Mbase g\u00ebnjeshtrat jan\u00eb karakteristik\u00eb e t\u00eb dyja sekseve, megjithat\u00eb, mund t\u00eb themi se burrat jan\u00eb kampion\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. \u00c7\u00ebshtja sigurisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se burrat, nga natyra, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj \u201csporti\u201d, por edhe se grat\u00eb kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb besojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha budallall\u00ebqet q\u00eb ata u servirin. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje naiviteti ky, por kryesisht frik\u00eb nga e v\u00ebrteta, e cila nganj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb aq e keqe sa t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb biesh n\u00eb depresion t\u00eb thell\u00eb, megjith\u00ebse ajo gjithmon\u00eb arrin t\u00eb dal\u00eb n\u00eb shesh! Meq\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtrat e grave jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuara, sa duhen dit\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i ftillosh, themi m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb analizojm\u00eb ato q\u00eb thon\u00eb burrat dhe m\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht, justifikimet qesharake q\u00eb ata p\u00ebrdorin p\u00ebr t\u00eb hequr qafe me lezet grat\u00eb q\u00eb nuk u p\u00eblqejn\u00eb, pa u shkaktuar shum\u00eb vuajtje atyre. Hidhuni nj\u00eb sy!<\/p>\n
1. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb, dua t\u00eb rri vet\u00ebm
\nPa dyshim, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb justifikim qesharak, por p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, shum\u00eb i qart\u00eb! Duket sikur po t\u00eb lidheshit, ti do ta rrihje, torturoje, st\u00ebrmundoje, do t\u00eb shuaje cigare n\u00eb trupin e tij, apo do t\u00eb shaje prind\u00ebrit e miqt\u00eb e tij. P\u00ebrkundrazi, ti do ta mbaje si pasha, do t\u00eb silleshe si njeriu m\u00eb i \u00ebmb\u00ebl n\u00eb bot\u00eb me t\u00eb dhe do t\u2019i gatuaje ushqimin e tij t\u00eb preferuar. Megjithat\u00eb, me t\u00eb nuk mund t\u2019ia kalosh mir\u00eb, sepse ai nuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqen. Mund t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ku e ku m\u00eb e keqe se ti, q\u00eb t\u2019ia b\u00ebj\u00eb jet\u00ebn ferr dhe ai t\u2019i rrij\u00eb me temena, thjesht sepse ajo i p\u00eblqen! <\/p>\n
2. Nuk jemi njohur mir\u00eb akoma
\nKeni dal\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 10 her\u00eb n\u00eb takim me t\u00eb dhe ai ndihet sikur nuk jeni ende gati t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb hapin e dyt\u00eb. Para se t\u00eb mendosh se sa xhent\u00eblmen \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe sa kujdeset p\u00ebr nevojat e tua, po t\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrojm\u00eb se n\u00eb 10 takime, jo vet\u00ebm e njeh mir\u00eb tjetrin (t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn gj\u00ebrat bazike) por edhe n\u00ebse ekziston pasioni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mes, \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta… ndrydh\u00ebsh! Me nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb, po t\u00eb lajm\u00ebrojm\u00eb me keqardhje se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak zot\u00ebri dhe xhent\u00eblmen, por thjesht do t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb koh\u00ebn me ty derisa t\u00eb gjej\u00eb di\u00e7ka m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, ose derisa t\u00eb kthehet ish-i i tij. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta e hidhur…<\/p>\n
3. M\u00eb fal q\u00eb s\u2019iu p\u00ebrgjigja mesazheve t\u00eb tua, por isha i z\u00ebn\u00eb
\nSigurisht q\u00eb ka shum\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe pa dyshim q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i domosdosh\u00ebm n\u00eb shum\u00eb fusha, por ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb Obama! N\u00ebse do, nj\u00eb mesazhi mund t\u2019i kthej\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb. Do ta imagjinoje ti sikur t\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebrgonte nj\u00eb mesazh, apo t\u00eb merrte n\u00eb telefon objekti i pasionit t\u00ebnd dhe ti t\u00eb mos b\u00ebje as edhe nj\u00eb pushim t\u00eb vog\u00ebl para se t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjeshe? Mbase ai nuk kishte asnj\u00eb pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe thjesht, t\u00eb ka injoruar! P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq…<\/p>\n
4. Kam shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra n\u00eb kok\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb
\nNa vjen keq, por n\u00ebse t\u00eb sheh edhe ty si nj\u00eb detyrim m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, at\u00ebher\u00eb fati dhe shenjat nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. N\u00ebse ai do t\u00eb t\u00eb donte, ti do t\u2019i sh\u00ebrbeje si relaks, do ta \u00e7lodhje dhe ai do t\u00eb donte t\u00eb takohej me ty, q\u00eb t\u00eb harronte gj\u00ebrat e tjera. N\u00ebse nuk ia ngjall k\u00ebto ndjesi, ka shum\u00eb gjasa, ose \u00ebsht\u00eb pothuajse e sigurt, se t\u00eb sheh si nj\u00eb plan rezerv\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kontakton vet\u00ebm kur ia ka qejfi! L\u00ebre sa m\u00eb shpejt, para se t\u00eb jet\u00eb von\u00eb. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Mbase g\u00ebnjeshtrat jan\u00eb karakteristik\u00eb e t\u00eb dyja sekseve, megjithat\u00eb, mund t\u00eb themi se burrat jan\u00eb kampion\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb drejtim. \u00c7\u00ebshtja sigurisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se burrat, nga natyra, jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj \u201csporti\u201d, por edhe se grat\u00eb kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb besojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha budallall\u00ebqet q\u00eb ata u servirin. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje naiviteti ky, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":13264,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13263","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intimitet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13263","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13263"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13263\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13264"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13263"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13263"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13263"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}