{"id":15873,"date":"2017-07-01T12:34:21","date_gmt":"2017-07-01T10:34:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=15873"},"modified":"2017-07-01T12:34:21","modified_gmt":"2017-07-01T10:34:21","slug":"mbesat-duan-te-dalin-naten-vone-si-shoqet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/07\/mbesat-duan-te-dalin-naten-vone-si-shoqet\/","title":{"rendered":"Mbesat duan t\u00eb dalin nat\u00ebn von\u00eb, si shoqet!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Lorela e dashur, na k\u00ebnaqe me k\u00ebto shkrimet e tua t\u00eb p\u00ebrjavshme ne qytetar\u00ebve q\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb\u00a0 koh\u00eb q\u00eb po jetojm\u00eb kemi shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb na d\u00ebgjoj dhe t\u00eb na k\u00ebshilloj. Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb 73 vje\u00e7e dhe lexuese e gazet\u00ebs Intervista p\u00ebr vite me rradh\u00eb. Duke lexuar k\u00ebto shkrime vendosa nj\u00eb dit\u00eb ti drejtohesha redaksis\u00eb s\u00eb k\u00ebsaj gazete q\u00eb t\u00eb shpreh dhe un\u00eb problemin tim me shpres\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019i gjetur zgjidhje dhe n\u00eb fund e gjeta edhe redaksin\u00eb \u00a0por edhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019iu d\u00ebrguar juve k\u00ebt\u00eb let\u00ebr. Un\u00eb kam dy vajzat e djalit t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e adolesh\u00ebnc\u00ebs. Nj\u00ebra mbaroi vitin e tret\u00eb kurse tjetra fillon vitin e par\u00eb gjimnaz n\u00eb shtator. Ato kan\u00eb qen\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb urta por vitin e fundit shoq\u00ebria ka ndikuar shum\u00eb tek ato dhe jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb pad\u00ebgjueshme duke k\u00ebrkuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb dhe n\u00eb or\u00eb t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshtatshme me justifikimin t\u00eb gjitha shoqet tona dalin, por mua nuk m\u00eb duket e llogjikshme q\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr n\u00eb at\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb dal\u00eb nat\u00ebn von\u00eb. Nusja merret shum\u00eb me edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve por edhe djali po, pavar\u00ebsisht se ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe nevrikoset shum\u00eb dhe un\u00eb i them q\u00eb t\u00eb flasi me qet\u00ebsi se me nerva nuk zgjidh gj\u00eb. Ju lutem mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni se si duhet t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb brezin e sot\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk i mungon asgj\u00eb dhe prap\u00eb nuk k\u00ebnaqet? Faleminderit dhe pres p\u00ebrgjigjen tuaj.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:- <\/strong>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje! T\u00eb falenderoj shum\u00eb p\u00ebr vler\u00ebsimin por dhe q\u00eb sjell n\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen ton\u00eb dhe t\u00eb lexuesve \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb tilla q\u00eb lidhen me edukimin. Dihet bot\u00ebrisht, edukimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebr sfidat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, brezat zhvillohen, nevojat jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, keqkuptimet t\u00eb shumta, komunikimi i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb t\u00eb pashmangshme. Konfliktet mes brezave, datojn\u00eb q\u00eb nga fillimi i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb njer\u00ebzore dhe q\u00eb kur njeriu ka filluar t\u00eb socializohet.<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lorela e dashur, na k\u00ebnaqe me k\u00ebto shkrimet e tua t\u00eb p\u00ebrjavshme ne qytetar\u00ebve q\u00eb me k\u00ebt\u00eb\u00a0 koh\u00eb q\u00eb po jetojm\u00eb kemi shum\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb na d\u00ebgjoj dhe t\u00eb na k\u00ebshilloj. Un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb 73 vje\u00e7e dhe lexuese e gazet\u00ebs Intervista p\u00ebr vite me rradh\u00eb. Duke lexuar k\u00ebto shkrime vendosa nj\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15283,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-15873","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15873","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15873"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15873\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15283"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15873"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15873"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15873"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}