– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, doja t\u2019ju shprehja nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb po e vuaj shum\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam myslimane dhe fal 5 vaktet. Para 2 jav\u00ebsh, nj\u00eb kush\u00ebrira ime pa filxhan p\u00ebr mua pa dijenin\u00eb time dhe kur m\u00eb tha u bllokova dhe nuk po mundem ta praktikoj namazin si\u00e7 duhet q\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb. Jam shum\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitur gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs dhe ndihem bosh. Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb m\u00eb kthehej prap\u00eb ajo qet\u00ebsia q\u00eb kisha at\u00ebher\u00eb kur falesha. Do t\u2019ju lutesha shum\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonit me nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb. Ju jam mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse!
\nMarsela Marsi, psikologe: – P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje. N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb komplimente p\u00ebr besimin dhe p\u00ebr praktikimin e tij, pasi n\u00ebse ka di\u00e7ka q\u00eb na b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihemi mir\u00eb psikologjikisht, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb besimi n\u00eb Zot. Jo m\u00eb kot, ata q\u00eb besojn\u00eb me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb past\u00ebr dhe q\u00eb mb\u00ebshteten te Zoti p\u00ebr problemet e tyre, jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb zor se bien n\u00eb depresion apo stres. Ata e din\u00eb se mbi ne q\u00ebndron Krijuesi q\u00eb ka fuqi mbi gjith\u00e7ka, ndaj nuk i tremben askujt tjet\u00ebr ve\u00e7 tij. Kjo i b\u00ebn ta jetojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn pa stresin e s\u00eb nes\u00ebrmes, pasi e din\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb Krijuesi ai q\u00eb rregullon gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto jua thash\u00eb sepse nuk m\u00eb duket aspak e arsyeshme nga ana juaj q\u00eb t\u00eb ndiheni e bllokuar n\u00eb namaz. Besoj se ju mb\u00ebshteteni n\u00eb at\u00eb se, atij q\u00eb shikon fall, namazi nuk i pranohet p\u00ebr dyzet dit\u00eb, ndaj edhe ndiheni fajtore e kjo ndjesi ju b\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb ndieni k\u00ebt\u00eb bllokim. N\u00eb fakt, m\u00eb duhet t\u2019ju them se m\u00ebkati \u00ebsht\u00eb i atij q\u00eb e kryen veprimin, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb, q\u00eb e b\u00ebn m\u00ebkatin. Pra, n\u00ebse nuk keni par\u00eb ju fall, m\u00ebkati \u00ebsht\u00eb i kush\u00ebrir\u00ebs suaj, pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse ajo ka par\u00eb p\u00ebr veten apo p\u00ebr ju. Ne nuk jemi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr veprimet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, edhe n\u00ebse ato veprime na prekin edhe neve indirekt. \u00c7dokush \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr veprimet e tij dhe vuan pasojat e atyre veprimeve. N\u00ebse nuk jeni ju ajo q\u00eb keni shikuar filxhan, pse duhet t\u00eb ndiheni e bllokuar? Mos harroni se rituali i faljes, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb mes jush dhe Zotit, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie mes t\u00eb cil\u00ebs nuk ka fuqi askush t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb, aq m\u00eb pak, shikimi i nj\u00eb filxhani.
\nFakti q\u00eb ndiheni e bllokuar \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb fiksim i juaji, t\u00eb cilit m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ju nuk mund t\u2019ia gjej\u00eb sh\u00ebrimin askush tjet\u00ebr. P\u00ebrderisa mb\u00ebshteteni n\u00eb Zot p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka, at\u00ebhere me besim t\u00eb plot\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetuni tek ai dhe k\u00ebrkoni q\u00eb ai t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb ta kap\u00ebrceni k\u00ebt\u00eb penges\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeni mes jush dhe atij. Mos harroni se ai e ka forc\u00ebn mbi gjith\u00e7ka dhe sigurisht, edhe mbi at\u00eb q\u00eb ju e quani bllokim. Mb\u00ebshtetuni n\u00eb besimin tuaj, k\u00ebrkoni falje p\u00ebr m\u00ebkatet tuaja dhe vazhdoni t\u00eb jetoni normalisht. Dhe, edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, ju p\u00ebrg\u00ebzoj p\u00ebr ndjekjen e besimit q\u00eb keni. Faleminderit q\u00eb na keni shkruar dhe Zoti qoft\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb me ju. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
– P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, doja t\u2019ju shprehja nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb po e vuaj shum\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb. Un\u00eb jam myslimane dhe fal 5 vaktet. Para 2 jav\u00ebsh, nj\u00eb kush\u00ebrira ime pa filxhan p\u00ebr mua pa dijenin\u00eb time dhe kur m\u00eb tha u bllokova dhe nuk po mundem ta praktikoj namazin si\u00e7 duhet q\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb. Jam shum\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[86,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psikologu","category-pyetje-pergjigje"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13255"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13255\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}