{"id":1330,"date":"2014-07-14T09:24:17","date_gmt":"2014-07-14T09:24:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=1330"},"modified":"2014-07-14T15:12:01","modified_gmt":"2014-07-14T15:12:01","slug":"shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2014\/07\/shpjegimi-i-endrrave-tuaja\/","title":{"rendered":"Shpjegimi i \u00ebndrrave tuaja…."},"content":{"rendered":"

Para humner\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po i ikja di\u00e7kaje, por nuk e mbaj mend \u00e7far\u00eb ishte. Di q\u00eb vrapoja dhe shpesh, gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs, hasja v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi sepse ishin rrug\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqia. M\u00eb pas, m\u2019u shfaq p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb humner\u00eb, e pash\u00eb dhe ishte shum\u00eb e frikshme; isha n\u00eb buz\u00eb t\u00eb gremin\u00ebs. Aty, u zgjova…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Ikja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr nga di\u00e7ka, \u00e7far\u00ebdoqoft\u00eb ajo, tregon nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb madhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb, kuptohet, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb figurative. Ndoshta di\u00e7ka ju mban peng n\u00eb shpirt ose n\u00eb mendje dhe doni t\u00eb \u00e7liroheni. Ecja e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, n\u00ebnkupton situatat e komplikuara q\u00eb i krijoni vetes her\u00eb pas here, por q\u00eb do t\u2019i kap\u00ebrceni po ju vet\u00eb. Shfaqja e gremin\u00ebs, ju paralajm\u00ebron t\u00eb b\u00ebni shum\u00eb kujdes. Humnera ka shum\u00eb kuptime e shpesh, ka lidhje edhe me sh\u00ebndetin, si p\u00ebr t\u2019ju treguar se ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkon, prandaj b\u00ebni nj\u00eb kontroll sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor. Juve ju ka dal\u00eb gjumi dhe kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jeni e qet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tashmen; \u00ebndrra \u00ebsht\u00eb paralajm\u00ebruese dhe ju k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb b\u00ebni kujdes p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n

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N\u00ebna q\u00eb nuk jeton<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Mbr\u00ebm\u00eb pash\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po flisja me nj\u00eb \u00e7un q\u00eb her\u00eb m\u00eb dukej fytyr\u00eb e njohur, her\u00eb m\u00eb dukej i panjohur. Vendi ku po m\u00eb fliste, ishte shum\u00eb err\u00ebsir\u00eb. Se\u00e7 po m\u00eb thoshte, por m\u00eb fuste frik\u00ebn her\u00eb pas here. M\u00eb pas d\u00ebgjova n\u00ebn\u00ebn time q\u00eb nuk jeton, duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cMos e d\u00ebgjo fare k\u00ebt\u00eb person\u201d. M\u00eb hyri frika dhe kisha ngelur si e ngrir\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb kuptimi ka? Ela.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur Ela, \u00ebndrra tregon se fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb keni d\u00ebgjuar n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr, ju ia thoni shum\u00eb shpesh vetes n\u00eb realitet. Keni koh\u00eb q\u00eb debatoni me nj\u00eb t\u00eb njohurin tuaj q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb familjar, person i dashur nga jeta private apo shok, por duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes e t\u00eb mos i besoni. Pra, besojuni fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs suaj. N\u00ebnat n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr na shfaqen gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb momente kritike dhe japin gjithnj\u00eb mesazhe, sepse ato jan\u00eb si engj\u00ebj p\u00ebr ne. Gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mirat!<\/p>\n

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Qaja me d\u00ebnes\u00eb <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Doja t\u00eb dija se \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb shikosh n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur qan me d\u00ebnes\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr e kam par\u00eb shpesh koh\u00ebt e fundit dhe qaj kaq shum\u00eb, saq\u00eb zgjohem duke qar\u00eb. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr pozitive. Sado q\u00eb ju keni qar\u00eb, parashikimi \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb, aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr q\u00eb ju e keni p\u00ebrjetuar t\u00eb qar\u00ebn edhe n\u00eb realitet, sepse zgjoheni duke qar\u00eb. E qara me d\u00ebnes\u00eb dhe me z\u00eb, tregon \u00e7lirim nga e kaluara, nga brenga, nga trishtimi, nga di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb vuani dhe parashikon nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb e t\u00eb g\u00ebzueshme. Pra, do t\u00eb ngush\u00eblloheni n\u00eb realitet, sepse do t\u00eb shikoni q\u00eb jeni sh\u00ebruar tashm\u00eb nga ajo q\u00eb ju ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb vuani gjer tani. Ju presin dit\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira!<\/p>\n

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M\u00eb ndiqte nj\u00eb plak\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur mua bashk\u00eb me motr\u00ebn time po na ndiqte nj\u00eb grua shum\u00eb e sh\u00ebmtuar dhe plak\u00eb, me flok\u00eb t\u00eb gjata. I thash\u00eb motr\u00ebs: \u201cHajde dalim jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb sepse jasht\u00eb nuk na z\u00eb dot leht\u00eb\u201d. Aq e trishtuar dhe e frik\u00ebsuar isha, saq\u00eb jam zgjuar e mbytur n\u00eb djers\u00eb. Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni, \u00e7far\u00eb kuptimi ka? Bona.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E dashur Bona, plaka q\u00eb keni par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ka dy kuptime: E para, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsoj\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb e keni shum\u00eb af\u00ebr dhe q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i\/e rrezikshme p\u00ebr ju dhe duhet t\u00eb keni kujdes. S\u00eb dyti, mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb edhe mendimet tuaja, ankthi q\u00eb p\u00ebrjetoni dhe fakti q\u00eb keni frik\u00eb nga \u00e7do gj\u00eb e re apo ndonj\u00eb ndryshim. Jan\u00eb emocionet e pak\u00ebndshme, l\u00ebkundja e humorit, p\u00ebrballja me \u00e7do lloj situate q\u00eb ju mundoheni t\u2019i largoheni. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb lloj p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie q\u00eb ju i shmangeni pasi keni shum\u00eb frik\u00eb. Duke qen\u00eb natyr\u00eb shum\u00eb e ndjeshme, keni frik\u00eb mos l\u00ebndoheni. Uroj t\u00eb dal\u00eb kuptimi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ju. E nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb vlen edhe p\u00ebr motr\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n

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Vrava shokun tim<\/strong><\/p>\n

– E nderuar astrologe! Ju lutem, m\u00eb thoni \u00e7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebllosh nj\u00eb person n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr aksidentalisht? I thash\u00eb djalit t\u00eb tezes: \u201cMa jep pak pistolet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde\u201d, sepse ai realisht \u00ebsht\u00eb polic. E mora, por m\u2019u shkrep dhe vrava nj\u00eb shokun tim q\u00eb e kam shum\u00eb xhan n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. U b\u00ebra shum\u00eb keq, por e fsheha trupin e tij edhe pse m\u00eb dhimbte n\u00eb shpirt, sepse nuk doja q\u00eb ta merrnin vesh q\u00eb e kisha vrar\u00eb un\u00eb. Pres nj\u00eb parashikim nga ana juaj. Ina. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– E nderuar Ina, vrasja n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr n\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e rasteve tregon humbjen e durimit dhe kontrollit p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale. Ndoshta ju duroni shum\u00eb dhe prisni shum\u00eb, ama keni arritur n\u00eb kufirin e durimit dhe mund t\u00eb shp\u00ebrtheni papritur, ama kjo gj\u00eb mund t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj\u00eb padashje njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb keni m\u00eb p\u00ebr zem\u00ebr. Vrasja, po k\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson dh\u00ebnien fund t\u00eb nj\u00eb var\u00ebsie, nj\u00eb problemi q\u00eb ju ka mbajtur pezull p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb. Pra, p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj paralajm\u00ebrimi q\u00eb tregon se do t\u00eb reagoni. N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn tuaj apo jo, k\u00ebt\u00eb do ta m\u00ebsoni me kalimin e koh\u00ebs. Gjithsesi, t\u00eb menduarit pozitiv ju sjell po pozitivitet n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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\u00c7el\u00ebsat e port\u00ebs<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00c7\u2019do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb kesh tre \u00e7el\u00ebsa n\u00eb dor\u00eb? Me ta, doja t\u00eb hapja nj\u00eb port\u00eb, por vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebri nga \u00e7el\u00ebsat funksionoi q\u00eb e hapi der\u00ebn. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00c7el\u00ebsat kan\u00eb shum\u00eb kuptime n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, tregojn\u00eb mund\u00ebsi, hapje fati, liri, njohuri etj. N\u00eb rastin tuaj konkret, tregon q\u00eb jeni para nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje, ose keni nj\u00eb plan n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe keni tre mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb arrini realizimin e projektit tuaj. Ama, vet\u00ebm nj\u00ebri prej tyre funksionon dhe ju duhet t\u00eb keni shum\u00eb kujdes q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e duhur, sepse p\u00ebr momentin, nuk e dini. \u00cbndrra ju paralajm\u00ebron t\u00eb keni kujdes dhe t\u00eb zgjidhni mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e duhur, pasi do t\u2019ju paraqiten tre prej tyre. Megjithat\u00eb, porta e hapur tregon q\u00eb ju do ta gjeni zgjidhjen e sakt\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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Pregaditi faqen: V.V.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Para humner\u00ebs – Kam par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr sikur po i ikja di\u00e7kaje, por nuk e mbaj mend \u00e7far\u00eb ishte. Di q\u00eb vrapoja dhe shpesh, gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs, hasja v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi sepse ishin rrug\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqia. M\u00eb pas, m\u2019u shfaq p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb humner\u00eb, e pash\u00eb dhe ishte shum\u00eb e frikshme; isha n\u00eb buz\u00eb t\u00eb gremin\u00ebs. Aty, u zgjova… […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[91],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-endrra"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1330","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1330"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1330\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}