{"id":15522,"date":"2017-05-27T13:31:43","date_gmt":"2017-05-27T11:31:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=15522"},"modified":"2017-05-27T13:31:43","modified_gmt":"2017-05-27T11:31:43","slug":"pyesni-njeri-tjetrin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/05\/pyesni-njeri-tjetrin\/","title":{"rendered":"Pyesni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin"},"content":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq<\/strong><\/p>\n

Po b\u00ebj m\u00ebkat?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 25 vje\u00e7e dhe emrin tim nuk dua ta b\u00ebj public. Do desha t\u00eb ndaj me ju historin\u00eb time. Shoqja ime ka nj\u00eb lidhje nj\u00eb vje\u00e7are me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb nga jugu i Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb ku un\u00eb t\u00eb cilin e kam takuar disa her\u00eb gjithashtu e kam friend edhe n\u00eb facebook. I dashuri i shoqes sime m\u00eb ngacmon shpeshher\u00eb dhe duket sikur ka nj\u00eb p\u00eblqim ndaj meje dhe un\u00eb jam kam kthyer por p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shoqja ime nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb dieni. Un\u00eb kam dhe nj\u00eb lidhje dy mujore me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb cilin e kam patur shok prej 6 vitesh. Me t\u00eb shkoj shum\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe ai sillet shum\u00eb mir\u00eb me mua. M\u00eb respekton tej mase si ai ashtu dhe njer\u00ebzit e tij q\u00eb mua m\u00eb njohin. Un\u00eb kam frik\u00eb se ai do marri vesh bised\u00ebn me djalin tjet\u00ebr dhe do m\u00eb l\u00ebri dhe nga humbja e tij kam shum\u00eb frik\u00eb. Ju lutem mund t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj se jam shum\u00eb n\u00eb dilem\u00eb? <\/strong><\/p>\n

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– Leje bised\u00ebn me t\u00eb dashurin e shoqes se asgj\u00ebkundi nuk shkon me at\u00eb por q\u00ebndroji besnike djalit q\u00eb ke dy muaj lidhje. Joli<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cbsht\u00eb fare e qart\u00eb, leje muhabetin me t\u00eb dashurin e shoqes dhe vazhdo lidhjen me djalin q\u00eb ke lidhje prej dy muajsh. Klaudja<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Duket fare e thjesht\u00eb, vazhdo lidhjen me djalin q\u00eb je e lidhur dhe mos i fol m\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit t\u00eb shoqes pasi nuk shkon fare si muhabet e tregon q\u00eb ti je nj\u00eb shoqe jo besnike q\u00eb po i’a b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb shoqes t\u00ebnde. Marjo<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mos u merr fare me t\u00eb dashurin e shoqes se p\u00ebrderisa po i’a b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb shoqes t\u00ebnde nj\u00eb dit\u00eb mund t’a b\u00ebjn\u00eb ty k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb ndaj vazhdo lidhjen me djalin q\u00eb ke dy muaj e lidhur. Juli<\/strong><\/p>\n

-M\u00eb keq s’ka ku t\u00eb vej\u00eb q\u00eb ti tradh\u00ebton besimin e shoqes t\u00ebnde e flet me t\u00eb dashurin e saj. Vazhdo lidhjen t\u00ebnde me at\u00eb djalin q\u00eb ke dy muaj e lidhur dhe mos i b\u00ebj k\u00ebto lojra pas shpin\u00ebs shoqes t\u00ebnde e cila ka besim tek ty. Oligerta<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Pritja shkurt muhabetin t\u00eb dashurit shoqes madje tregoji edhe shoqes \u00e7far\u00eb mashkulli ka n\u00eb krah e vazhdo lidhjen me djalin q\u00eb je e lidhur aktualisht. Endri<\/strong><\/p>\n

-N\u00ebse e ke v\u00ebrtet shoqe t\u00eb mir\u00eb at\u00eb goc\u00ebn tregoji \u00e7far\u00eb mashkulli ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashur e vazhdo lidhjen t\u00ebnd. Pasi n\u00ebse ti lidhesh me t\u00eb dashurin e shoqes nga e di ti q\u00eb ai nuk do t’a beje dhe ty k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb po b\u00ebn me ty tani me nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr tjet\u00ebr pasi t\u00eb jesh lidhur me at\u00eb?\u00a0 Ndaj vazhdo lidhjen q\u00eb ke. Sidorela<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mos e tradh\u00ebto besimin e shoqes t\u00ebnde e tregoji \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb duke b\u00ebr\u00eb i dashuri i saj e hapja syt\u00eb mir\u00eb. M\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb fitosh nj\u00eb shoqe se t\u00eb dashur i cili nes\u00ebr mund t’a b\u00ebj\u00eb dhe ty k\u00ebt\u00eb loj\u00eb si\u00e7 po ja b\u00ebn asaj dhe mos ki turp as frik\u00eb t’ia tregosh e vazhdo lidhjen q\u00eb ke. Reni<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mbaj lidhjen q\u00eb ke edhe tregoji shoqes p\u00ebr situat\u00ebn q\u00eb ke me t\u00eb dashurin e saj q\u00eb dhe ajo t\u00eb largohet nga nj\u00eb mashkull i till\u00eb. Serxho<\/strong><\/p>\n

– M\u00eb mir\u00eb mbaj t\u00eb dashurin q\u00eb ke e hapja syt\u00eb shoqes p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashurin q\u00eb ka. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb mendoj un\u00eb. Danjela<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pyetje t\u00eb reja<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ebse do zbulonit q\u00eb nj\u00eb shok apo shoqe ju dashuron, do q\u00ebndronit m\u00eb me t\u00eb apo do i nd\u00ebrprisni p\u00ebrfundimisht komunikimet?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb kemi pyetur kur do mbyllet \u00e7adra kur do mbyllet \u00e7adra po tani me \u00e7far\u00eb do merremi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb vlere kan\u00eb k\u00ebto ministra teknik\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb firme?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb po varf\u00ebrohemi kaq shum\u00eb n\u00eb muzik\u00eb, nga viti n\u00eb viti n\u00eb vit po groposemi?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u00c7’mendim keni p\u00ebr shprehjen “Dor\u00ebn q\u00eb se kafshon dot puthe”?<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong>Shprehja ka kuptimin q\u00eb n\u00ebse je n\u00eb situata n\u00eb disfavorin t\u00ebnd dhe s’ia del dot me t\u00eb keq at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh lajkatar e t’a mbash mir\u00eb muhabetin me at\u00eb t\u00eb cilin ke konfliktin. Xeni<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Kjo th\u00ebnie ka kuptimin :”Kujt nuk i’a ha dot kok\u00ebn me t\u00eb keq duhet t’ia hash kok\u00ebn me t\u00eb mir\u00eb”. Sanjela<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> T\u00eb keqit duhet t’ia sjell\u00ebsh situat\u00ebn n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb q\u00eb t’ia marr\u00ebsh respektin me t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00ebse nuk i’a del dot me t\u00eb keq. Kristi<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kjo ka kuptimin q\u00eb personat q\u00eb t\u00eb jan\u00eb sjell\u00eb mir\u00eb mos t’ua hedh\u00ebsh posht\u00eb respektin q\u00eb t\u00eb kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb mosmir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs por t’u sillesh me respekt p\u00ebr ndihm\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb dikur. Joli<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Kush t\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb mir\u00eb b\u00ebji mir\u00eb e kush t\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb keq ktheja me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn monedh\u00eb. Elona<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb durojm\u00eb dik\u00eb ve\u00e7 p\u00ebr faktin se na ka ndihmuar dikur e s’mund t\u00eb sillemi keq me at\u00eb ve\u00e7 prej k\u00ebtij fakti. Iris<\/strong><\/p>\n

-Kjo shprehje m\u00eb kujton th\u00ebnien tjet\u00ebr :”As qeni nuk e kafshon dor\u00ebn q\u00eb e ushqen”. Me fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tjera mos u sill keq me at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ka nxjerr\u00eb nga situata t\u00eb sikletshme n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Ervin<\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/strong> Respekto e mbaj af\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ka ndihmuar edhe pse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb persona t\u00eb till\u00eb mund t\u00eb sillen pak keq me ne ne disa situata. Stela<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kete shkrim mund ta lexoni te plote ne gazeten Intervista qe e gjeni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha kioskat e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb Greqis\u00eb. Mund t’ua dergojme edhe n\u00eb adres\u00ebn tuaj te emailit p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 99 cent n\u00eb muaj. Kontaktoni me ne n\u00eb inbox!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Udh\u00ebkryq Po b\u00ebj m\u00ebkat? Jam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 25 vje\u00e7e dhe emrin tim nuk dua ta b\u00ebj public. Do desha t\u00eb ndaj me ju historin\u00eb time. Shoqja ime ka nj\u00eb lidhje nj\u00eb vje\u00e7are me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb nga jugu i Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb ku un\u00eb t\u00eb cilin e kam takuar disa her\u00eb gjithashtu e kam friend edhe n\u00eb facebook. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219],"tags":[1237],"class_list":["post-15522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","tag-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15522","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15522"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15522\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}