– Kam problem me motr\u00ebn time t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhur me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb martuar dhe kjo po m\u00eb \u00e7mend. Familja nuk di gj\u00eb. Un\u00eb i kam folur disa her\u00eb, por ajo nuk m\u00eb d\u00ebgjon dhe un\u00eb nuk di si t\u00eb veproj. Ju, psikologe, \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloni? Motra.
\nBorana Marku, psikologe: – E nderuar lexuese, k\u00ebt\u00eb problem mendoj se duhet ta diskutoni me prind\u00ebrit tuaj. E gjith\u00eb familja duhet t\u00eb mblidhet dhe ta shp\u00ebtoni motr\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb vog\u00ebl nga kjo lidhje. Trajtoje motr\u00ebn si shoqe, ofroji ngroht\u00ebsi, mos e gjyko, por mundohu t\u00eb kuptosh arsyen se pse \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb njeri. Me arsyetim dhe me histori t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta mbushja mendjen se \u00ebsht\u00eb futur n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb gabuar. Pyete n\u00ebse po t\u00eb ishte ajo \u00e7ift, a do t\u2019i p\u00eblqente t\u00eb hynte dikush mes tyre? Pastaj, kuptoni n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhje serioze mes tyre, \u00e7far\u00eb i ka premtuar ai dhe si q\u00ebndron kjo lidhje. M\u00eb pas, duke par\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet e saj, diskutoje me mamin dhe babin. Ata jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rritur dhe kuptohet, do ta ndihmojn\u00eb vajz\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga kjo lidhje n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb pa nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme, por nj\u00eb aventur\u00eb, nj\u00eb \u00e7menduri e mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Ama, kini kujdes, mos e gjykoni, sepse \u00e7dokujt mund t\u2019i ndodh\u00eb t\u00eb bjer\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb apo grua t\u00eb martuar. Ndjenja jan\u00eb ato t\u00eb shkreta, nuk i ndalon dot. Ofrojini dashuri, ngroht\u00ebsi familjare dhe b\u00ebjeni q\u00eb t\u00eb logjikoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e saj, t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen. Kuptohet, e gjitha kjo pasi t\u00eb keni marr\u00eb vesh t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn e historis\u00eb s\u00eb tyre. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– Kam problem me motr\u00ebn time t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhur me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb t\u00eb martuar dhe kjo po m\u00eb \u00e7mend. Familja nuk di gj\u00eb. Un\u00eb i kam folur disa her\u00eb, por ajo nuk m\u00eb d\u00ebgjon dhe un\u00eb nuk di si t\u00eb veproj. Ju, psikologe, \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebshilloni? Motra. Borana Marku, psikologe: – E nderuar […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13534","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13534"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13534\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}