{"id":13733,"date":"2016-08-10T15:05:58","date_gmt":"2016-08-10T13:05:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=13733"},"modified":"2016-08-10T15:05:58","modified_gmt":"2016-08-10T13:05:58","slug":"pse-nje-burre-tregohet-i-larget","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/08\/pse-nje-burre-tregohet-i-larget\/","title":{"rendered":"Pse nje burr\u00eb tregohet i larg\u00ebt?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sipas historian\u00ebve, hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua ia ka b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje partnerit t\u00eb saj ka qen\u00eb rreth vitit 500 p.e.s. M\u00eb pas ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb e zakonshme n\u00eb bisedat mes \u00e7iftit. Por, pse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb tregohet i larg\u00ebt? Ka frik\u00eb nga angazhimi? Si ta kuptoj q\u00eb \u00e7iftit tim i ka ardhur fundi? P\u00ebrgjigjen e gjeni m\u00eb posht\u00eb.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i larg\u00ebt n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb lidhjes<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. Ai nuk do lidhje serioze<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Ai q\u00eb sillet k\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb shpesh, n\u00eb thelb t\u00eb tij, nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i sjellsh\u00ebm dhe i urt\u00eb, nga ata q\u00eb nuk guxojn\u00eb t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb konflikte, nga frika se mos l\u00ebndojn\u00eb dik\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb ai t\u00ebrhiqet duke krijuar distanc\u00eb dhe duke shpresuar q\u00eb ta kuptoni vet\u00eb: Ai ju vler\u00ebson, kalon momente t\u00eb bukura me ju, por nuk do t\u00eb angazhohet n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje serioze! N\u00ebse ju i shfaqni d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme s\u00eb bashku, ai, t\u00ebrhiqet duke krijuar distanc\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra e tij p\u00ebr t\u2019ju th\u00ebn\u00eb se ju vler\u00ebson…por lidhja nuk do t\u00eb evoluoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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    1. Ai ju mban si plan rezerv\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Ai ishte shum\u00eb i lidhur me ju, duke ju th\u00ebn\u00eb me boll\u00ebk fjal\u00eb t\u00eb \u00ebmbla. M\u00eb von\u00eb, bisedat \u00a0e gjata u transformuan n\u00eb tema bazike, me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, t\u00eb vak\u00ebta: \u201cMir\u00ebdita, si e kalove fundjav\u00ebn?\u201d. Kur ju mendoni se lidhja ka marr\u00eb fund, ai p\u00ebrs\u00ebri b\u00ebhet i dashur dhe ju propozon t\u00eb kaloni mbr\u00ebmjen s\u00eb bashku, si pasoj\u00eb ju ruani ende shpres\u00ebn. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nga ata q\u00eb duan t\u00eb han\u00eb n\u00eb dy pjata dhe juve ju mbajn\u00eb nj\u00eb plan rezerv\u00eb kur ngelen bosh. Ikni sa m\u00eb larg prej tij…<\/p>\n

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      1. Ai mendon se lidhja po ec\u00ebn shum\u00eb shpejt<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        N\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje, t\u00eb dy partner\u00ebt nuk ecin me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin rit\u00ebm. Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ju t\u00eb keni ndjenja p\u00ebr t\u00eb para se ai t\u00eb ket\u00eb p\u00ebr ju, por m\u00eb von\u00eb situata mund t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb. Ai tregohet menj\u00ebher\u00eb i larg\u00ebt? Mbase ai e kuptuar se ju jeni m\u00eb e implikuar n\u00eb lidhje dhe m\u00eb k\u00ebrkuese se ai. Si pasoj\u00eb ai p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb ngadal\u00ebsoj\u00eb ritmet.<\/p>\n

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        1. Ai ka vendosur shum\u00eb shpejt<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          Kur fillon nj\u00eb lidhje me nxitim, pa kaluar koh\u00ebn e nevojshme t\u00eb njohjes s\u00eb tjetrit, zhg\u00ebnjimi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb i madh. Ideja q\u00eb ju keni krijuar p\u00ebr partnerin, imazhi i \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar i lidhjes q\u00eb doni t\u00eb keni nuk koincidon v\u00ebrtet me realitetin. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, zgjidhja e vetme \u00ebsht\u00eb largimi…<\/p>\n

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          Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i larg\u00ebt pas disa vitesh lidhjeje<\/strong><\/p>\n

          Pas nj\u00ebfar\u00eb kohe, emocioni i momenteve t\u00eb para t\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhjeje dashurore i l\u00eb vendin besimit absolut dhe qet\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb fantastike. Megjithat\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u00eb fillosh t\u00eb flesh mbi dafina dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqesh me k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb. Pas pas nj\u00ebfar\u00eb koh\u00eb, rutina n\u00eb gjirin e \u00e7iftit i z\u00eb vendin sensualitetit, sidomos n\u00ebse e l\u00ebshoni veten dhe nuk b\u00ebni kujdes. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast burri largohet, sepse ai m\u00ebrzitet n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje q\u00eb nuk ofron m\u00eb asnj\u00eb sfid\u00eb, asnj\u00eb rrezik. N\u00ebse ju e njihni veten n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn nga k\u00ebto situata, diskutojeni at\u00eb me partnerin, me qet\u00ebsi, sepse dialogu \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhja e vetme dhe n\u00eb \u00e7do rast.<\/p>\n

          (K\u00ebt\u00eb shkrim mund ta lexoni t\u00eb plot\u00eb n\u00eb gazet\u00ebn \u201cIntervista\u201d t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj jave. At\u00eb mund ta blini n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha pikat e shitjes n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri si edhe n\u00eb kioskat ku shitet shtypi i huaj n\u00eb Greqi. Mund ta blini edhe online, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr\u00a089\u00a0cent, n\u00eb:\u00a0http:\/\/www.pressreader.com\/albania\/intervista<\/a>)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

          Sipas historian\u00ebve, hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua ia ka b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje partnerit t\u00eb saj ka qen\u00eb rreth vitit 500 p.e.s. M\u00eb pas ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb e zakonshme n\u00eb bisedat mes \u00e7iftit. Por, pse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb tregohet i larg\u00ebt? Ka frik\u00eb nga angazhimi? Si ta kuptoj q\u00eb \u00e7iftit tim i ka ardhur fundi? P\u00ebrgjigjen […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":13734,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13733"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13733\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13734"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}