Ju p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve ju miq t\u00eb gazet\u00ebs \u201cIntervista\u201d, vendosa q\u00eb t\u00eb ndaj me ju nj\u00eb breng\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme, e cila po m\u00eb tjet\u00ebrson si nj\u00ebri. D\u00ebshira p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb, m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb transformohem n\u00eb tjet\u00ebr njeri. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e \u00e7do gruaje p\u00ebr t\u00eb patur f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e saj, mir\u00ebpo, kjo gj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb e madhe po m\u00eb p\u00ebrndjek gati po m\u00eb merr frym\u00ebn dhe nuk po e kuptoj se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh me mua.<\/p>\n
E gjith\u00eb historia ime nisi kur motra ime u martua, ajo shkoi nuse n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb si nga ana morale, por edhe nga ajo ekonomike. Brez pas brezi ata kishin qen\u00eb nj\u00eb familje e bashkuar dhe me rregulla strikte, kjo gj\u00eb ishte e trash\u00ebguar nga brezat e m\u00ebparsh\u00ebm dhe e kishin mbajtur familjen n\u00eb unitet. Asnj\u00eb nuse, apo nj\u00eb pjes\u00ebtar tjet\u00ebr i k\u00ebsaj familje nuk kishin guxuar q\u00eb t\u00eb thyenin tradit\u00ebn, apo rregullat q\u00eb ishin vendosur n\u00eb at\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Kjo kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb t\u00eb funksiononte p\u00ebr bukuri dhe njer\u00ebzit ishin n\u00eb paqe me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe nuk ekzistonte ndjenja e xhelozis\u00eb dhe e smir\u00ebs\u00a0 midis tyre. Motra u fejua me mbles\u00ebri dh ajo u p\u00ebrshtat n\u00eb at\u00eb familje me rregullat e tyre. Ajo kishte \u00a0nj\u00eb kunat dhe dy kunata, t\u00eb cilat u martuan pasi motra ime po jetonte n\u00eb familjen e tyre.\u00a0 Historia \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e gjat\u00eb, por po mundohem q\u00eb t\u2019ju tregoj vet\u00ebm thelbin. Motra ime kishte pes\u00eb vjet martes\u00eb, dhe ajo u b\u00eb me dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb. Ajo jetonte me prind\u00ebrit e burrit dhe me kunatin e vog\u00ebl. Prind\u00ebrit e kunatit ishin shum\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur nga sjellja e motr\u00ebs time, sepse t\u00eb till\u00eb edukat\u00eb kishim marr\u00eb nga familja jon\u00eb. Kjo kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb krijonin nj\u00eb simpati p\u00ebr motr\u00ebn time, por jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb, por edhe p\u00ebr mua. At\u00ebher\u00eb ata vin\u00eb dhe i thon\u00eb babit se duan t\u00eb b\u00ebhen dy her\u00eb miq me ne. Babi u habit shum\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr momentin nuk dinte se \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u2019ju jepte, por ata e kuptuan situat\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos e v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb siklet tim at\u00eb, i japin atij koh\u00ebn e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u2019u menduar. Un\u00eb isha vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebzet\u00eb vje\u00e7e n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit e mi d\u00ebshironin shum\u00eb q\u00eb edhe un\u00eb t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb at\u00eb familje, sepse si\u00e7 ju thashw m\u00eb sip\u00ebr, ata ishin nj\u00eb familje shum\u00eb e mire dhe nga motra kishim d\u00ebgjuar vet\u00ebm fjal\u00eb t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr ta. Un\u00eb kunatin e motr\u00ebs e kisha takuar vet\u00ebm dy her\u00eb, por asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e kisha par\u00eb me syrin se ai mund t\u00eb ishte burri im. Ashtu si edhe prind\u00ebrve dhe mua m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu fakti q\u00eb do shkoja nuse n\u00eb at\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, jo se kisha ndonj\u00eb simpati p\u00ebr djalin q\u00eb do b\u00ebhej burri im m\u00eb pas, por, m\u00eb tep\u00ebr i g\u00ebzohesha faktit se un\u00eb p\u00ebr kunat\u00eb, do t\u00eb kisha motr\u00ebn time. Kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb g\u00ebzonte shum\u00eb, po pa e ditur se kjo histori me motr\u00ebn time \u201ckunat\u00eb\u201d do m\u00eb ndryshonte jet\u00ebn mua si njeri. Gj\u00ebrat filluan t\u00eb ndryshonin menj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00a0dhe un\u00eb vet\u00eb nuk po arrija ta kuptoja se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodhte me jet\u00ebn time. N\u00eb fillim u b\u00eb fejesa, m\u00eb pas martesa. Dhe dy vitet e para t\u00eb martes\u00ebs ishin vitet m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura q\u00eb kam kaluar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time. Albani bashk\u00ebshorti im, ishte nj\u00eb nj\u00ebri shum\u00eb pun\u00ebtor\u00eb, dhe shum\u00eb i p\u00ebrkushtuar p\u00ebr familjen, ai punonte ekonomist n\u00eb nj\u00eb firm\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimi. Si\u00e7 ju thash\u00eb edhe m\u00eb lart, ata kishin rregulla strikte n\u00eb familje, dhe im shoq edhe burri i motr\u00ebs, ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb kunati im, sa her\u00eb q\u00eb merrnin rrog\u00ebn, ata lek\u00ebt i dor\u00ebzonin te n\u00ebna e tyre.<\/p>\n
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