{"id":16585,"date":"2017-08-28T10:23:58","date_gmt":"2017-08-28T08:23:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=16585"},"modified":"2017-08-28T10:23:58","modified_gmt":"2017-08-28T08:23:58","slug":"pyesni-njeri-tjetrin-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/08\/pyesni-njeri-tjetrin-7\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyesni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin"},"content":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq<\/strong><\/p>\n

A ia vlen t\u00eb sakrifikosh veten p\u00ebr dik\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista! \u00cbsht\u00eb hera par\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj. Koh\u00ebt e fundit po kaloj nj\u00eb stres dhe jam b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb e mbyllur n\u00eb vetvete dhe kjo po ndikon n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme si n\u00eb familje ashtu edhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, madje edhe tek ushqimi, nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb kam filluar t\u00eb ha. E gjith\u00eb kjo p\u00ebr nj\u00eb dashuri q\u00eb po m\u00eb vret dita dit\u00ebs. U njoha me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb diku rast\u00ebsisht, filluam t\u00eb dilnim bashk\u00eb dhe kuptuam q\u00eb ishim m\u00eb shum\u00eb se shok\u00eb me nj\u00ebri tjetrin. Ai ishte me pun\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, i thjesht\u00eb, simpatik dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha i komunikuesh\u00ebm, me pak fjal\u00eb mashkulli q\u00eb \u00e7do fem\u00ebr \u00ebnd\u00ebrron. Kaluam 4 muaj bashk\u00eb, u b\u00ebm\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri tjetrin, jo m\u00eb larg se 2 jav\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb muhabet e sip\u00ebr m\u00eb pyeti n\u00ebse kisha patur lidhje ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb, un\u00eb u tregova e sinqert\u00eb q\u00eb kisha patur nj\u00eb lidhje. Q\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb ai \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb i ftoht\u00eb, ka ndryshuar t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht madje po b\u00ebjm\u00eb 3 dit\u00eb q\u00eb nuk flasim dhe s\u2019m\u00eb telefonon. Po kaloj n\u00eb depresion, nuk e di se si dreqin p\u00ebrfundova k\u00ebshtu pa d\u00ebshir\u00eb, pa fuqi p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb, kam qen\u00eb njeri me karakter t\u00eb fort\u00eb se kuptoj si p\u00ebrfundova k\u00ebshtu e shkat\u00ebrruar dhe e varur nga nj\u00eb mashkull. Ju lutem m\u00eb jepni nj\u00eb mendim se jam n\u00eb dilem\u00eb e nuk di se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj m\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Po ik o goc, k\u00ebta q\u00eb i duan t\u00eb ndershme i duan p\u00ebr mamin dhe babin, se pastaj te bundrat e kan\u00eb mendjen. Ajli<\/strong><\/p>\n

– M\u00eb fal por ky nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb mashkulli q\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrron \u00e7do fem\u00ebr, p\u00ebrderisa \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb i ftoht\u00eb kur i ke th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb ke pas lidhje! Sa p\u00ebr situat\u00ebn \u00e7do gj\u00eb kalon, gj\u00ebrat jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohshme, merre jet\u00ebn me sportivitet. Gentjan<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Meshkujt jan\u00eb si trenat, ik\u00ebn nj\u00ebri e vjen tjetri m\u00eb i ri, m\u00eb komod e i rehatsh\u00ebm. Mos e vrit shum\u00eb mendjen dhe po iku do gjesh ndonj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Romeo<\/strong><\/p>\n

– T\u00eb tregosh t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn sot do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ti b\u00ebsh varrin vetes. Sinqeriteti sot ka dal\u00eb nga moda. Secili peshkon n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e vet. Tomorr<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ka dhe meshkuj t\u00eb till\u00eb po p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb s\u2019mund t\u00eb vras\u00ebsh veten se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb fundi i bot\u00ebs, dikush do t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb me t\u00eb mirat e t\u00eb k\u00ebqiat q\u00eb ke. Enkelejd<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ti mos u m\u00ebrzit p\u00ebr asnj\u00ebri, l\u00ebri t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb m\u00ebrziten p\u00ebr ty. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb mendimi im. Marjeta<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mos i ka r\u00ebn\u00eb bateria them un\u00eb ose i ka marr gruaja telefonin. Aranit<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019t\u00eb donte me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00a0Eri<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pyetje t\u00eb reja<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Xhelozia i ka dreq\u00ebrit n\u00eb bark, buburrecat n\u00eb tru, frik\u00ebn n\u00eb zem\u00ebr, sherrin n\u00eb gjak, kurse n\u00eb goj\u00eb e n\u00eb vepra e ka helmin. Mendoni edhe ju k\u00ebshtu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju personi q\u00eb ju sjell humorin e ju mbush p\u00ebrher\u00eb me optimiz\u00ebm?<\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u00c7\u2019mendim keni p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsojn\u00eb n\u00eb telefon? A ka ligj q\u00eb i d\u00ebnon? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– T\u00eb b\u00ebsh apo jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt? Kjo po q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dilem\u00eb\u2026! Arisa<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb Iphone apo Samsung si teknologji?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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– Si mendoni a \u00ebsht\u00eb teknologjia armiku num\u00ebr nj\u00eb i njer\u00ebzimit?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Armiku num\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00eb njeriu, pastaj gjith\u00e7ka e tepruar q\u00eb ne b\u00ebjm\u00eb! Yli<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Edhe teknoligjia \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb armiqt kryesor t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj shoq\u00ebria pas ii ka shkat\u00ebrruar njer\u00ebzit e nuk po dijn\u00eb m\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb respekti, kan\u00eb harruar komunikimin po thjesht \u00e7atojn\u00eb dhe rrin t\u00ebr\u00eb koh\u00ebn n\u00ebp\u00ebr kafene e nuk i kushtojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje asgj\u00ebje t\u00eb bukur sot. Arta<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Po, q\u00eb kur teknologjia p\u00ebrparoi edhe njer\u00ebzimi u shkat\u00ebrrua, sot po funksionon \u00e7do gj\u00eb online, nuk ka m\u00eb as emocione as ndjenj\u00eb, asgj\u00eb. Merilda<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Sigurisht q\u00eb po, \u00ebsht\u00eb armiku kryesor madje. Ledi<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Po t\u00eb mos kishte p\u00ebrparuar teknologjia kaq shum\u00eb ndoshta do ishin dhe njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb edukuar dhe jo kaq egoist sa jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t’ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq A ia vlen t\u00eb sakrifikosh veten p\u00ebr dik\u00eb? P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista! \u00cbsht\u00eb hera par\u00eb q\u00eb po ju shkruaj. Koh\u00ebt e fundit po kaloj nj\u00eb stres dhe jam b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb e mbyllur n\u00eb vetvete dhe kjo po ndikon n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme si n\u00eb familje ashtu edhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, madje edhe tek ushqimi, nj\u00eb her\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[1518],"class_list":["post-16585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","tag-pytje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16585"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16585\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}