{"id":13914,"date":"2016-08-27T19:30:44","date_gmt":"2016-08-27T17:30:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=13914"},"modified":"2016-08-27T12:41:36","modified_gmt":"2016-08-27T10:41:36","slug":"kam-varesi-ndaj-nje-njohjeje-ne-facebook","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/08\/kam-varesi-ndaj-nje-njohjeje-ne-facebook\/","title":{"rendered":"Kam var\u00ebsi ndaj nj\u00eb njohjeje n\u00eb Facebook."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7ar beqar q\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit jam njohur n\u00eb facebook me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb martuar. Flasim \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00eb Facebook, jemi takuar 2 her\u00eb fshehtas n\u00eb dark\u00eb. Un\u00eb ndihem i dashuruar me t\u00eb dhe dua q\u00eb ta harroj sepse nuk m\u00eb p\u00ebrket mua por nuk mundem t\u00eb rri pa folur me t\u00eb dhe e mendoj \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Nuk e di \u00e7\u2019po m\u00eb ndodh q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb dal dot nga kjo situat\u00eb, ju lutem m\u00eb thoni nj\u00eb sugjerim se si t\u00eb veproj.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nga kjo situat\u00eb dilet duke q\u00ebndruar shtrir\u00eb dhe duke par\u00eb tavanin. Hahha. Si shtrir\u00eb, \u00e7\u00ebsht\u00eb kjo shtrir\u00eb? Ti shkruan jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7ar por nuk mundem . Un\u00eb po t\u00eb them serjozisht se supozoj ca njer\u00ebz ose nj\u00eb njeri q\u00eb mbledh midhje n\u00eb nj\u00eb det t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr, me batica dhe zbatica t\u00eb larta. Jo si det tek ne, pasi n\u00eb bot\u00eb ka dete q\u00eb zbresin ose lart\u00ebsohen deri n\u00eb 7-8 metra. Supozoje n\u00ebse po vjen batica dhe njeriut i ngencin k\u00ebmb\u00ebt n\u00eb lluc\u00eb, n\u00eb arrdhjen e ujit do t\u00eb mbes\u00eb aty e do t\u00eb mbytet. Pra ai duhet patjet\u00ebr menj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb shtrihet me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb forca e r\u00ebndes\u00ebs t\u00eb mos jet\u00eb vet\u00ebm te k\u00ebmb\u00ebt dhe uji q\u00eb vjen ta marr\u00eb q\u00eb ta ngrej\u00eb lart, p\u00ebr ta notuar e vajtur drejt bregut. Edhe ti vepro tani me emergjenc\u00eb sa nuk ka ardhur dallga, e sa nuk jan\u00eb zhytur k\u00ebmb\u00ebt n\u00eb lluc\u00eb deri n\u00eb gju.<\/p>\n<p>Pse ore nuk paska ndonj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr ty, vet\u00ebm ajo qenka, e martuara? Ajo mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb problemet e saj me burrin, ose mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb donzhuane, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e bukur por e paq\u00ebndrueshme n\u00eb ndjenja e dashuri, ose t\u00eb jet\u00eb ndonj\u00eb e papun\u00eb q\u00eb luan me ty, ose ndonj\u00eb kurthaxhie ose zhvat\u00ebse. Pse pak gra ka t\u00eb tilla? Cilido variant edhe ai m\u00eb pak i pabukuri p\u00ebr ty \u00ebsht\u00eb sigurisht i keq, ndoshta shum\u00eb i keq dhe shum\u00eb larg mendimeve t\u00eb tua t\u00eb shumta p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur miken e jet\u00ebs, nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb beqare p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. Pse pak vajza beqare ka?<\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb nuk do ta paragjykoja at\u00eb po t\u00eb ishte fjala vjen, ndonj\u00eb e divorcuar, por n\u00eb k\u00ebto kushte ti po kalon nj\u00eb gardh e sikur po futesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrrall\u00eb t\u00eb huaj e t\u00eb panjohur ku \u201cpronari\u201d ndoshta po t\u00eb v\u00ebzhgon dhe nuk i dihet\u2026 Merre vet\u00eb me mend se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebje ti po t\u00eb diktoje q\u00eb dikush tjet\u00ebr po t\u00eb prek familjen. Ti vire nj\u00eb her\u00eb veten n\u00eb profilin e tjetrit. Ndoshta ajo grua mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb shum\u00eb probleme me burrin e saj se kush ti tregon t\u00eb gjitha. Po pse at\u00ebher\u00eb ajo t\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00eb ty si nj\u00eb gom\u00eb rezerv\u00eb sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar lumin\u2026 E ka th\u00ebn\u00eb bukur Napoleoni n\u00eb nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr p\u00ebr femrat, \u201cmos fut n\u00eb krevat nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr q\u00eb ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb halle se sa ti\u201d. Mua m\u00eb p\u00eblqen letra jote te fraza \u201cdua ta harroj sepse nuk m\u00eb p\u00ebrket mua por nuk mundem. Kjo po, dhe e kuptoj se halli yt \u00ebsht\u00eb jo i pak\u00ebt sa q\u00eb ka marr\u00eb inciativ\u00ebn dhe mundimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb shkruar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>(K\u00ebt\u00eb shkrim mund ta lexoni t\u00eb plot\u00eb n\u00eb gazet\u00ebn \u201cIntervista\u201d t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj jave. At\u00eb mund ta blini n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha pikat e shitjes n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri si edhe n\u00eb kioskat ku shitet shtypi i huaj n\u00eb Greqi. Mund ta blini edhe online, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr\u00a089\u00a0cent, n\u00eb:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.pressreader.com\/albania\/intervista\">http:\/\/www.pressreader.com\/albania\/intervista<\/a>)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7ar beqar q\u00eb koh\u00ebt e fundit jam njohur n\u00eb facebook me nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb martuar. Flasim \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00eb Facebook, jemi takuar 2 her\u00eb fshehtas n\u00eb dark\u00eb. Un\u00eb ndihem i dashuruar me t\u00eb dhe dua q\u00eb ta harroj sepse nuk m\u00eb p\u00ebrket mua por nuk mundem t\u00eb rri pa folur me [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":13915,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psikologu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13914","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13914"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13914\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}