I nderuar doktor Demiri, kam lexurar nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr t\u00eb Scott Peck me titull \u201cBijt\u00eb e g\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebs\u201d i cili n\u00eb fakt m\u00eb ka trembur shum\u00eb pasi ky shkenc\u00ebtar i madh e pranon se ekziston satani ose xhindi, si e themi ndryshe ne mysliman\u00ebt. T\u00eb lutem dua t\u00eb di, a ekziston kjo gj\u00eb dhe a pranohet shkenc\u00ebrisht egzorcizmi si metod\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Shum\u00eb veta m\u00eb pyesin: O doktor po kush dreqin \u00ebsht\u00eb ky xhindi, djalli\u00a0 apo satani? Un\u00eb u p\u00ebrgjgijem: nuk e di.\u00a0 Eksperinca ime \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamjaftueshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb provuar n\u00ebse k\u00ebto jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm mite apo jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta. Por kur kam par\u00eb disa video t\u00eb regjistruara t\u00eb ekzorcizmit un\u00eb nuk i kam besuar. Kam menduar se jan\u00eb montime. At\u00ebher\u00eb, autor\u00ebt t\u00eb interesuar q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u2019ju \u00e7oj pacient\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb ftuar q\u00eb t\u00eb marr pjes\u00eb dhe t\u2019i shoh rastet me syt\u00eb e mi. Kam vajtur n\u00eb disa raste ku mund t\u00eb merrja disa t\u00eb dh\u00ebna t\u00eb vlefshme q\u00eb do m\u00eb sh\u00ebrbenin p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn time me klient\u00ebt, p\u00ebr librat e mi shkencor\u00eb, p\u00ebr l\u00ebnd\u00ebt m\u00ebsimoresi si psikoterapia, psikopatologjia etj. Jam \u00e7uditur kur kam par\u00eb gjat\u00eb lutjeve ose leximit t\u00eb pjes\u00ebve kuranore se si l\u00ebviste \u201cxhindi\u201d n\u00eb trupin e njeriut dhe ekzorcisti e urdh\u00ebronte p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb.\u00a0 Kam par\u00eb \u00e7udira por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri ato nuk mund t\u00eb m\u00eb sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb ende si nj\u00eb baz\u00eb e mjaftueshme p\u00ebr studime shkencore t\u00eb vlefshme. Bashk\u00eb me vajz\u00ebn time , El\u00ebn e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb psikologe e talentuar, i kemi par\u00eb disa nga k\u00ebto filmime t\u00eb cilat m\u00eb jan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb me sigurin\u00eb e plot\u00eb t\u00eb rruajtjes s\u00eb anonimatit. Vajza ime ndon\u00ebse me master p\u00ebr psikologji klinike e disa specializime \u00ebsht\u00eb tembur dhe ka v\u00ebshtruar nga mua e \u00e7uditur duke m\u00eb pyetur : Po ti babi nuk trembesh?<\/p>\n
-Jo, i jam p\u00ebrgjigjur i qet\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Si \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur q\u00eb ti nuk ke frik\u00eb as nga magjit\u00eb, kur n\u00eb librat e e shenjt\u00eb t\u00eb bibl\u00ebs dhe kuranti ato njihen? – M\u00eb pyet vajza<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb i dhash\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjgije t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme:\u00a0 Asgj\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb veproj\u00eb pa lej\u00ebn e zotit, se as edhe nj\u00eb gjethe nuk bie nga pema pa lejen e tij. Pra sikur t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen me mij\u00ebra magjistar\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb magji t\u00eb zez\u00eb apo t\u00eb bardh\u00eb asnj\u00ebra nga ato nuk do mund t\u00eb ngjis\u00eb pa lejen e tij.\u00a0 Nese vet\u00eb zoti e lejon at\u00ebher\u00eb si\u00e7 thot\u00eb populli: pun\u00ebt e tij u mbarofshin.\u00a0 Un\u00eb do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj ndihm\u00eb t\u00eb shkenca, mjek\u00ebsia apo tek \u00e7do sebep t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb lejoj\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri zoti p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7liruar.<\/p>\n
Kjo p\u00ebrgjigje e \u00e7uditi por edhe e qet\u00ebsoi psikologen e re. I shpejgova asaj se un\u00eb e pranoj zaptimin. M\u00eb ka bindur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb edhe Imami i nderuar Ahmet Kalaja por edhe doktori klinicist miku im Qazim Selenica. Jam i bindur se raste t\u00eb pastra pushtimi nga xhindi ose posedimi nga satani ka shum\u00eb pak dhe se ato duhen trajtuar vet\u00ebm nga ekzorciste kopetent\u00eb e t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt bazohen tek librat e shenjt\u00eb bibla dhe kurani, por q\u00eb jan\u00eb shkenc\u00ebtar\u00eb, studiues\u00a0 si\u00e7 p\u00ebrmenda m\u00eb sip\u00ebr psikologun me master shkencor p\u00ebr psikologji klinike, Qazim Selimaj. Pra pik\u00eb s\u00eb pari ne duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillojm\u00eb standarte p\u00ebr diagnostifikimin e sakt\u00eb dhe trajtimin virtuoz\u00a0 t\u00eb tyre. Kjo gj\u00eb do t\u00eb zvog\u00eblonte \u00e7lirimet e pap\u00ebrgjegjshme e ndoshta me pasoja nga disa egzorcist\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebshpallur ose q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb marifete t\u00eb pa qarta e t\u00eb pabazuara n\u00eb librat e shenjta t\u00eb Bibl\u00ebs e Kuranit si dy thesare t\u00eb kultur\u00ebs bot\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb gj\u00eb m\u00eb ka habitur dhe kam pyetur ekzorcist\u00ebt: P\u00ebrse u dashkan disa senaca, pra shum\u00eb seanca p\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebndimeve e\u00a0 lutjeve u jepni atyre edhe rispolet pra risperidone ose risperda? Dometh\u00ebn\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe psikiatrit me pacient\u00ebt me halucinacione ve\u00e7se e keqja \u00ebsht\u00eb se ekzorcist\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb shkenc\u00ebtar\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb din\u00eb me sakt\u00ebsi dozat. K\u00ebsaj pyetje ata i jan\u00eb shmangur.<\/p>\n
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