{"id":15764,"date":"2017-06-24T14:13:06","date_gmt":"2017-06-24T12:13:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=15764"},"modified":"2017-06-24T14:13:06","modified_gmt":"2017-06-24T12:13:06","slug":"15764","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/06\/15764\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00eb tradh\u00ebton burri, si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jam nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb nga zona e Beratit dhe kam pes\u00eb vite e martuar. N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb martes\u00ebs burri m\u00eb respektonte shum\u00eb, nuk kemi patur kurr\u00eb debate, \u00e7do gj\u00eb shkonte p\u00ebr mrekulli deri para 9 muajsh q\u00eb ai filloi u ftoh, nuk komunikonte m\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb me mua. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie kryejm\u00eb nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb muaj, nuk m\u00eb thot\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb, m\u00eb par\u00eb dilnim \u00e7do jav\u00eb. N\u00eb fillim mendova se mos ka ndonj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe e mir\u00ebkuptova e nuk i thash\u00eb gj\u00eb por tani kam d\u00ebgjuar fjal\u00eb q\u00eb burri im ka z\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe komshija jon\u00eb. Nuk di si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj dhe m\u00eb shqet\u00ebson shum\u00eb, burrit nuk di si t\u2019ia them se kam frik\u00eb nga reagimi i tij, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mendoj t\u00eb kap zonj\u00ebn me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn burri im m\u00eb tradh\u00ebton por sigurisht q\u00eb ajo do e mohoj\u00eb, por un\u00eb jam tep\u00ebr e sigurt\u00eb pasi fshehurazi i kam kontrolluar burrit tim telefonin dhe kam par\u00eb sms e saj t\u00eb cilat ishin ruajtur n\u00eb telefon dhe kishin ngelur pa u fshir\u00eb. Ju lutem mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb sepse jam n\u00eb dilem\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Zgjidhja e vetme \u00ebsht\u00eb ndarja sepse nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb tradh\u00ebton nj\u00eb her\u00eb e b\u00ebn gjithmon\u00eb. Rina<\/strong><\/p>\n

-B\u00ebhu aktive me burrin, nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur bashk\u00ebshortin e saj. Ronilda<\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u00cbsht\u00eb edhe faji i femrave sepse e l\u00ebn\u00eb veten shum\u00eb pas dore, b\u00ebhen si “burra” e \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb burri i shkret\u00eb, i duket vetja gay kur shkon me to. Doraldo<\/strong><\/p>\n

Merri hak dhe ti, ta kuptoj se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh e tradh\u00ebtuar! Gjej nj\u00eb djal\u00eb king si puna ime e k\u00ebnaqu, mos humb koh\u00eb. Naldi<\/strong><\/p>\n

– <\/strong>Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb problemi jot zonj\u00eb burri q\u00eb t\u00eb tradh\u00ebton apo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale me burrin, se jan\u00eb dy gj\u00ebra t\u00eb ndryshme. Mundohu ta josh\u00ebsh m\u00eb shum\u00eb burrin q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb aktiv. Luan<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E vetmja gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb ta l\u00ebsh t\u00eb lir\u00eb. E di q\u00eb do kesh paragjykime se \u00ebsht\u00eb vendi i till\u00eb (Qimen n\u00eb sy t\u00eb tjetrit e shohin nd\u00ebrsa tran n\u00eb syrin e vet nuk e shohin) \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shprehje. Prandaj ndahu nga ai edhe shiko jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde se \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb flesh vet\u00ebm n\u00eb krevat se sa t\u00eb kesh gjarp\u00ebrin n\u00eb gji. Turp t\u00eb ket\u00eb edhe ajo e Zoti e d\u00ebnoft\u00eb q\u00eb po shkat\u00ebrron nj\u00eb familje. Ana<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb normale t\u00eb kryesh 1 her\u00eb n\u00eb muaj marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, nj\u00eb \u00e7ift i lumtur duhet t\u00eb kryej e pakta 3 her\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, dashuria mban gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje, b\u00ebja t\u00eb qart\u00eb burrit ose t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb me t\u00eb ose me ty, po e pe prap\u00eb me t\u00eb ndahu sa je her\u00ebt. Ti meriton t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb fal\u00eb shum dashuri dhe shum\u00eb lumturi n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Edona<\/strong><\/p>\n

-N\u00ebse ai t\u00eb ka tradh\u00ebtuar do e b\u00ebj prap\u00eb k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb merr placket e tua dhe largohu sa je n\u00eb koh\u00eb. Marsel<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Un\u00eb p\u00ebr vete nuk do mund ta falja dot kurr\u00eb n\u00ebse do merrja vesh q\u00eb burri im do m\u00eb tradh\u00ebtonte dhe sigurisht q\u00eb do e ndaja menj\u00ebher\u00eb. Silva<\/strong><\/p>\n

-M\u00eb e mira q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ulesh dhe t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh m\u00eb burrin t\u00ebnd p\u00ebr situat\u00ebn q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar pasi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe faji jot q\u00eb ai t\u00eb tradh\u00ebton. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb njeri nuk t\u00eb plot\u00ebson at\u00ebher\u00eb ndodh edhe tradh\u00ebtia. Juri<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Udh\u00ebkryq M\u00eb tradh\u00ebton burri, si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj? Jam nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb nga zona e Beratit dhe kam pes\u00eb vite e martuar. N\u00eb fillim t\u00eb martes\u00ebs burri m\u00eb respektonte shum\u00eb, nuk kemi patur kurr\u00eb debate, \u00e7do gj\u00eb shkonte p\u00ebr mrekulli deri para 9 muajsh q\u00eb ai filloi u ftoh, nuk komunikonte m\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb me mua. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[221],"class_list":["post-15764","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-udhekryq","tag-udhekryq-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15764","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15764"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15764\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15764"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15764"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15764"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}