Nga Hysen Kica<\/p>\n
Nuk ka shum\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb u lirua nga burgu Nazime Visha dhe u d\u00ebgjuan disa nga mendimet e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb saj t\u00eb af\u00ebrt apo njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuesit t\u00eb saj. Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz flasin dhe b\u00ebjne llogari pa menduar askush p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj dhe shkaqet q\u00eb e \u00e7uan ate ne vrasjen e p\u00ebrdhunuesit? Motra mendon m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr problemet e saj sesa p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e Nazimes. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se ajo ka shum\u00eb probleme sociale, por kjo nuk i jep asaj t\u00eb drejt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ia l\u00ebr\u00eb gjith\u00eb pesh\u00ebn e problemeve motr\u00ebs s\u00eb saj t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Probleme kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb sepse krimi ka ndodhur brenda rrethit miq\u00ebsor, por e veja dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj duhet ta kuptojn\u00eb drejt se t\u00eb gjitha fajet jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuesit dhe jo t\u00eb Nazime Vish\u00ebs. Asnj\u00eb logjik\u00eb njer\u00ebzore nuk pranon se nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb 14 vje\u00e7e josh nj\u00eb burr\u00eb mbi 40 vje\u00e7 sepse, edhe po t\u00eb kishte nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie, ajo do ta gjente nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebmoshatar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb apo n\u00eb fshatin e saj.
\n Psikologjia e zhvillimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve justifikon mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e shnd\u00ebrrimit t\u00eb tyre n\u00eb kriminel\u00eb kur ata dhunohen. N\u00eb ve\u00e7anti, vajzat e p\u00ebrdhunuara p\u00ebsojn\u00eb nj\u00eb goditje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb psikologjike dhe b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb betim t\u00eb tmerrsh\u00ebm se do hakmerren ku p\u00ebrdhunuesi i tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb objektivi kryesor. Opinioni shoq\u00ebror, sidomos n\u00eb zonat rurale, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb i frenon t\u00eb mos padisin, por i ngarkon edhe me nj\u00eb barr\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb sociale e morale. Shum\u00eb vajza t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuara nuk e p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb ndeshjen me realitetin, nuk guxojn\u00eb t\u2019u tregojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrve, mundohen t\u00eb shmangen dhe ta harrojn\u00eb, por p\u00ebrdhunuesit nuk ndalen n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb krimit. Ata mendojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb superior\u00eb mbi viktimat e tyre, i k\u00ebrc\u00ebnojn\u00eb me t\u00eb gjitha m\u00ebnyrat dhe i vendosin para situatave t\u00eb pakap\u00ebrcyeshme nga viktimat. N\u00eb situata t\u00eb tilla t\u00eb pashpresa ka edhe plot vajza q\u00eb i japin fund jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre me nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb tragjike, ka vajza q\u00eb shpresojn\u00eb se nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kjo gjendje do t\u00eb arrij\u00eb fundin pa u marr\u00eb vesh nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por ka edhe vajza q\u00eb nuk gjejn\u00eb m\u00eb rrug\u00ebdalje dhe kthehen n\u00eb vras\u00ebse. Jet\u00ebn e duan t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta mbrojtur.
\n Realiteti shqiptar \u00ebsht\u00eb i mbushur me plot raste t\u00eb tilla kriminale ku vajzat e p\u00ebrdhunuara i shfryt\u00ebzojn\u00eb edhe n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e prostitucionit, ku shqiptar\u00ebt shnd\u00ebrrohen n\u00eb rac\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt njer\u00ebzore duke i detyruar viktimat e tyre t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuara t\u00eb prostituojn\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebs. Ne nuk kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u2019i harrojm\u00eb vajzat shqiptare q\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunohen, q\u00eb mashtrohen me martesa false p\u00ebr t\u2019u nxjerr\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e prostitucionit, q\u00eb torturohen barbarisht dhe ka plot raste q\u00eb ekzekutohen kur nuk u binden urdh\u00ebrave t\u00eb mashtruesve t\u00eb tyre. Ne nuk kemi aspak t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb keq kur gjendet n\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e bot\u00ebs kufoma e nj\u00eb vajze shqiptare. Nuk kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb themi se ajo ishte e degjeneruar dhe se at\u00eb d\u00ebnim meritonte. Jo vet\u00ebm se ajo kufom\u00eb ishte vajza apo motra jon\u00eb shqiptare, por se dikush e ka p\u00ebrdhunuar dhe e ka zvarritur pa m\u00ebshir\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrug\u00ebn e shkat\u00ebrrimit. Ne nuk kemi t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb mohojm\u00eb vuajtjet e vajzave t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuara, lot\u00ebt q\u00eb ato derdhin dhe \u00ebndrrat e tyre q\u00eb vriten. Edhe ato vajza kan\u00eb qen\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe kan\u00eb patur d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb jetojn\u00eb, por nj\u00eb kriminel i pam\u00ebshir\u00ebsh\u00ebm i p\u00ebrdhunoi dhe i k\u00ebputi \u00ebndrrat e tyre.
\n Fatkeq\u00ebsisht, edhe un\u00eb e kam patur rastin t\u00eb takoj nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e Torinos. Them \u201cfatkeq\u00ebsisht\u201d se nuk do kisha dashur kurr\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoja tragjedi t\u00eb tilla. Kur un\u00eb i thash\u00eb se kam prer\u00eb bilet\u00ebn dhe se do kthehesha n\u00eb atdhe, ajo u mbyt n\u00eb lot. Ajo nuk mund t\u00eb kthehej m\u00eb n\u00eb atdhe p\u00ebr dy arsye shum\u00eb t\u00eb forta. N\u00eb radh\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e kishin mohuar si f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tyre dhe, s\u00eb dyti, p\u00ebrdhunuesi i saj e torturonte dhe e k\u00ebrc\u00ebnonte se do ta zhdukte n\u00ebse tentonte t\u00eb tregonte t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn apo t\u00eb dilte nga rrethi ku e kishte futur. Nj\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunues pra i kishte marr\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka nga jeta e saj, e kishte ndar\u00eb nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e saj t\u00eb dashur, ia kishte mohuar t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashuruar e p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb familjare dhe i kishte mohuar t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u kthyer n\u00eb at\u00ebdheun e saj. E pra, ajo nuk ishte m\u00eb njeri. Ajo nuk kishte m\u00eb as familje, as atdhe dhe as em\u00ebr. Ajo ishte shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb skllave q\u00eb shitej e blihej n\u00eb tregun e prostitucionit si kafsh\u00eb. Ajo edhe mund t\u00eb vidhej apo t\u00eb vritej si nj\u00eb qen, se askush nuk e k\u00ebrkonte dhe nuk e kujtonte m\u00eb. Ajo kishte fatin e Zyra Hid\u00ebs, kufoma e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs mbeti n\u00eb rrug\u00ebt e Amsterdamit.
\nKush duhet ta mas\u00eb thell\u00ebsin\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj tragjedie?!
\nP\u00ebr mendimin tim, gjith\u00eb opinioni duhet t\u2019i ndihmoj\u00eb viktimat e p\u00ebrdhunimit, por detyra kryesore bie mbi prind\u00ebrit dhe njer\u00ebzit e tyre t\u00eb af\u00ebrt, sepse ata e kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e tyre dhe kan\u00eb detyrimin prind\u00ebror. Nuk dua t\u00eb them asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr organet e drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb sepse jam i bindur se edhe ata duan t\u00eb pin\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb nga gjaku i tyre, por duhet t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb pak edhe ne. Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e p\u00ebrdhunuesit pa pik\u00ebn e turpit dhe respektit p\u00ebr drejt\u00ebsin\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnime q\u00eb transmetohen n\u00eb media?! Ku vall\u00eb e gjejn\u00eb ata moralin social p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar d\u00ebnimin e nj\u00eb vajze t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuar q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 14 vje\u00e7are?! L\u00ebrini f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb rriten t\u00eb qet\u00eb e mos i p\u00ebrdhunoni ata. Edhe ata kan\u00eb ardhur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar t\u00eb lumtur. Nuk ka asnj\u00eb logjik\u00eb njer\u00ebzore q\u00eb i justifikon p\u00ebrdhunuesit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, por edhe mediat duhet t\u00eb ken\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi morale para d\u00ebgjuesve t\u00eb tyre. Ne presim jo vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb shpjegim t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, por edhe mb\u00ebshtetje p\u00ebr k\u00ebto viktima.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nga Hysen Kica Nuk ka shum\u00eb dit\u00eb q\u00eb u lirua nga burgu Nazime Visha dhe u d\u00ebgjuan disa nga mendimet e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb saj t\u00eb af\u00ebrt apo njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunuesit t\u00eb saj. Si ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz flasin dhe b\u00ebjne llogari pa menduar askush p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj dhe shkaqet q\u00eb e \u00e7uan ate […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[836,104],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13202","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-komunikoni-me-njeri-tjetrin-2","category-mesazhe"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13202","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13202"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13202\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13202"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13202"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13202"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}