{"id":16277,"date":"2017-07-29T15:23:12","date_gmt":"2017-07-29T13:23:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=16277"},"modified":"2017-07-29T15:23:12","modified_gmt":"2017-07-29T13:23:12","slug":"pyesni-njeri-tjetrin-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/07\/pyesni-njeri-tjetrin-5\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyesni nj\u00ebri tjetrin"},"content":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ta largoj shokun?<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista! Dua t\u00eb ndaj problemin tim me lexuesit e k\u00ebsaj gazette q\u00eb t\u00eb marr nj\u00eb mendim apo k\u00ebshill\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb hall q\u00eb m\u00eb ka z\u00ebn\u00eb por si fillim do doja t\u00eb mbetesha anonim. Un\u00eb jam i martuar 28 vje\u00e7 dhe kam nj\u00eb shok t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb q\u00eb e kam prej vitesh, kemi dal bashk\u00eb, kemi ikur me pushime e jemi shum\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrt por problemi q\u00eb mua m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson \u00ebsht\u00eb se ai ka krijuar nj\u00eb afrimitet edhe me gruan time, un\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb sikur nuk e kam kuptuar dhe po b\u00ebj loj\u00ebn ai m\u00eb merr shum\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb telefon q\u00eb m\u00eb provokon. Nuk di si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj m\u00eb se kjo situat\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese p\u00ebr mua. Ndonj\u00ebh\u00ebr\u00eb e ngacmoj gruan me fjal\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb thot\u00eb si \u00ebsht\u00eb puna por ajo b\u00ebn sikur nuk e kupton. Jam n\u00eb hall e s\u2019po di si t\u00eb veproj?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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-T\u00eb keqen un\u00eb ty \u00e7far\u00eb shoku me shans q\u00eb paske! Mblidh veprat n\u00eb dor\u00eb dhe pastaj vepro me mend n\u00eb kok\u00eb! Oriada<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Stambolli u dogj ti akoma shoku, \u00e7far\u00eb shok\u00ebsh ka sot? Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb rast i rrall\u00eb, kam d\u00ebgjuar q\u00eb shoku ja ka marr gruan shokut. Sara<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Prit dhe pak, \u00e7far\u00eb pret? Q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb gruaja ty? Ti qenke i shkret\u00eb, nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh dhe k\u00ebrkon mendime k\u00ebtu. Mbaje t\u00eb tradh\u00ebtoj\u00eb me gjith\u00eb shok\u00ebt e tu, ai t\u00eb ngacmon gruan dhe ti e quan shok, gruaja jote \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull se burrin e ka n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi edhe dashnorin e ka, asaj nuk i mungon gj\u00eb por ti hap syt\u00eb se po tallen me ty. Ti edhe e di q\u00eb flasin edhe rri, ajo mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb doj\u00eb ti nuk thua gj\u00eb. Ruda<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ua, \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb \u00a0e thjesht\u00eb, ik nga sht\u00ebpia p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pun\u00eb nja dy dit\u00eb e ruaje q\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh situat\u00ebn n\u00eb dor\u00eb ose b\u00ebje si ai tipi q\u00eb tek numri i tij vuri emrin e personit q\u00eb dyshonte se gruaja e tradhetonte dhe filloi t\u00eb fliste. Iva<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Qofsh ti q\u00eb je v\u00ebllai, si e b\u00ebn gjumin rehat duke e ditur q\u00eb “buk\u00ebn” t\u00ebnde po ta ha shoku me lezet. Rri, rri b\u00ebj sikur nuk di gj\u00eb. Maria<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Merrja telefonin gruas t\u00ebnde, p\u00ebrgjigju atij pisi mashkull q\u00eb e quan edhe shok dhe pyete \u00e7far\u00eb do n\u00eb telefonin e gruas! Ftoje p\u00ebr kafen e fundit dhe jepi nj\u00eb dru t\u00eb mir\u00eb se mbase ta ka mashtruar gruan! Shko n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe jepi nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim tradh\u00ebtares t\u00ebnde q\u00eb t\u00eb mos i bjer\u00eb m\u00eb nd\u00ebrmend p\u00ebr at\u00eb pisin q\u00eb ti me plot goj\u00ebn e quan shok! \u00cbngj\u00ebllush<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Qenke tip fare o burr\u00eb i dheut, un\u00eb t\u00eb dyshoj i ha t\u00eb gjall\u00eb t\u00eb dy jo m\u00eb t\u00eb kem kuptuar, qofsh ti q\u00eb je. Denis<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Me dashuri e me urt\u00ebsi, ftoje p\u00ebr dark\u00eb shokun edhe thuaj pastaj e g\u00ebzofsh gruan. Landi<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mos luaj me zjarrin por hidhi uj\u00eb pa t\u2019u djegur sht\u00ebpia. Bani<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kur do i kap\u00ebsh ti kur t\u00eb zej shoku ndonj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb filloj ti rralloj telefonatat me ty pastaj? Emi<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Epo tani u v\u00ebrtetua ajo fjala e urt\u00eb q\u00eb kur s\u2019je i zoti ti p\u00ebr gruan pa merak fare se \u00ebsht\u00eb shoku q\u00eb i del zot. Alda<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E di \u00e7a do b\u00ebsh? Kur t\u00eb dali gruaja nga sht\u00ebpia ndiqe nga mbrapa pa e kuptuar ajo dhe n\u00ebse e shikon me shokun dhe puthen t\u00eb dy fotografoi me celular dhe n\u00eb dark tregoja gruas. Gazmir<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ti qenke p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhur turp. Po gruaja jote p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb flet me shokun t\u00ebnd n\u00eb telefon e ai interesohet n\u00ebse ti e di apo jo? E cil\u00ebson edhe shok ti. Ik o mbytu n\u00eb det mos k\u00ebrko mendime k\u00ebtu. Frenkli<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Ti shoku qenke ha buk\u00eb dhe l\u00ebsho lop\u00ebt. Sa t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh ti situat\u00ebn n\u00eb dor\u00eb gruaja t\u00eb ka dal\u00eb fare nga duart. Danjel<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Vendos kamer t\u00eb fsheht n\u00eb dhom\u00eb t\u00eb gjumit dhe te dhoma e ndenjes dhe thuaj nuses do iki n\u00eb Greqi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jav\u00eb dhe k\u00ebshtu i ke faktet e sigurta. Liridon <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>P\u00ebr mendimin tim kapi mat dhe thuaj t\u00eb trash\u00ebgoheni dhe sh\u00ebndet pastaj shoku ta mbaj p\u00ebr grua ti mbaje si dashnore. Odise<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Pyetje t\u00eb reja<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Kush mendoni se do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb opozit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> A e mbani mend dashurin\u00eb tuaj t\u00eb par\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

-T\u00eb jesh egoist \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb apo \u00ebsht\u00eb keq?<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Nj\u00eb shprehje thot\u00eb: \u201cNjer\u00ebzit inteligjent\u00eb jan\u00eb plot dyshime kurse budallenjt\u00eb plot besim\u201d. Ju \u00e7\u2019mendim keni?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– K\u00eb do na sugjeronit si librat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb sezon vere p\u00ebr t\u00eb lexuar?<\/strong><\/p>\n

-P\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb debatojn\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr \u00e7iftet shqiptare: p\u00ebr para, familjen, pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb apo f\u00ebmij\u00ebt?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u00c7\u2019mendim keni p\u00ebr shprehjen i duruar i fituar?<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Jam vet\u00eb, kam duruar dhe kam fituar. Shpresa<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se kush ka durim dhe ja l\u00eb koh\u00ebs gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb fund fiton dhe kush reagon instiktivisht\u00a0 me impulsivitet mund t\u00eb gaboj. Koha i\u00a0 sh\u00ebron t\u00eb gjitha. Ela <\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong>N\u00eb disa raste jam dakort q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb durosh por ka dhe raste t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb mbushet kupa plot dhe nuk ke m\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb durosh. Manjola<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Ai q\u00eb tregohet i duruar merr gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb fund shp\u00ebrblimin e vet. Jonart<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong>Varet se p\u00ebr \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb se ka gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk presin dhe jo q\u00eb s\u2019fiton por humbet shum\u00eb. Endri<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Un\u00eb p\u00ebr vete jam shum\u00eb tip impulsive dhe nuk para duroj. Dario<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Durimi \u00ebsht\u00eb virtyr njer\u00ebzor por ka raste q\u00eb mbushet kupa dhe nuk pret fundit por do t\u00eb veprosh n\u00eb \u00e7ast. Gjergji<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong>Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb durimi sh\u00ebrben p\u00ebr mir\u00eb por ka raste q\u00eb sh\u00ebrben dhe negativisht kur pret m\u00eb shum\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019duhet. Fatjon<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t’ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq Ta largoj shokun? P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje gazeta Intervista! Dua t\u00eb ndaj problemin tim me lexuesit e k\u00ebsaj gazette q\u00eb t\u00eb marr nj\u00eb mendim apo k\u00ebshill\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb hall q\u00eb m\u00eb ka z\u00ebn\u00eb por si fillim do doja t\u00eb mbetesha anonim. Un\u00eb jam i martuar 28 vje\u00e7 dhe kam nj\u00eb shok t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb q\u00eb e kam prej […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[1237],"class_list":["post-16277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","tag-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16277","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16277"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16277\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16277"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16277"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16277"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}