{"id":16614,"date":"2017-09-02T08:35:04","date_gmt":"2017-09-02T06:35:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=16614"},"modified":"2017-09-02T08:35:04","modified_gmt":"2017-09-02T06:35:04","slug":"djali-eshte-shume-i-levizshem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/09\/djali-eshte-shume-i-levizshem\/","title":{"rendered":"Djali \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i l\u00ebvizsh\u00ebm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista dhe n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti psikologes Lorela. Jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb kam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 7 vje\u00e7 dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb vit fillon klas\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb. Kur ishte 5 vje\u00e7 fillova t\u00eb v\u00eb re disa v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi tek ai dhe k\u00ebto v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi jan\u00eb theksuar shum\u00eb tani q\u00eb djali \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Ai nuk arrin t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrohet, nuk m\u00eb d\u00ebgjon as mua as m\u00ebsuesen, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i bindur, shok\u00ebve i prish loj\u00ebn, nd\u00ebrron vendin n\u00eb klas\u00eb, nuk shkon n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb me qejf e ka me shum\u00eb p\u00ebrtes\u00eb, irritohet shum\u00eb dhe shpejt. E dashur Lorela, t\u00eb lutem a mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thuash si quhet kjo situat\u00eb dhe si mund ta ndihmoj un\u00eb djalin time? T\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj dhe pres p\u00ebrgjigje. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email <a href=\"mailto:lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-\">lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/a><\/strong> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur! T\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoj q\u00eb ke ndar\u00eb me ne shqet\u00ebsimin t\u00ebnd. Mesa mund t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb nga tabloja q\u00eb na ke paraqitur \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr element\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7rregullimit t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes me hiperaktivitet. \u00c7rregullimi i defi\u00e7itit t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me nj\u00eb zhvillim t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes dhe impulsivitetit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. V\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb shfaqen p\u00ebrpara mosh\u00ebs 7-vjecare dhe kan\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00ebzgjatje prej t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 6 muaj, kritere q\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast duket se plot\u00ebsohen. Natyrisht q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb, energjik\u00eb dhe hiperaktiv\u00eb por rasti i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me defi\u00e7itin e v\u00ebmendjes me hiperaktivitet \u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsisht i dalluesh\u00ebm. K\u00ebta f\u00ebmij\u00eb kan\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrq\u00ebndruar, p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb detyrat e ngarkuara n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe si pasoj\u00eb e munges\u00ebs s\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes n\u00eb ndjekjen e udh\u00ebzimeve t\u00eb t\u00eb rriturve, n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve nuk arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb. Mungesa e v\u00ebmendjes n\u00eb k\u00ebto raste shoq\u00ebrohet me paaft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar impulse dhe sjelljet e nxituara. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb plot\u00ebsojn\u00eb kriteret e \u00e7rregullimit t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes jan\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb nisur nd\u00ebrveprime me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, nuk presin p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duan dhe kjo munges\u00eb durimi sigurisht q\u00eb u shkakton v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi serioze dhe n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet q\u00eb ata kan\u00eb, si me an\u00ebtar\u00ebt e familjes ashtu dhe me shok\u00ebt, shoqet e m\u00ebsuesit n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista dhe n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti psikologes Lorela. Jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb kam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 7 vje\u00e7 dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb vit fillon klas\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb. Kur ishte 5 vje\u00e7 fillova t\u00eb v\u00eb re disa v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi tek ai dhe k\u00ebto v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi jan\u00eb theksuar shum\u00eb tani q\u00eb djali \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Ai nuk arrin t\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrohet, nuk m\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-16614","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16614","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16614"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16614\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16614"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16614"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16614"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}