{"id":1377,"date":"2014-07-14T11:07:38","date_gmt":"2014-07-14T11:07:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=1377"},"modified":"2014-08-07T14:02:22","modified_gmt":"2014-08-07T14:02:22","slug":"miss-e-mister-durresi-redi-hazbiu-ida-velaj-jeta-tani-ka-ndryshuar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/07\/miss-e-mister-durresi-redi-hazbiu-ida-velaj-jeta-tani-ka-ndryshuar\/","title":{"rendered":"Miss e Mister Durr\u00ebsi: Redi Hazbiu & Ida Velaj: Jeta, tani ka ndryshuar!"},"content":{"rendered":"

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Ida, p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Redi! Ishit dy t\u00eb rinj si gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, nd\u00ebrsa tashm\u00eb quheni Miss e Mister. \u00c7far\u00eb ka ndryshuar te ju ky titull?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Ky titull ka ndryshuar jo vet\u00ebm opinionin te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por edhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e t\u00eb jetuarit. \u00c7do gj\u00eb tani p\u00ebr mua ka kuptim, edhe pse kam nj\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb aktive se \u00e7\u2019e kisha.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Jam si t\u00eb gjith\u00eb moshatar\u00ebt e mi, por n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb merr nj\u00eb titull, ndryshon di\u00e7ka, pasi ke v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00eb gjith\u00eb atyre q\u00eb t\u00eb njohin dhe q\u00eb tashm\u00eb t\u00eb shohin ndryshe.<\/p>\n

– Po n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj, \u00e7far\u00eb mendoni se do t\u00eb sjell\u00eb n\u00eb vazhdim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Tani q\u00eb kam nj\u00eb spekt\u00ebr, titulli q\u00eb mora \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nder dhe nj\u00eb plus p\u00ebr mua.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Fakti q\u00eb tani kam statusin Mister Durr\u00ebsi 2014 p\u00ebr 1 vit ose nj\u00eb background q\u00eb m\u00eb ka sjell\u00eb pak fam\u00eb, m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihem mir\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb mundohem ta ruaj sa m\u00eb gjat\u00eb, duke marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb edhe n\u00eb evente t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb bot\u00ebs s\u00eb mod\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

– Vini q\u00eb t\u00eb dy nga e nj\u00ebjta shkoll\u00eb private… Rast\u00ebsi apo \u201ckriter\u201d p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebs i k\u00ebsaj shkolle \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe bukuria?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – (Buz\u00ebqesh) Jo, kjo ishte thjesht nj\u00eb rast\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>\u00cbsht\u00eb rast\u00ebsi… Jo, jo, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201ckriter\u201d i shkoll\u00ebs ku studioj.<\/p>\n

– Po p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb titullin e m\u00eb t\u00eb bukurit dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur\u00ebs s\u00eb Durr\u00ebsit, vet\u00ebm bukuria duhet? \u00c7far\u00eb ka par\u00eb tjet\u00ebr juria te ju?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Bukuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr faktoret kryesor\u00eb dhe element i rend\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebmarrjen n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb aktivitet, por juria vler\u00ebsoi edhe karakteristika t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb miat si\u00e7 jan\u00eb mir\u00ebsia, respekti, konformiteti, shkatht\u00ebsia etj. Missi p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga p\u00ebrzierja e k\u00ebtyre element\u00ebve. Jo gjithmon\u00eb bukuria ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Mendoj se bukuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb plus m\u00eb shum\u00eb, por n\u00ebse mungojn\u00eb shum\u00eb an\u00eb t\u00eb tjera, si sjellja, zgjuarsia, dija apo kultura, bukuria kthehet n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201cfasad\u00eb\u201d, pra, n\u00eb nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ditur si t\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 kritereve t\u00eb lartp\u00ebrmendura; serioziteti, impenjimi dhe interesi q\u00eb ne kemi shfaqur gjat\u00eb provave kan\u00eb luajtur nj\u00eb rol pozitiv n\u00eb vler\u00ebsimin e juris\u00eb\u2026 Gjithashtu, nj\u00eb kriter i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm ka qen\u00eb edhe mesatarja e secilit prej nesh.<\/p>\n

– Cilat jan\u00eb cil\u00ebsit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mira q\u00eb i njihni vetes?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Pak a shum\u00eb, ato q\u00eb p\u00ebrmenda m\u00eb sip\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Siguria n\u00eb vetvete dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulja q\u00eb kam p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur q\u00ebllimet e mia.<\/p>\n

– Po m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Cil\u00ebsit\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqija ose m\u00eb sakt\u00eb, t\u00eb metat, jan\u00eb p\u00ebrpikm\u00ebria n\u00eb raste t\u00eb caktuara dhe impulsiviteti, sepse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb flas pa i menduar pasojat.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Duke qen\u00eb se jam m\u00eb i vogli i familjes, jam pak i p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelur prej tyre, jo n\u00eb sensin e keq. Egoist do t\u00eb thoja, pasi gj\u00ebrat e mia i dua t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb miat.<\/p>\n

– Si e shikoni ju vet\u00eb bukurin\u00eb? A \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo nj\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebs q\u00eb i hap m\u00eb shpejt portat? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – \u00c7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta, bukuria hap shum\u00eb porta, por inteligjenca e plot\u00ebson bukurin\u00eb e nj\u00eb peroni.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Bukuria ka rolin e saj pozitiv, por nuk mendoj se n\u00eb \u00e7do rast mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7el\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb hapur m\u00eb shpejt portat!<\/p>\n

– Cilat porta prisni t\u2019ju hap\u00eb ajo? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Shpresoj t\u00eb m\u00eb hap\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e medias sepse do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente q\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb prezantoja nj\u00eb emision apo t\u00eb isha pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb reality shovv, edhe pse duket e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Bukuria do t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonte p\u00ebr t\u00eb hapur portat e modelingut.<\/p>\n

– Si u b\u00ebt\u00eb pjes\u00eb e k\u00ebtij kompeticioni? E kishit menduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb se n\u00eb nj\u00eb vit do t\u00eb quheshit Miss e Mister i qytetit tuaj?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – N\u00eb fillim, producentja ime, zonja Myzejen Konduri, hyri n\u00eb \u00e7do klas\u00eb t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs dhe p\u00ebrzgjodhi nga dy nx\u00ebn\u00ebs. Kur erdhi n\u00eb klas\u00ebn time, si fillim m\u00eb komplimentoi dhe m\u00eb tha t\u00eb \u00e7ohesha n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb. U \u00e7ova nga banga ime dhe pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb at\u00eb moment, filloi gjith\u00eb kjo eksperienc\u00eb e paharrueshme. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb s\u2019e mendoja se do t\u00eb nderohesha me k\u00ebt\u00eb titull.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Adoleshenca, si pjesa m\u00eb e bukur e struktur\u00ebs s\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, ka tendencat e saj. N\u00eb momentin q\u00eb m\u00eb zgjodh\u00ebn mua n\u00eb klas\u00ebn time, u ndjeva shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, pasi s\u2019e kisha menduar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb. Para se t\u00eb shkoja n\u00eb takimin e par\u00eb ku do t\u00eb p\u00ebrzgjidheshim, u mendova mir\u00eb sepse… qyteti i Durr\u00ebsit mbart mentalitet! Vendosa t\u00eb marr pjes\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar se rinia duhet t\u2019i thot\u00eb stop k\u00ebtij mentaliteti! Familja m\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahu gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

– \u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ante ka Durr\u00ebsi? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Durr\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet i qet\u00eb bregdetar… E ve\u00e7anta \u00ebsht\u00eb bujaria dhe respekti q\u00eb p\u00ebrcjellin banor\u00ebt e tij.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Antikiteti dhe porti detar m\u00eb i madh ne vendin ton\u00eb, e b\u00ebjn\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb qytet.<\/p>\n

– Ku do t\u00eb kishit dashur t\u00eb lindnit, p\u00ebrve\u00e7se n\u00eb Durr\u00ebs?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – N\u00eb fakt, un\u00eb nuk kam lindur k\u00ebtu, por n\u00eb Itali. Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb kisha lindur ne Dubai; \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr vendet m\u00eb luksoze n\u00eb bot\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Kur vizitova qytetin e Parisit, m\u00eb la shum\u00eb mbresa dhe do t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente t\u00eb isha nj\u00eb qytetar me vendlindje n\u00eb at\u00eb qytet.<\/p>\n

– Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb misioni i nj\u00eb Missi\/Misteri?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Misioni i nj\u00eb Missi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb mir\u00ebsi, dashuri e r\u00ebspekt dhe gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb mos ndryshoj\u00eb, sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb situata, t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb e nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si n\u00eb sjellje, ashtu edhe n\u00eb karakter.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Mendoj se misioni p\u00ebr nj\u00eb Mister \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb evenimente t\u00eb k\u00ebtij lloji.<\/p>\n

– Si vazhdon jeta juaj tani?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Jeta ime pothuajse \u00ebsht\u00eb rikthyer n\u00eb normalitet, por pas k\u00ebsaj eksperience, kam fituar jo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb trofe, por edhe vet\u00ebbesimin e kurajon p\u00ebr t\u00eb vazhduar p\u00ebrpara m\u00eb tej.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Kuptohet q\u00eb monotonia e m\u00ebparshme ka ndryshuar, pasi kemi qen\u00eb t\u00eb ftuar n\u00eb emisione televizive dhe na jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb intervista nga gazetar\u00eb t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n

– Cilat jan\u00eb synimet q\u00eb i keni v\u00ebn\u00eb vetes n\u00eb vazhdim?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Synimi im i vet\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mbaroj shkoll\u00ebn me rezultate t\u00eb mira dhe, pse jo, t\u2019i l\u00eb nj\u00eb vend modelingut.<\/p>\n

– Do t\u2019ju shohim n\u00eb kompeticone t\u00eb tjera bukurie?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – (Qesh) Po, patjet\u00ebr, por k\u00ebt\u00eb do t\u2019jua l\u00eb surpriz\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Pjes\u00ebmarrja n\u00eb kompeticione t\u00eb tjera bukurie \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga synimet e mia.<\/p>\n

– Si e shikoni veten pas dhjet\u00eb vjet\u00ebsh?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Me nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb bukur e nj\u00eb profesion t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb, duke sh\u00ebtitur bot\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Pas dhjet\u00eb vjet\u00ebsh e shoh veten m\u00eb t\u00eb kompletuar, duke u munduar t\u00eb plot\u00ebsoj \u00ebndrrat e mia.<\/p>\n

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Cili…<\/strong><\/p>\n

…\u00ebsht\u00eb personi q\u00eb e meriton ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht fal\u00ebnderimin tuaj?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Personi q\u00eb e meriton fal\u00ebnderimin \u00ebsht\u00eb producentja ime, zonja Myzejen Konduri. Ishte nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb q\u00eb, edhe pse e rrept\u00eb, m\u00eb b\u00ebri ta fitoja k\u00ebt\u00eb kompeticion duke iu p\u00ebrkushtuar \u00e7do dit\u00eb e m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Zonja Myzejen m\u00eb ka ndenjur af\u00ebr dhe m\u00eb ka k\u00ebshilluar n\u00eb momentet q\u00eb kam pasur nevoj\u00eb. Shum\u00eb her\u00eb kam r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje pesimizmi dhe nuk doja ta vazhdoja k\u00ebt\u00eb aktivitet ndoshta prej lodhjes se tep\u00ebrt, por producentja m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi se jo gjithmon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb dor\u00ebzohemi. Kur e duam di\u00e7ka, duhet t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb deri n\u00eb fund dhe se, pavar\u00ebsisht \u00e7mimit q\u00eb marrim, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb shp\u00ebrblehemi. Fal\u00ebnderimet m\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrta i shkojn\u00eb asaj.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Pa dyshim, fal\u00ebnderimi m\u00eb i ve\u00e7ant\u00eb i takon producentes s\u00eb palodhur, zonj\u00ebs Myzejen Konduri.<\/p>\n

…\u00ebsht\u00eb personi i par\u00eb q\u00eb ju uroi p\u00ebr fitoren?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Vajza e zonj\u00ebs Myzejen, Xheni Konduri, e cila ishte edhe prezantuesja e asaj mbr\u00ebmjeje.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Personi i par\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb uroi ishte nj\u00eb nga konkurrent\u00ebt e mi, q\u00eb e kisha pran\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb moment. M\u00eb pas, familjar\u00ebt e me radh\u00eb.<\/p>\n

…nga ju besoi q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim se e kishte t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kuror\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Askush nga konkurrent\u00ebt nuk ishte i sigurt\u00eb p\u00ebr fitoren, ndon\u00ebse \u00e7dokush e d\u00ebshironte.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Mendoj se konkurrenca ishte e fort\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mendoje q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim p\u00ebr kuror\u00ebn, ishte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.<\/p>\n

…prej t\u00eb af\u00ebrmve apo t\u00eb njohurve tuaj, ju tha se \u201ck\u00ebt\u00eb vit, nuk kishte shanse t\u00eb fitoj\u00eb njeri tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7 teje\u201d?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Mamaja dhe babi im ishin te par\u00ebt q\u00eb m\u00eb lavd\u00ebronin dhe ma kishin finalizuar fitoren, por shoqet e mia m\u00eb t\u00eb ngushta kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb parat pas prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb cilat e d\u00ebshironin me shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb fitoren time. Mund t\u00eb them me plot goj\u00ebn se ato e meritojne nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderimit. Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj eksperience, m\u00eb kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjen e kurajon e tyre dhe k\u00ebt\u00eb e vler\u00ebsoj jasht\u00eb mase.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>(Qesh) M\u00eb vjen p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur kur lexoj pyetjen sepse ishte v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb person ne familj\u00ebn time q\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte dhe m\u00eb jepte kurajo: \u201cTi do t\u00eb fitosh!\u201d. Ky person \u00ebsht\u00eb gjyshja ime, q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

…nga njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb njihni, e meriton plot\u00ebsisht besimin tuaj?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Besimin tim, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 familjes, e meriton shoku im m\u00eb i ngusht\u00eb dhe shoqet e mia m\u00eb t\u00eb ngushta, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i dua pafund\u00ebsisht.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>Pa diskutim, familja ime q\u00eb m\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet gjithmon\u00eb!<\/p>\n

…po dashurin\u00eb tuaj?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Dashurin\u00eb e meriton familja dhe nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Redi: – <\/strong>S\u00ebrish, familja.<\/p>\n

…do ta p\u00ebrdor\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kuror\u00eb, \u00e7do her\u00eb, si nj\u00eb CV t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr nes\u00ebr?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ida:<\/strong> – Un\u00eb do ta p\u00ebrdorja si CV sepse z\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb rezyme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Ida, p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje Redi! Ishit dy t\u00eb rinj si gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, nd\u00ebrsa tashm\u00eb quheni Miss e Mister. \u00c7far\u00eb ka ndryshuar te ju ky titull? Ida: – Ky titull ka ndryshuar jo vet\u00ebm opinionin te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por edhe m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e t\u00eb jetuarit. \u00c7do gj\u00eb tani p\u00ebr mua ka kuptim, edhe pse kam nj\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[191,192],"class_list":["post-1377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spektakel","tag-miss-e-mister-durresi-redi-hazbiuida-velaj-jeta","tag-tani-ka-ndryshuar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1377","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1377"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1377\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}