{"id":16082,"date":"2017-07-15T11:33:08","date_gmt":"2017-07-15T09:33:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=16082"},"modified":"2017-07-15T11:33:08","modified_gmt":"2017-07-15T09:33:08","slug":"pse-ka-ndryshuar-vajza-kaq-shume","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/07\/pse-ka-ndryshuar-vajza-kaq-shume\/","title":{"rendered":"Pse ka ndryshuar vajza kaq shum\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Intervista. Kam vajz\u00ebn 20 vje\u00e7e n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e mbyllur n\u00eb vetvete dhe s\u2019flet shum\u00eb. Nuk ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb as t\u00eb dal me shoqet, nuk ka oreks fare, \u00ebsht\u00eb dob\u00ebsuar shum\u00eb dhe flet e qesh me vete ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. N\u00eb fillim ka qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb shum\u00eb i shkath\u00ebt por kur i erdh\u00ebn periodat ndryshoi. Ju lutem mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni pse ndodhet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje dhe \u00e7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj me t\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email <\/strong><a href=\"mailto:lorela_garuli@hotmail.com\"><strong>lorela_garuli@hotmail.com<\/strong><\/a><strong> :-<\/strong> P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur! T\u00eb falenderoj p\u00ebr vler\u00ebsimin dhe q\u00eb na ndjek.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebto q\u00eb ti tregon nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb mjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfundim shum\u00eb t\u00eb sakt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Nervozizmi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb rrjedhoj\u00eb e shum\u00eb arsyeve, faktor\u00ebve apo situatave. Ka raste q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shfaqje\u00a0 e nj\u00eb problemi psikologjik, e nj\u00eb crregullimi personaliteti, e nj\u00eb situate shum\u00eb stresante, e nj\u00eb luhatjeje fizike hormonale.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb radh\u00eb\u00a0 t\u00eb par\u00eb, ti duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb komunikosh me t\u00eb jo duke e akuzuar q\u00eb pse po sillet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, por duke u p\u00ebrpjekur p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se cfar\u00eb e shtyn t\u00eb shfaq\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb sjellje. Ka ndodhur ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj s\u00eb fundmi q\u00eb e b\u00ebn at\u00eb t\u00eb humbas\u00eb ekuilibrat dhe t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb i qet\u00eb? A ka lidhje kjo ngjarje me ndonj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme q\u00eb mund t\u2019i ket\u00eb ndodhur n\u00eb mjedisin e pun\u00ebs?<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Intervista. Kam vajz\u00ebn 20 vje\u00e7e n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e mbyllur n\u00eb vetvete dhe s\u2019flet shum\u00eb. Nuk ka d\u00ebshir\u00eb as t\u00eb dal me shoqet, nuk ka oreks fare, \u00ebsht\u00eb dob\u00ebsuar shum\u00eb dhe flet e qesh me vete ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. N\u00eb fillim ka qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb shum\u00eb i shkath\u00ebt por kur i erdh\u00ebn periodat [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-16082","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16082","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16082"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16082\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16082"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16082"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16082"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}