{"id":15385,"date":"2017-05-09T13:02:07","date_gmt":"2017-05-09T11:02:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=15385"},"modified":"2017-05-09T13:02:45","modified_gmt":"2017-05-09T11:02:45","slug":"sony-nrg-e-kam-lene-muziken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2017\/05\/sony-nrg-e-kam-lene-muziken\/","title":{"rendered":"Sony NRG: E kam l\u00ebn\u00eb muzik\u00ebn!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Ai gjithnj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dalluar si m\u00eb i vecanti i grupit, m\u00eb energjiku dhe vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb ende ai Soni me k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimetm\u00eb interesante p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. E nisi muzik\u00ebn me grupin \u201cThe Dreams\u201d ku bashk\u00eb meFlorin dhe Eriostin u kthyen n\u00eb tre djemt\u00eb e preferuar t\u00eb vajzave si dhe memuzik\u00ebn q\u00eb b\u00ebnin aq sa vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmenden edhe sot. Nd\u00ebrsa pas shum\u00ebkoh\u00ebsh, Soni vjen solo me klipin e tij m\u00eb t\u00eb fundit \u201cSupermodel of the world\u201d,nj\u00eb krijim ky i Stines. Por si erdhi kjo k\u00ebng\u00eb pas shum\u00eb koh\u00ebsh? Pse u fol p\u00ebrnj\u00eb ribashkim t\u00eb The Dreams? P\u00ebr t\u00ebgjitha k\u00ebto e shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjera Soni rr\u00ebfehet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb intervist\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn pasi talexoni, do t\u00eb njihni Sonin e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe mjaft interesant\u2026.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Mia B: – Soni, pas nj\u00eb mungese t\u00eb gjat\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb kur gati t\u00eb gjith\u00eb menduan se e kishe l\u00ebn\u00eb muzik\u00ebn, ti rikthehesh n\u00eb muzik\u00eb me\u201cSupermodel of the World\u201d \u2026\u00a0<\/span>
\nSony NRG:- T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb dhe aspak t\u00eb padrejt\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb menduar. N\u00eb nj\u00ebfar\u00eb m\u00ebnyre un\u00eb e kam l\u00ebn\u00eb muzik\u00ebn dhe nuk besoj se do i kushtohem m\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb. D\u00ebshira p\u00ebr tu takuar me t\u00eb gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e vog\u00ebl, por angazhimi n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim besoj se do t\u00eb jet\u00eb me trafik shum\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt. E shoh m\u00eb shum\u00eb veten si nj\u00eb \u201centertainer\u201d, si nj\u00eb prezantues ne TV, Nd\u00ebrsa ideja se si erdhi\u201cSupermodel of the World\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb: Nj\u00eb miku im Stine, producent i njohur dhe italentuar, t\u00eb cilin dua ta pershendes, takohet me mua p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kafe t\u00eb zakonshme. Pas saj shkojm\u00eb n\u00eb palest\u00ebr p\u00ebr st\u00ebrvitje, m\u00eb pas n\u00eb studio sepse at\u00eb e prisnin disa pun\u00eb. Pasi mbaron pun\u00ebt e tij, ndodh nj\u00eb moment frymezimi, pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment frym\u00ebzimi lindi dhe\u201cSupermodel of the World\u201d. Ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb proces i udh\u00ebhequr t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht nga rast\u00ebsia.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Kujt i dedikohet kjo k\u00ebng\u00eb?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Mendoj se \u00e7do njeri do d\u00ebshironte t\u00eb ket\u00eb n\u00eb krah nj\u00eb Supermodele. Kur them Supermodele, nuk e kam fjal\u00ebn vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr pamjen fizike, por q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00ebSupermodele dhe n\u00eb brend\u00ebsi t\u00eb saj, pasi p\u00ebr mua bukuria e nj\u00eb njeriu q\u00ebndron m\u00ebthell\u00eb nga c\u2019kap syri. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb burimi i frym\u00ebzimit t\u00eb tekstit e ka origjin\u00ebnnga dy persona dashuria e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve shkonte p\u00ebrtej limiteve, nj\u00eb dashuri q\u00ebishte m\u00eb e madhe se bota. Po e p\u00ebrfundojduke th\u00ebn\u00eb se \u00e7dokush q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron nj\u00eb Supermodele apo q\u00eb e ka n\u00eb krah at\u00eb, leta konsideroj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebng\u00eb si t\u00eb vet\u00ebn.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– E till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb vajza q\u00eb ke aktualishtn\u00eb krah? Supermodele?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Dikush ka thene se n\u00eb bot\u00eb ka dy tragjedi; e para \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mos kesh at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron,nd\u00ebrsa e dyta \u00ebsht\u00eb ta kesh at\u00eb. Un\u00eb q\u00ebndroj tek te dyta, nuk e kam at\u00eb q\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj,por dhe e kam at\u00eb. Nuk mund t\u00eb them se nuk e kam n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb e kam, dhe nukmund t\u00eb them se e kam n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e kam. (Qesh)\u00a0<\/span>
\n– U reziston dot flirteve verore?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-N\u00ebse n\u00eb krah\u00eb do t\u00eb kisha nj\u00eb supermodele, do t\u2019u kisha rezistuar, por edhe n\u00ebsedo t\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb ndryshe, prap asgj\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb ndryshonte. Nuk jam i dh\u00ebn\u00eb pasflirteve, ndoshta mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb pasur raste t\u00eb kujdesshme, por nuk jam i dh\u00ebn\u00ebpas flirteve, m\u00eb shum\u00eb jam i dh\u00ebn\u00eb pas njohjeve sesa pas flirteve. Dhe m\u00ebnyratp\u00ebr t\u2019u njohur me dik\u00eb mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb shumta, ka shum\u00eb situata, \u00e7aste dhemomente n\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb takojn\u00eb me dik\u00eb, pa qen\u00eb e nevojshme q\u00eb ato m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00ebkalojn\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00eb flirtuese. Dikush flirton dhe del i k\u00ebnaqur nga kjo, dikush tjet\u00ebr flirton dhe del i pak\u00ebnaqur, por ai prap\u00eb flirton q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur.Dikush tjet\u00ebr nuk flirton fare dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb i kenaqur. Kush nga t\u00eb tre ka m\u00eb shum\u00ebt\u00eb drejt\u00eb? N\u00ebse kan\u00eb t\u00eb tre t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb jemi ne rregull.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Sa \u00ebsht\u00eb shtruar Soni i \u201ccmendurive\u201d\u2026\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Soni i \u201ccmendurive\u201d, k\u00ebshtu shkruanin mediat gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs kur un\u00eb punoja n\u00eb televizion. M\u00eb lejoni t\u2019iu them sejeta e nj\u00eb personazhi televiziv, e nj\u00eb prezantuesi \u201cgjunj\u00ebzohet\u201d n\u00eb momentin q\u00ebai b\u00ebhet i parashikuesh\u00ebm. Kam dashur t\u00eb jem gjithmon\u00eb i paparashikuesh\u00ebmn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb televizion. Nj\u00ebpersonazh karizmatik, energjik, jasht\u00eb formave standarte, q\u00eb prezantonteemisione televizive duke b\u00ebr\u00eb humor apo q\u00eb b\u00ebnte humor duke prezantuar. Un\u00eb jamp\u00eblqyer, simpatizuar, refuzuar dhe \u201curryer\u201d, dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto jam quajtur Soni i \u201c\u00e7mendurive\u201d.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Pak koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, u fol q\u00eb do t\u00ebkishte nj\u00eb bashkim p\u00ebr \u201cThe dreams\u201d . Pse nuk u realizua kjo gj\u00eb?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Nuk kam d\u00ebgjuar asgj\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb. Ndoshta disa njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00ebna shohin s\u00ebrish bashk\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar dicka, ose mund t\u00eb na ken\u00eb par\u00ebteksa ne takohemi me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe kan\u00eb menduar at\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb dashur. Ose ndoshta ndonj\u00ebri nga djemt\u00eb mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb ndonj\u00eb deklerat\u00eb nostalgjike dhekjo ka mjaftuar. Grupi e ka mbyllur ciklin e tij. Historia e grupeve dhe fati ityre \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb fenomen i njohur dhe n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Por asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrjashtohetmund\u00ebsia q\u00eb ne t\u00eb jemi bashk\u00eb qoft\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb vet\u00ebm, sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00ebnj\u00eb material t\u00eb bukur n\u00eb form\u00eb dhurate p\u00ebr nj\u00eb publik i cili u rrit me k\u00ebng\u00ebttona.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Cfar\u00eb kujton me nostalgji nga koha kurti, Flori dhe Eriosti ishit adoleshent\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb keni qen\u00eb t\u00eb trenga Kombinati?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-\u00c7unat jan\u00eb nga Kombinati, nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb jo. Ju nuk jeni e vetmja q\u00eb e thoni k\u00ebt\u00eb,kjo sepse n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ishin m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb thonin; \u201cJane ata, TheDreams-at nga Kombinati\u201d. Edhe n\u00ebse do t\u00eb kisha shkruajtur nj\u00eb roman voluminoz p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn e adoleshenc\u00ebs ton\u00eb, prap\u00eb nuk do te kishte mjaftuar. Njeriu n\u00eb thelb \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkuara, tani q\u00eb un\u00eb po bisedoj me ju, sekondat dhe minutat q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb nuk kapen m\u00eb, ato q\u00eb kapen jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm kujtimetdhe momentet e bukura t\u00eb cilat n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb munguar. E bukura e jet\u00ebs q\u00ebndronn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb disa gj\u00ebra ndodhin vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00ebcaktuar.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Agj\u00ebron?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Po agj\u00ebroj.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– \u00c7\u2019bised\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte ajo me nj\u00eb ateist? Do mundoheshe tia mbushjemendjen qe Zoti ekziston apo do beje indiferentin?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Sot \u00ebsht\u00eb epoka e shkenc\u00ebs dhe teknologjis\u00eb dhe shumica e ateist\u00ebve besojn\u00eb seshkenca \u00ebsht\u00eb baza e \u00e7do gj\u00ebje. N\u00ebse pyes ateistin se si erdhi universi n\u00ebekzistenc\u00eb? Ai do t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb se fillimisht universi ishte nj\u00eb grumbull tymi dhem\u00eb vone ndodhi eksplodimi i njohur si \u201cBig Bang\u201d, prej t\u00eb cilit u krijuangalaksit\u00eb, yjet, dielli, planetet dhe toka n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn jetojm\u00eb. Por kur e pyesimateistin se kur kemi m\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr \u201cBig Bang-un\u201d, ai do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se kjo \u00ebsht\u00ebzbuluar koh\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit, para 30 viteve, 40 viteve. Un\u00eb i them se kyinformacion p\u00ebr krijimin e universit p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin je duke folur, p\u00ebrmendet n\u00eb Kur\u2019an para m\u00eb teper se 1400 vitesh.I them se Kur\u2019ani flet p\u00ebr fush\u00ebn e hidrologjin\u00eb, p\u00ebr ciklin e ujit n\u00eb holl\u00ebsi,flet p\u00ebr stilin e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb blet\u00ebs, stilin e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb merimang\u00ebs, stilin e jet\u00ebst\u00eb milingon\u00ebs, flet p\u00ebr shenjat e gisht\u00ebrinjve q\u00eb sot CIA, policia dhe FBI, i p\u00ebrdor p\u00ebr t\u00eb indentifikuarnjer\u00ebzit. Gj\u00ebra k\u00ebto p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat ne jemi informuar vet\u00ebm koh\u00ebve t\u00eb fundit,para 50 vitesh, para 100 vitesh, para 200 vitesh. Sipas Ajnshtajnit shkenca pafe \u00ebsht\u00eb e dobet dhe feja pa shkenc\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e verb\u00ebr. Kur\u2019ani nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lib\u00ebri shkenc\u00ebs, por \u00ebsht\u00eb lib\u00ebr i shenjave, lib\u00ebr i ajeteve (argumenteve) dhe n\u00eb Kur\u2019an ekzistojn\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se 6000 mij\u00eb shenja – ajete, 1000 prej t\u00eb cilave flasin p\u00ebr shkenc\u00ebn. K\u00ebtu nuk po k\u00ebrkoj ndihm\u00ebn e shkenc\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00ebv\u00ebrtetuar autenticitetin e Kur\u2019anit, p\u00ebrmuslimanin Kur\u2019ani \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta, p\u00ebr jo muslimanin dhe ateistin shkenca \u00ebsht\u00ebe v\u00ebrteta. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb un\u00eb po e marr t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebne tij dhe timen duke u p\u00ebrpjekur ta v\u00ebrtetojse ajo qe e v\u00ebrteta e tij \u201cshkenca\u201d, e ka zbuluar dje, para 50 vitesh, para 100vitesh, para 200 vitesh, e v\u00ebrteta jon\u00eb Kur\u2019ani tashm\u00eb e ka p\u00ebrmendur para m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 1400 vitesh. K\u00ebtodo t\u2019i thoja nj\u00eb ateisti.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Ndodhesh n\u00eb librari. Cili \u00ebsht\u00ebsektori p\u00ebr nga ku drejtohesh dhe pse?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Njeriu n\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb hallka dhe me to nj\u00eb zinxhir pas se cilit t\u00eb kapet. Sa m\u00eb t\u00ebdob\u00ebta t\u00eb jen\u00eb k\u00ebto hallka, aq m\u00eb i rrezikuar dhe i pasigurt \u00ebsht\u00eb ai ndajsfidave t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto hallka, \u00ebsht\u00eb pikerisht libri, leximi, etja p\u00ebrdije. Mendja ndalon s\u00eb zhvilluari n\u00eb at\u00eb moment kur e l\u00ebm\u00eb leximin dhemeditimin. Nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb re e as dobi n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e atij q\u00eb nuk lexon. Kushlargohet nga marrja me dituri, shpejton d\u00ebshtimin e tij. Sa m\u00eb i pazhvilluar t\u00ebjet\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri, aq m\u00eb e pranishme \u00ebsht\u00eb tek ai dhuna, agresiviteti. Brenda k\u00ebtijnjeriu mund t\u00eb gjeni forca q\u00eb punojn\u00eb p\u00ebr shkat\u00ebrrimin e jet\u00ebs dhe jo p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrtimin e saj. N\u00eb Kur\u2019an thuhet; \u201c O njerik\u00ebrko dituri, prej djepi e der n\u00eb varr\u201d. Kur futem ne librari p\u00ebrplasem ngafeja, shkenca, sociologjia, psikologjia, psekoseksoligjia dhe filozofia, por karaste q\u00eb p\u00ebrplasem dhe nga shit\u00ebsja. (Qesh)\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb libri q\u00eb e ke marr\u00eb, diku, dikujt dhe ende nuk ia ke kthyer?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Kandodhur e kund\u00ebrta. M\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00eb dhe s\u2019mi kan\u00eb kthyer. Do doja dhe un\u00eb t\u00eb merrja ndonj\u00eb lib\u00ebr dikur dhe most\u2019ia ktheja m\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb mbash di\u00e7ka t\u00eb tjetrit.Dikush ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se ai q\u00eb jep nj\u00eb liber \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cbudalla\u201d dhe ai q\u00eb e kthen at\u00eb mbrapsht \u00ebsht\u00eb akoma dhe m\u00eb \u201cbudalla\u201d,nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb them q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cbudalla\u201d ai q\u00eb jep, \u201cbudalla\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb mban. T\u00eb jap\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb edrejt\u00eb, t\u00eb mos kthesh \u00ebsht\u00eb gabim.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Sa her\u00eb ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr qet\u00ebsi, cili \u00ebsht\u00eb personi vendi drejt t\u00eb cilitt\u00ebrhiqesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pas gjithcka?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– T\u00ebgjith\u00eb ne e k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb qet\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe rehatin\u00eb n\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb ndryshme; por \u00e7far\u00eb\u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb na jep rehatin\u00eb, qetesin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore? Ka shume vende dhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb t\u00eb japin rehatidhe qet\u00ebsi. P\u00ebr mua vendi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb ku gjej qet\u00ebsi dhe rehati t\u00eb brendshme \u00ebsht\u00ebXhamia.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Cilat jan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb e pasurojn\u00eb jet\u00ebnt\u00ebnde, bot\u00ebn t\u00ebnde?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– \u00cbsht\u00ebsistemi i t\u00eb menduarit, m\u00ebnyra se si e pres lumturin\u00eb dhe dhimbjen. Psh, n\u00ebsejeta na buz\u00ebqesh dhe ne jemi t\u00eb rrethuar nga suksesi, fama dhe pushteti, mbi t\u00ebgjitha duhet falenderuar Zoti. M\u00eb pasnuk duhet t\u00eb tregohemi t\u00eb pap\u00ebrfillsh\u00ebm, arrogant\u00eb dhe mendjem\u00ebdhenj\u00eb me njer\u00ebzit.Mendjemadh\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb dob\u00ebt. N\u00ebse shohim t\u00eb varf\u00ebr duhett\u00eb tregohemi t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm ndaj tyre. N\u00ebse ndodh q\u00eb jeta t\u00eb na marr\u00eb p\u00ebr posht\u00eb,prap\u00eb duhet falenderuar Zoti. Problemet dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs i japinnjeriut dhimbje. N\u00ebse kjo gj\u00ebndje nuk menaxhohet si duhet \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt q\u00ebshkohet me humbje. N\u00eb jet\u00eb njeriu duhet t\u00eb provoj\u00eb dhe dhimbjen pasi di\u00e7ka q\u00ebat\u00eb nuk e vret, e b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb.Dhimbjen, mos lumturin\u00eb etj, duhet ti l\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb rregullisht n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet sit\u00ebss\u00eb arsyes, p\u00ebrndryshe ato do t\u00eb na shkat\u00ebrronin. Kurr\u00eb s’duhet harruar p\u00ebr k\u00ebtody fytyra t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, p\u00ebr paq\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e lumturis\u00eb, n\u00ebse s’duam q\u00eb jeta me t\u00ebpaprituarat e saj t\u00eb na gjej\u00eb t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgatitur. Disa njer\u00ebz mendojn\u00eb se pik\u00ebrishtn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb afri t\u00eb lumturis\u00eb dhe dhimbjes fshihet tragjedia m\u00eb e madhe e rrac\u00ebsnjer\u00ebzore. Por un\u00eb s’jam i k\u00ebtij mendimi. Un\u00eb them se pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fenomenlart\u00ebsohet bukuria e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb e jet\u00ebs, shk\u00eblqimi e shum\u00ebllojshm\u00ebria e saj. N\u00eb\u00e7do sfer\u00eb t\u00eb veprimtaris\u00eb jet\u00ebsore vepron nj\u00eb ligj i domosdosh\u00ebm: pas \u00e7doarritjeje t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb lart\u00ebsin\u00eb e profesionit apo atyre t\u00eb emocioneve zakonishtndodh nj\u00eb r\u00ebnie e mundshme, nj\u00eb depresion. Ky sistem i t\u00eb menduari pra, meZotin n\u00eb krye, si n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb ashtu dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb keq, pasuron bot\u00ebn time.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e njohin mir\u00ebdhe nga af\u00ebr at\u00eb?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Njer\u00ebzitjan\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00eb, por ata q\u00eb e njohin nga af\u00ebr at\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00eb. Raportet shoq\u00ebrore,qofshin ato dhe nga m\u00eb t\u00eb shk\u00eblqyerat, ruhen n\u00eb ekuilibra tejet delikat. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00ebarsye duhet patur kujdes dhe duhen ruajtur balancat shoq\u00ebrore. Ka nj\u00eb rregulldhe nj\u00eb moral p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e din\u00eb, por kur vjen puna jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ezbatojn\u00eb.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Kan\u00eb ardhur t\u00eb rr\u00ebmujshme apo \u00ebsht\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka e organizuar n\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00ebvere p\u00ebr ty?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Kamb\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb pak pushime, arsyeja pse kam b\u00ebr\u00eb pak lidhet me muajin e shenjt\u00eb t\u00ebRamazanit. Un\u00eb agj\u00ebroj dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye i kam nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb pushimet. Megjithat\u00ebato pak pushime q\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb qen\u00eb as t\u00eb rr\u00ebmujshme dhe as t\u00eborganizuara. Kan\u00eb qen\u00eb disa pushime normale dhe t\u00eb qeta, por me shum\u00eb shije.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– T\u00eb gjith\u00eb e kan\u00eb nga nj\u00eb \u00e7mendurivere\u2026 Do t\u00eb ma thuash t\u00ebnden?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Patjet\u00ebr.Mos t\u00eb shkoj fare n\u00eb plazh, ja kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7menduri\u2026 (Qesh)\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Ke nxjerr\u00eb shum\u00eb \u00ebndrra nga sirtaret?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Nukmund t\u00eb them q\u00eb kam nxjerr\u00eb aq sa kam d\u00ebshiruar, por mund t\u00eb them se kam nxjerr\u00ebaq sa kam mundur. Duke qen\u00eb se njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb q\u00ebnie q\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk pushondhe nuk ndalon s\u00eb k\u00ebrkuari, un\u00eb do vazhdoj t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj me q\u00ebllim p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxjerr\u00ebnga sirtaret ato \u00ebndrra q\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– T\u00eb kesh vullnet apo ide \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb evolitshme?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Jan\u00ebv\u00ebllez\u00ebr, plot\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, nuk do i ndaja. Ja t\u2019ju jap nj\u00eb shembull:Supozojm\u00eb se un\u00eb jam ulur diku pran\u00eb nj\u00eblumi q\u00eb mbart shum\u00eb rreziqe. Rri-rri dhe mendoj, duke menduar m\u00eb vjen nj\u00ebide, kjo ide m\u00eb shtyn, m\u00eb ngacmon dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kalojlumin. Por p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar lumin k\u00ebrkohet vullnet. K\u00ebshtu pra, p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebrat\u00eb volitshme k\u00ebrkohet bashk\u00ebpunim, v\u00ebm\u00ebndje dhe kujdes. Vullneti pa idet\u00eb dheidet\u00eb pa vullnetin do t\u00eb kishin mbetur n\u00eb nj\u00eb verb\u00ebri t\u00eb plot\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb p\u00ebrjashtime,por p\u00ebrjashtimet nuk p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb rregull.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Po t\u00eb mos ishe ky q\u00eb je, kush do t\u00eb doje t\u00eb ishe?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-\u00c7do njeri q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb me siguri n\u00ebjet\u00eb i ka ndodhur t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka pa b\u00ebr\u00eb, di\u00e7ka pa marr\u00eb, di\u00e7ka pa dh\u00ebn\u00eb, kahumbur nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi dhe q\u00eb nga dora i kaikur nj\u00eb shans. Un\u00eb do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb isha ai njeriu q\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb nuk la di\u00e7ka pa b\u00ebr\u00eb,di\u00e7ka pa marr\u00eb, di\u00e7ka pa dh\u00ebn\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk e humbi at\u00eb mund\u00ebsi, apo q\u00eb nga dora nuki iku ai shans. Un\u00eb pra, do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb isha akoma edhe m\u00eb i mir\u00eb nga \u00e7\u2019jam. Tia do t\u00eb doje t\u00eb ishe akoma dhe m\u00eb e mir\u00eb nga \u00e7\u2019je? Sigurisht q\u00eb po. Nj\u00ebsoj dheun\u00eb do doja t\u00eb isha akoma dhe m\u00eb i mir\u00eb nga \u00e7\u2019jam.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Filma horror apo vizatimor\u00eb? Pse?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Filmat horror duket sikur sot m\u00eb shum\u00eb frekuentohen nga kalamajt, nd\u00ebrsa vizatimor\u00ebtnga t\u00eb rriturit. Filmat horror p\u00ebr mua kan\u00eb shum\u00eb yndyr\u00eb dhe yndyra nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb shijet e mia. Nd\u00ebrsafilmat vizatimor\u00eb jan\u00eb si nj\u00eb pije freskuese n\u00eb dit\u00eb vere apo si nj\u00eb got\u00eb enxeht\u00eb \u00e7aji n\u00eb dit\u00eb dimri. Un\u00eb p\u00ebr vete i ndjek me buz\u00ebqeshje dhe ndahem prejtyre po me buz\u00ebqeshje.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb jetoje n\u00eb nj\u00eb shpell\u00eb?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Sott\u00eb jetosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb shpell\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb. V\u00ebshtir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jetosh jasht\u00eb saj.Ariu sot nuk q\u00ebndron m\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr shpella,ai qendron i fshehur brenda te njeriu.\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Ku q\u00ebndron e gjith\u00eb filozofia e jet\u00ebs p\u00ebr ty?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Jetaduhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim, kuptim dhe vler\u00eb, por njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb vetmuar sepseato nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb mure n\u00eb vend t\u00eb urave. Njeriut i nevoitet dituria, arsimimi dheurt\u00ebsia, duke bashk\u00ebpunuar nj\u00ebri me tjetrin n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb rruzullin toksor pa marr\u00ebparasysh si e quan ai veten: musliman, i krishter\u00eb, europian apo amerikan, arabapo hebre. Ky bashk\u00ebpunim k\u00ebrkon prej njer\u00ebzimit mir\u00ebkuptim, toleranc\u00eb, urt\u00ebsidhe dashuri, e jo persekutime, luftra, gjakderdhje, padrejt\u00ebsi, varf\u00ebri, degjenerimmoral dhe urrejtje. Shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra lidhen me fatin e vendit ku ke lindur.Vendlindja i jep disa cil\u00ebsi karakterit t\u00ebnd q\u00eb do t\u00eb percjellin sa t\u00eb jesh gjall\u00eb. Un\u00eb e kam pasur fatin t\u00eb lind si shqiptar dhe krenohem p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Nukthem q\u00eb e kam m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb si shqiptar, por jeta pa v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi m\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet shpejt. E di q\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb dhe aq fatbardh\u00eb, por gjenerata jon\u00eb ka fuqi e potencial ta nd\u00ebrroj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– M\u00ebsimi m\u00eb i fundit q\u00eb t\u00eb ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb jeta?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Jeta m\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar se pasojat e zilis\u00eb, urrejtjes dhe zemerimit ton\u00eb ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebvep\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb veprimeve t\u00eb tyre nuk arrin te ata. Zjarri i atyre ndjenjave nadjeg neve, ne jemi viktima jo ata. Jetam\u00eb ka mesuar se pavendosmeria eshte deshtim, ndersa frika nga veshtiresiteeshte perfundimi. Kam m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb mos humb koh\u00eb duke u kthyer p\u00ebrgjigje kritik\u00ebvet\u00eb mi. P\u00ebrgjigjia m\u00eb e mir\u00eb ndaj ziliqar\u00ebve jan\u00eb pun\u00ebt e dobishme dhe t\u00ebsuksesshme. Kam m\u00ebsuar se jeta pa Zotin \u00ebsht\u00eb absurde dhe e pakuptimt\u00eb. Njeriumodern ka menduar se, kur do t\u00eb hiqte qafe Zotin, do ta lironte veten nga gjith\u00e7ka. P\u00ebrkundrazi, n\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ai kuptoi se me \u201cvrasjen\u201d e Zotit, ai kishte vrar\u00eb vetveten.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Si vjen n\u00eb p\u00ebrfytyrimin t\u00ebnd, f\u00ebmija yt i par\u00eb?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Kurp\u00ebrfytyroj m\u00eb vjen n\u00eb mendje nj\u00eb imazh, por e kam t\u00eb pamundur q\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb imazh tafotografoj qart\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb f\u00ebmija mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb pak nga t\u00eb dy ata q\u00eb e sjellinat\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ty dashuria?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– M\u00ebsip\u00ebr u shpreha se dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe se bota. \u00cbsht\u00eb ndjenja m\u00eb sublime.Fuqia e saj e sh\u00ebndosh bot\u00ebn, e nd\u00ebrton dhe e b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb at\u00eb. Por duhet pasur dhe kujdes prej saj, pasi ajonuk ka vetem fuqi nd\u00ebrtuese, por dhe shkat\u00ebrruese. Dashuria i b\u00ebn lart\u00ebsit\u00eb m\u00ebt\u00eb larta dhe ult\u00ebsirat m\u00eb t\u00eb ulta.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri e gabuar?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Ajoq\u00eb ec\u00ebn n\u00eb verb\u00ebri. Dashuria ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr sy, ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr logjik\u00eb. Kjo pjes\u00eb e mbron jet\u00ebn, n\u00ebse kjo pjes\u00eb mungon, at\u00ebher\u00eb ne mund t\u00eb helmojm\u00eb jet\u00ebn. Psh, nj\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos qen\u00eb e gabuar k\u00ebrkon3 element\u00eb; t\u00eb jemi bari, ujk dhe dele. Bariu \u00ebsht\u00eb inteligjent, i aft\u00eb dhe me p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb nga jeta. Ujku \u00ebsht\u00eb trim, i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb sfidat, dinak dhe i zoti n\u00eb ushqim, nd\u00ebrsa delja \u00ebsht\u00eb e urt\u00eb, e dashur dhe paq\u00ebsore. Njeriu pra, brenda vetes s\u00eb tij \u00ebsht\u00eb bari, ujk dhe dele. Dashuria q\u00eb t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb e gabuar k\u00ebrkonq\u00eb bariu t\u00eb ruaj\u00eb delen nga ujku, nd\u00ebrsa ujku duhet t\u00eb ruhet nga bariu, Delja n\u00ebk\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria. N\u00ebse ujku ha delen, at\u00ebher\u00eb dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb e gabuar.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Sa her\u00eb ke dashuruar n\u00eb jet\u00eb?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Kam ngjitur shum\u00eb kate n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtes\u00ebn e madhe dhe t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb. \u00c7do kat i saj ka nj\u00eb histori m\u00eb vete, por nuk mund t\u2019iu them q\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do kat ka pasur histori dashurie. Kjo sepse dashuria nuk ka form\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb substanc\u00eb, material, send apo objekt q\u00eb mund t\u00eb gjejm\u00ebkur t\u00eb duam. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb mister, vjen pa na lajm\u00ebruar dhe ik\u00ebn pa na marr\u00eb leje.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Je dakord se dashuria zgjat 3 vjet?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Thon\u00eb se aq zgjat, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb hormonale, fiziologjikedhe e provuar shkenc\u00ebrisht. Ato q\u00eb na lejojn\u00eb t\u00eb biem n\u00eb dashuri jane oksitocinadhe dopamina, hormone t\u00eb cilat pas tre viteve kthehen n\u00eb gj\u00ebndjen e fillimit,\u201cbien n\u00eb gjum\u00eb\u201d dhe dashuria pushon s\u00eb ekzistuari kimikisht. \u00cbsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i\u00e7uditsh\u00ebm fakti q\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb u p\u00ebrkasin kulturave t\u00eb ndryshme, q\u00ebndryshojn\u00eb nga nj\u00ebri-tjetri n\u00eb personalitet, n\u00eb bot\u00ebkuptim dhe mend\u00ebsi, pas treviteve p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb. N\u00eb raportet partneriale nuk duhet t\u00ebmb\u00ebshtetemi vet\u00ebm n\u00eb kimin\u00eb e ndjenjave sepse ato jan\u00eb kalimtare, por dhe n\u00eb shtylla t\u00eb tjera si komunikimi imir\u00eb, respeketi, miq\u00ebsia, durimi, toleranca t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nganj\u00ebher\u00eb e p\u00ebrdorim n\u00eb vend t\u00eb respektit dhe m\u00ebshir\u00ebs,bujaris\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebp\u00ebrmbajtjes, \u00ebsht\u00eb elementi m\u00eb esencial i sistemeve morale. Dot\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb e tmerrshme t\u00eb silleshim mir\u00eb me nj\u00eb njeri, t\u00eb tregonim respekt,vlera etj, vet\u00ebm kur tek ne t\u00eb ishte prezente kimia.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Mendon shpesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen?\u00a0<\/span>
\n-Mendoj, por n\u00eb \u00e7\u2019m\u00ebnyr\u00eb? P\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb t\u00eb nes\u00ebrme t\u00eb sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb duhet q\u00eb t\u00ebushqejm\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb sotmen. \u00cbsht\u00eb e sotmja ajo q\u00eb projekton n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrthort\u00eb t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb duke menduar p\u00ebrt\u00eb sotmen, n\u00eb nj\u00ebfare m\u00ebnyre kam menduar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb mendon se i ke dh\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb djeshmes dhe \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb doje t\u00eb t\u00eb sillte e nes\u00ebrmja?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– N\u00ebsekthej kok\u00ebn pas nga e djeshmja, gjej aty dashuri, mir\u00ebsi dhe paqe. N\u00ebse shohp\u00ebr nga e nes\u00ebrmja, k\u00ebrkoj prej saj t\u00eb m\u00eb sjell\u00eb po dashuri, mir\u00ebsi dhe paqe.\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Cila \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala q\u00eb do t\u00eb doje t\u2019i thoje dikujt tani q\u00eb mbase e lexon gazet\u00ebn?\u00a0<\/span>
\n– Doti tregoja p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor\u00ebt e mi, miqt\u00eb e mi m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00ebmundur \u201cSupermodel of the \u00eborld\u201d. Ata jan\u00eb; Stine, Egland, Elton dhe Gbmc.Falenderoj dhe nj\u00eb person special si Xakja i Supersonic TV. P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Endi Hoxha dhe Flor Zerja q\u00eb m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb foto, p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje dhe p\u00ebr goc\u00ebn e klipi tSuela bukuroshen dhe motr\u00ebn e saj fantastike Deni. Gjithashtu p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes dhe at\u00eb q\u00eb sapo p\u00ebrfundoj s\u00eb lexuari k\u00ebt\u00eb intervist\u00eb. Ju falenderoj dhe ju Mia, dhe gazet\u00ebn tuaj.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ai gjithnj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dalluar si m\u00eb i vecanti i grupit, m\u00eb energjiku dhe vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb ende ai Soni me k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrimetm\u00eb interesante p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. E nisi muzik\u00ebn me grupin \u201cThe Dreams\u201d ku bashk\u00eb meFlorin dhe Eriostin u kthyen n\u00eb tre djemt\u00eb e preferuar t\u00eb vajzave si dhe memuzik\u00ebn q\u00eb b\u00ebnin aq sa vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrmenden […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":15386,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[415],"tags":[1215],"class_list":["post-15385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-showbiz","tag-sony-nrg"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15385"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15385\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15386"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}