy tre her\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn fjal\u00eb, f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb ta njoh\u00eb komand\u00ebn dhe do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb ta zbatoj\u00eb dhe pasi situata qet\u00ebsohet, tregojini f\u00ebmij\u00ebs pse e ndaloni dhe pse ky veprim nuk duhet b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n
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N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 2-3 vje\u00e7are f\u00ebmij\u00ebt shfaqin nj\u00eb lloj agresiviteti me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb, u marrin lodrat, u shkulin flok\u00ebt, apo i shtyjn\u00eb. K\u00ebto veprime jan\u00eb sa t\u00eb pafajshme aq edhe me dashje. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb f\u00ebmija nuk e di apo nuk e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb tij\u00ebn konceptin e \u201ct\u00eb mir\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb keqes\u201d. Edhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":16648,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1444],"class_list":["post-16647","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kryesore","tag-kryesore"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16647","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16647"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16647\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16648"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16647"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16647"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16647"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}