Psikologia Lorela Garuli, tregon gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb loj\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme!<\/p>\n
Fabjola Kuburi:-Lorela, \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo epidemi apo virus virtual vdekjeprur\u00ebs, me emrin \u201cBalena Blu\u201d?<\/strong><\/p>\n Lorela Garuli, psikologe:-<\/strong> Ka nisur si loj\u00eb n\u00eb fakt, si nj\u00eb aplikacion online, por q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrezik serioz. Duhet th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe pranuar q\u00eb tendenca t\u00eb tilla t\u00eb ngjashme ka disa, q\u00eb qarkullojn\u00eb n\u00eb internet dhe q\u00eb po p\u00ebrhapin nj\u00eb \u201cmod\u00eb\u201d t\u00eb paarsyeshme, pa logjik\u00eb dhe kaq t\u00eb gabuar nd\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe adoleshent\u00eb, duke pasur n\u00eb thelb nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebtim t\u00eb rreziksh\u00ebm, n\u00ebnshtrimin ndaj provave, veprimeve ekstreme, d\u00ebmtimit t\u00eb trupit, ndjekjen e ritualeve e praktikave pak satanike dhe sensit t\u00eb protagonizmit.<\/p>\n -Si funksionon kjo \u201cloj\u00eb\u201d?<\/strong><\/p>\n – \u00cbsht\u00eb paradoksale, sepse f\u00ebmija apo adoleshenti q\u00eb merr pjes\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00eb\u00ebt loj\u00eb nuk dallon dot m\u00eb realitetin nga virtualja. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb loja qarkullon n\u00ebp\u00ebr internet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb digitale e virtuale, veprimet q\u00eb ndjek\u00ebsit e k\u00ebsaj loje kryejn\u00eb, jan\u00eb shum\u00eb konkrete. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb loj\u00eb perverse mund t\u00eb thuhet, p\u00ebr nga m\u00ebnyra e t\u00eb konceptuarit, sepse n\u00eb themel t\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb forma t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebrit keq t\u00eb vetes. T\u00eb b\u00ebhesh pjes\u00eb e loj\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb, p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq. Kushdo mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb akses dhe ta shkarkoj\u00eb. Komandat p\u00ebr loj\u00ebn merren online.<\/p>\n -Cil\u00ebt personash b\u00ebhen pre zakonisht?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Personat q\u00eb kan\u00eb predispozit\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhen pre e loj\u00ebs, jan\u00eb adoleshent\u00eb apo f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb vetmuar, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk socializohen shum\u00eb dhe q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr internet apo rrjete sociale. Adoleshent\u00ebt n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb etap\u00ebs s\u00eb zhvillimit n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndodhen shpesh p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb konflikte me njer\u00ebzit e af\u00ebrt, me familjar\u00ebt dhe mbyllen edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb vetvete. Gjithashtu, si rrjedhoj\u00eb edhe e ndryshimeve hormonale, ata shpesh kan\u00eb luhatje humori sepse jan\u00eb akoma n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb identiteti t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb psikosocial. Prandaj, adoleshent\u00ebt p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb shpesh ndjenja izolimi, depresioni, ulje t\u00eb vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimit. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb disa nga ve\u00e7orit\u00eb kryesore t\u00eb personave q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb brisht\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikuar p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb pjes\u00eb e loj\u00ebs. Gjithashtu, kjo loj\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet stadeve t\u00eb saj, b\u00ebhet p\u00ebrher\u00eb dhe m\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul\u00ebse duke kontrolluar aspekte t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs apo adoleshentit. N\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, teston dhe aft\u00ebsin\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d dhe p\u00ebr ta nd\u00ebrpres\u00eb, sepse nj\u00ebri prej rregullave \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb kush nuk i bindet administratorit, p\u00ebrjashtohet nga loja. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb cil\u00ebt pranojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra e q\u00eb nuk din\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb, kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb bien pre. Grupmosha q\u00eb rrezikon t\u00eb bjer\u00eb pre \u00ebsht\u00eb nga 9 deri 17 vjec.<\/p>\n -\u00c7far\u00eb i shtyn p\u00ebrdoruesit e internetit, ta shkarkojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb loj\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Adoleshent\u00ebt sigurisht q\u00eb i shtyn kureshtja, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 gjith\u00eb arsyeve t\u00eb lartp\u00ebrmendura, q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me faktor\u00ebt q\u00eb lidhen me personat m\u00eb vulnerab\u00ebl p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb pjes\u00eb e loj\u00ebs.<\/p>\n -Ka nisur n\u00eb Rusi dhe ka zbarkuar n\u00eb pothuajse gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, ka prekur dhe Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb, e frikshme apo jo?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Shum\u00eb e frikshme. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7menduri. Por fatmir\u00ebsisht ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dy muaj q\u00eb ka filluar t\u00eb hetohet ky fenomen. P\u00ebr pasoj\u00eb, ai q\u00eb e krijoi \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn masat e siguris\u00eb dhe drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb ruse. Bashk\u00eb me hetimin, m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ky lajm \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur shum\u00eb shpejt dhe media po luan rolin e vet p\u00ebr ta parandaluar duke informuar dhe nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsuar.<\/p>\n -Sa nivele ka kjo loj\u00eb dhe cili \u00ebsht\u00eb niveli p\u00ebrfundimtar?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Marr\u00ebzia me emrin \u201cBalena blu\u201d ka 50 nivele, p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht nj\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Ajo parashikon 50 prova, t\u00eb cilat do t\u00eb kryhen p\u00ebr 50 dit\u00eb me radh\u00eb. Nuk jan\u00eb pak, por pothuajse 2 muaj, gjat\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebve f\u00ebmija apo adoleshenti i n\u00ebnshtrohen nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb provave q\u00eb e d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb at\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm psikologjikisht, por edhe fizikisht.<\/p>\n Zgjimi n\u00eb 4.20 t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb video me p\u00ebrmbajtje thriller apo filma horror, ngulja e gozhd\u00ebve n\u00eb trup, \u00e7arja e l\u00ebkur\u00ebs me mjete t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb form\u00ebn e nj\u00eb balene dhe gdhendja e f57, komunikimi me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr lojtar p\u00ebrmes videobisedave n\u00eb skype, \u00e7arja e buz\u00ebs, shkaktimi i dhimbjeve n\u00ebp\u00ebr trup, ngjitja dhe q\u00ebndrimi p\u00ebr disa koh\u00eb n\u00eb tarrac\u00ebn e nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrtese t\u00eb lart\u00eb dhe n\u00eb dit\u00ebn e nj\u00ebzetegjasht\u00eb sipas rregullit, kuratori i thot\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs apo adoleshentit dat\u00ebn q\u00eb do t\u00eb sakrifikoj\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe ky i fundit duhet ta pranoj\u00eb. Hapi i fundit fatal, hedhja nga nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrtes\u00eb e lart\u00eb, q\u00eb shkakton humbjen e jet\u00ebs. I gjith\u00eb ky itinerar i \u00e7mendur duhet t\u00eb zhvillohet n\u00eb heshtje, pa i th\u00ebn\u00eb askujt asgj\u00eb.<\/p>\n -Sa raste ka q\u00eb kan\u00eb mbyllur nivelin 50 me vet\u00ebvrasje?<\/strong><\/p>\n – Konsiderohen rreth 157 raste q\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsisht kan\u00eb arritur n\u00eb nivelin e fundit t\u00eb loj\u00ebs, n\u00eb vet\u00ebvrasje, kryesisht n\u00eb Rusi, por loja \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrhapur dhe n\u00eb SHBA, Britani, Franc\u00eb, Brazil. Por vetwvrasje dhe tentativa kemi patur edhe nw Shqipwri dhe nuk dihet nwse ka ndikuar kjo lojw, apo jo\u2026<\/p>\n Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t’ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Psikologia Lorela Garuli, tregon gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb loj\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme! Fabjola Kuburi:-Lorela, \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo epidemi apo virus virtual vdekjeprur\u00ebs, me emrin \u201cBalena Blu\u201d? Lorela Garuli, psikologe:- Ka nisur si loj\u00eb n\u00eb fakt, si nj\u00eb aplikacion online, por q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrezik serioz. Duhet th\u00ebn\u00eb dhe pranuar q\u00eb tendenca t\u00eb tilla t\u00eb ngjashme […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15700,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-15699","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aktualitet","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15699","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15699"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15699\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15700"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15699"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15699"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15699"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}