{"id":15585,"date":"2017-06-03T21:13:07","date_gmt":"2017-06-03T19:13:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=15585"},"modified":"2017-06-03T21:13:07","modified_gmt":"2017-06-03T19:13:07","slug":"alkooli-po-shkaterron-vajzen-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/06\/alkooli-po-shkaterron-vajzen-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Alkooli po shkat\u00ebrron vajz\u00ebn time\u2026!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Lorela p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, un\u00eb jam Liljana n\u00ebna e dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe nj\u00eb lexuese e rregullt e rregullt e gazet\u00ebs Intervista. Ju p\u00ebrg\u00ebzoj m\u00eb \u00e7ilt\u00ebrsin\u00eb, pozitivitetin q\u00eb p\u00ebrcillni n\u00eb familjet shqiptare. SI t\u00eb gjith\u00eb edhe un\u00eb kam nj\u00eb problem t\u00eb cilin do doja ta ndaja me ju dhe t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonit me nj\u00eb zgjidhje qoft\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb. Vajza ime \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb rrog\u00ebn e prish p\u00ebr 3 dit\u00eb dhe pastaj vjen m\u00eb k\u00ebrkon lek\u00eb mua. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e varur nga alkooli dhe nuk di si t\u2019ia b\u00ebj. E kam \u00e7uar dhe n\u00ebp\u00ebr mjek\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm por nuk ka mundur do ta l\u00ebr\u00eb. Sa her\u00eb q\u00eb i flas p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb m\u00eb kund\u00ebrp\u00ebrgjigjet q\u00eb pa t\u00eb ajo do ishte e vdekur. Nuk mundem dot t\u2019a kuptoj \u00e7far\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia i jep q\u00eb e b\u00ebn at\u00eb gj\u00eb. Po shkat\u00ebrrohet vet por po m\u00eb m\u00ebrzit dhe mua q\u00eb jam n\u00ebna e saj dhe e shoh n\u00eb at\u00eb gjendje. Ju lutem m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj me t\u00eb? Faleminderit, pres p\u00ebrgjigjen tuaj.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lorela Garuli, psikologe, email <\/strong><a href=\"mailto:lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-\"><strong>lorela_garuli@hotmail.com:-<\/strong><\/a>P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje e dashur! T\u00eb falenderoj sinqerisht. N\u00ebse vajza konsumon \u00e7do dit\u00eb alkool apo nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb saj \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala p\u00ebr var\u00ebsin\u00eb ndaj alkoolit. Var\u00ebsit\u00eb sigurisht q\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb probleme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme dhe angazhimet e personit q\u00eb e konsumon at\u00eb. Var\u00ebsia ndaj alkoolit mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb shum\u00eb shkaqe dhe rrug\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u2019i hyr\u00eb asaj jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme. Megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmerrni cfar\u00ebdolloj hapi apo strategjie p\u00ebr kurim, ju duhet t\u00eb qart\u00ebsoni disa gj\u00ebra me vajz\u00ebn tuaj. Duhet t\u00eb dini me k\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohet, ku shkon dhe ku i gjen lek\u00ebt kur i mbarohen ato t\u00eb rrog\u00ebs, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 atyre q\u00eb i jepni ju. Var\u00ebsit\u00eb shoq\u00ebrohen shpeshher\u00eb nga nj\u00eb mjedis i caktuar social apo nga disa rituale e praktika sociale ose nga shoq\u00ebrimi me nj\u00eb grup shoq\u00ebror. Di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb praktikojn\u00eb shpesh familjet t\u00eb cilat kan\u00eb nj\u00eb an\u00ebtar q\u00eb ka nj\u00eb lloj var\u00ebsie \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb i shk\u00ebpusin ndihm\u00ebn ekonomike atij an\u00ebtari, me q\u00ebllimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos i siguruar dhe leht\u00ebsuar k\u00ebshtu aksesin ndaj alkoolit n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast. Megjtihat\u00eb, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb zgjedhje personale sepse n\u00eb nj\u00eb rast t\u00eb till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i pranish\u00ebm rreziku q\u00eb personi i cili ka nj\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb caktuar, t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet n\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb rrezikshme apo kriminale. Var\u00ebsit\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi dhe shqet\u00ebsime p\u00ebr familjar\u00ebt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebve u bie barra e k\u00ebrkimit dhe zbatimit n\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre e terapis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga kjo situat\u00eb. Var\u00ebsia ndaj alkoolit ka faktor\u00eb psikologjik\u00eb dhe fiziologjik\u00eb, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se duke u m\u00ebsuar me alkoolin individi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar me nj\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb caktuar; duke pir\u00eb ndihet m\u00eb mir\u00eb, trupi i tij ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb ndjehet n\u00eb at\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb dhe t\u00eb marr\u00eb ato stimuj. L\u00ebnia \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb sepse gjithashtu n\u00eb \u00e7astin q\u00eb vendosin ta l\u00ebn\u00eb, shfaqen ato q\u00eb quhen kriza abstinence, disa simptoma fizike ku individi ndihet keq si pasoj\u00eb e gjendjes s\u00eb re, kur organizmi duhet t\u2019i p\u00ebrshtatet gjendjes s\u00eb re, pa marr\u00eb at\u00eb substanc\u00eb q\u00eb ishte m\u00ebsuar. Trupi dhe mendja kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn e vet por me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto element\u00eb individi q\u00eb ka var\u00ebsin\u00eb e ka t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb heq\u00eb dor\u00eb, sepse dhe kur e nd\u00ebrmerr k\u00ebt\u00eb hap, shpesh rikthehet. P\u00ebr k\u00ebto arsye, u mbetet familjar\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmve t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb m\u00ebnyrat p\u00ebr ta nxjerr\u00eb t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin e tyre nga var\u00ebsia. Terapit\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme; nisin prej atyre psikologjike e psikoterapeutike, ndihm\u00ebs prej mjekut psikiat\u00ebr, qendrave rehabilituese, terapit\u00eb e grupit, hospitalizimi me q\u00ebllim desintoksikimin nga alkooli (shpesh ky \u00ebsht\u00eb hapi i par\u00eb i terapis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb alkoolin).<\/p>\n<p>Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t&#8217;ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lorela p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, un\u00eb jam Liljana n\u00ebna e dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe nj\u00eb lexuese e rregullt e rregullt e gazet\u00ebs Intervista. Ju p\u00ebrg\u00ebzoj m\u00eb \u00e7ilt\u00ebrsin\u00eb, pozitivitetin q\u00eb p\u00ebrcillni n\u00eb familjet shqiptare. SI t\u00eb gjith\u00eb edhe un\u00eb kam nj\u00eb problem t\u00eb cilin do doja ta ndaja me ju dhe t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonit me nj\u00eb zgjidhje qoft\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebm [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15283,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[1194],"class_list":["post-15585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu","tag-lorela-garuli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15585"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15585\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15283"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}