Njeriut n\u00eb jet\u00eb i ndodh t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjim, apo nj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi. Por fatkeq\u00ebsia ime e ka zanafill\u00ebn qysh para se t\u00eb lindja un\u00eb dhe motrat e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi. Jetoj n\u00eb fshat, aty ku kam lindur edhe jam martuar. Mamaja ime u martua kur ishte tet\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7e dhe n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi gjeti gjasht\u00eb kunata q\u00eb iu b\u00ebn\u00eb si motra dhe vjehrr\u00ebn q\u00eb iu b\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e dyt\u00eb, por dhe vjehrrin q\u00eb iu b\u00eb si xhelat. Gjyshi ka qen\u00eb xhelat, jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr vajzat e gruan e tij, jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr babain dhe maman\u00eb time, por edhe p\u00ebr ne mbesat. Kishim frik\u00eb kur na hidhte syt\u00eb. I vetmi q\u00eb kishte pushtet mbi t\u00eb ishte v\u00ebllai im, i n\u00ebnti f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Motr\u00ebn e vog\u00ebl q\u00eb lindi pas v\u00ebllait e gjuante ku ta gjente edhe pse ishte e vog\u00ebl, nga inati q\u00eb mamaja nuk lindi djal\u00eb prap\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Prind\u00ebrit e mi i kapi koha e kooperativave po ashtu edhe hallat e mia. Rrogat e tyre skandaloze nuk dilnin asgj\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebsaj gjyshit i duhej raki e meze, k\u00ebshtu rroga e tij dhe gjysma e rrogave t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve bliheshin raki.<\/p>\n
Kur jan\u00eb fejuar prind\u00ebrit e mi, ishte zakon t\u00eb \u00e7ohej nishani e n\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshiheshin t\u00eb gjitha rrobat e nuses. Mamas\u00eb time ia \u00e7uan t\u00eb gjitha, dhe sapo u martua qysh jav\u00ebn e par\u00eb ia mor\u00ebn tre\u00e7erekun e ia kthyen gruas s\u00eb kush\u00ebririt q\u00eb ia kishin marr\u00eb borxh. Pra, gjyshi e filloi miq\u00ebsin\u00eb me mashtrime. Po \u00e7\u2019do b\u00ebnte mamaja ime n\u00eb vitet shtat\u00ebdhjet\u00eb kur \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar ajo, dhe n\u00eb fshat aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr.<\/p>\n
Gjyshi nga mamaja u detyrua t\u00eb blinte \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb mundte p\u00ebr t\u00eb bij\u00ebn q\u00eb mos t\u00eb s\u00ebmurej nga t\u00eb ftoht\u00ebt n\u00eb dim\u00ebr, po s\u2019mbahet sht\u00ebpia me miell hua, thon\u00eb pleqt\u00eb. Lindi motra ime e madhe dhe mamas\u00eb iu desh t\u00eb shqepte fundet e saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb copat (n\u00eb vend t\u00eb fanellat\u00ebs) p\u00ebr t\u00eb lidhur motr\u00ebn n\u00eb djep. E k\u00ebshtu me radh\u00eb lind\u00ebm ne tet\u00eb motra. Zoti deshi q\u00eb ne t\u00eb ishim t\u00eb mbara e t\u00eb mos s\u00ebmureshim se p\u00ebr gjyshin e p\u00ebr babain ton\u00eb do na kishin l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb vdisnim e s\u2019do na kishin \u00e7uar n\u00eb spital apo ila\u00e7e, apo regjim ushqimor. Ne s\u2019kishim buk\u00eb t\u00eb hanim.<\/p>\n
Pastaj edhe hallat e mia ishin rritur, e nd\u00ebrsa ne lindnim nj\u00eb nga nj\u00eb, hallat martoheshin dhe atyre u duhej b\u00ebr\u00eb paj\u00eb, u duhej b\u00ebr\u00eb dasm\u00eb e t\u00eb gjitha. Po rakia sigurisht nuk duhej t\u00eb mungonte. N\u00eb k\u00ebto kushte na ka rritur mamaja. Babai im ka qen\u00eb burr\u00eb i qet\u00eb, dembel po jo natyr\u00eb e keqe n\u00eb fillim, – thot\u00eb mamaja. Por b\u00ebm\u00eb baba t\u00eb t\u00eb ngjaj, i thon\u00eb. Edhe ai kur linda un\u00eb, vajza e kat\u00ebrt u b\u00eb xhind me maman\u00eb.<\/p>\n
-Si ka mund\u00ebsi, vet\u00ebm vajza di t\u00eb b\u00ebsh ti? \u2013 i kish th\u00ebn\u00eb mamas\u00eb kur u kthye materniteti.<\/p>\n
-Po \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb b\u00ebj un\u00eb, at\u00eb q\u00eb na fal per\u00ebndia, se un\u00eb nuk di t\u00eb zgjedh? \u2013 ishte p\u00ebrgjigjur urt\u00eb e but\u00eb mamaja se s\u2019ia mbante t\u00eb fliste. Qysh nga ajo koh\u00eb babai filloi t\u00eb pinte si i ati. Filloi t\u00eb b\u00ebhej arrogant, t\u00eb mos sillte para n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. T\u00eb vetmin ndryshim q\u00eb kishte nga gjyshi ishte se nuk na rrihte kurr\u00eb. Dhe them \u00ebsht\u00eb goxha ndryshim, un\u00eb e mbaj mend gjyshin duke m\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb me shqelm.<\/p>\n
Babai ashtu tap\u00eb i rreshtoi edhe kat\u00ebr vajza t\u00eb tjera pra u b\u00ebm\u00eb tet\u00eb vajza.<\/p>\n
Sht\u00ebpia jon\u00eb i ngjante g\u00ebrmadhave t\u00eb pas luft\u00ebs q\u00eb sot i shoh n\u00eb televizor, e vetmja q\u00eb punonte ishte mamaja dhe lante vet\u00ebm me uj\u00eb pa sapun rrobat tona t\u00eb rreckosura. P\u00ebrpiqej t\u00eb punonte kopshtin q\u00eb t\u00eb siguronte zarvatet p\u00ebr n\u00eb ver\u00eb, por edhe ato u duheshin nxjerr\u00eb si meze dy pijanec\u00ebve, rrushi mblidhej i gjithi p\u00ebr tu b\u00ebr\u00eb raki. Tavani i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb qe varur se ishte shum\u00eb i vjet\u00ebr dhe pikonte. Dyert e dritaret ishin t\u00eb hapura e frynte gjithandej. N\u00eb k\u00ebto kushte u s\u00ebmur gjyshja e vdiq, m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb them u rehatua. E shkreta sa ka vuajtur me at\u00eb njeri n\u00eb krah. Burri i hall\u00ebs s\u00eb madhe ishte m\u00eb mir\u00eb ekonomikisht dhe natyr\u00eb shum\u00eb pun\u00ebtore. I tha babait se do vinte ai t\u00eb na suvatonte e rregullonte der\u00ebn e dritaren e dhom\u00ebs s\u00eb gjumit se do s\u00ebmureshin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Babai pranoi se ishte tap\u00eb dhe bashk\u00eb m\u00eb gjyshin talleshin me t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsa ai punonte. Mamaja ishte shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb n\u00ebnt\u00ebn her\u00eb e s\u2019e ndihmonte dot burrin e hall\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb lla\u00e7in apo p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur ristelat dhe k\u00ebshtu pun\u00ebtor\u00ebt u gjet\u00ebn. Gjyshi e babi na caktuan n\u00eb kat\u00ebr vajzat e para se ne ishim t\u00eb rritura.<\/p>\n
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Njeriut n\u00eb jet\u00eb i ndodh t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjim, apo nj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi. Por fatkeq\u00ebsia ime e ka zanafill\u00ebn qysh para se t\u00eb lindja un\u00eb dhe motrat e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e mi. Jetoj n\u00eb fshat, aty ku kam lindur edhe jam martuar. Mamaja ime u martua kur ishte tet\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7e dhe n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi gjeti gjasht\u00eb kunata q\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":12112,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[282],"class_list":["post-16484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta","tag-histori-nga-jeta-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16484"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16484\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}