Jam martuar n\u00eb vitin 2012 dhe kam ardhur n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje te mrekullueshme, ku kam gjetur vjehrr\u00ebn dhe dy kunet\u00ebr, q\u00eb un\u00eb i quaj v\u00ebllez\u00ebr e q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb martuar. Gjeta edhe dy motra shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre. Kur erdha nuse, burri im m\u00eb tha:
\n– D\u00ebgjo, familja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb e qet\u00eb e nga mamaja ime nuk do t\u00eb kesh kurr\u00eb probleme. Nusja e v\u00ebllait t\u00eb vog\u00ebl shikon pun\u00ebn e vet e nuk t\u00eb sjell probleme, por do kesh kujdes se nusja e madhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e keqe. Nga ajo duhet t\u00eb ruhesh!
\nNga se duhet t\u00eb ruhesha, ai nuk ma qart\u00ebsoi dhe un\u00eb, si e padjall\u00ebzuar q\u00eb jam, i quaj njer\u00ebzit si veten. Pik\u00ebrisht kjo kunata e madhe u afrua shum\u00eb me mua. M\u00eb pyeste si fillim p\u00ebr kurset q\u00eb kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe un\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb ia stiloja flok\u00ebt si\u00e7 i donte. Ajo e nd\u00ebrronte \u00e7do jav\u00eb ngjyr\u00ebn e flokut dhe un\u00eb ia realizoja shum\u00eb bukur sepse doja t\u00eb b\u00ebja edhe pak reklam\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb kisha pun\u00eb e t\u00eb mos e humbisja zanatin e parukieres. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, fillova t\u2019i b\u00ebja kunat\u00ebs edhe nj\u00eb kurs italisht, por nuk po e kuptoja se ajo ishte shum\u00eb xheloze dhe donte q\u00eb t\u00eb ish ajo n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes. K\u00ebshtu, ajo m\u00eb p\u00ebrdorte mua, pa e kuptuar un\u00eb. Mua m\u00eb thoshte \u201cShyqyr q\u00eb erdhe ti q\u00eb je myslimane dhe u b\u00ebm\u00eb t\u00eb dyja bashk\u00eb, se k\u00ebta jane kaurr\u00eb t\u00eb qelbur\u201d. Un\u00eb u frik\u00ebsova pak se mendoja se mos v\u00ebrtet ishin t\u00eb k\u00ebqinj, por e kisha gabim. M\u00eb ngat\u00ebrroi pak edhe mami im q\u00eb m\u00eb tha t\u00eb afrohesha me k\u00ebt\u00eb nuse, se asaj i kishte p\u00eblqyer. K\u00ebshtu, un\u00eb rash\u00eb n\u00eb grack\u00ebn e saj.
\nVjehrra e shkret\u00eb m\u00eb tregoi nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb k\u00ebqijat q\u00eb ajo i kish b\u00ebr\u00eb familjes. Ishte z\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb keq me kunatat derisa u martua e madhja dhe e vogla, n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 15 vje\u00e7are, iku nga sht\u00ebpia p\u00ebr t\u2019u shkolluar dhe sot jeton larg familjes p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj nuseje. Pastaj i ishte qepur kunatit t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, derisa ai kishte marr\u00eb nusen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe kishte ikur fare nga Shqip\u00ebria. Tani, radh\u00ebn e kemi ne, un\u00eb dhe burri! T\u00eb shohim \u00e7far\u00eb plani ka kunata p\u00ebr ne… m\u00eb vjen shum\u00eb turp t\u2019ju tregoj se \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb ka ndodhur dhe uroj q\u00eb kjo q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ndodhur mua t\u00eb mos i ndodh\u00eb askujt.
\nN\u00eb vitin e dyt\u00eb t\u00eb martes\u00ebs un\u00eb ngela shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Vizitat i b\u00ebja n\u00eb qytetin ku kisha lindur vet\u00eb, pasi i njihja t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb ekove, doktori nuk po e dallonte f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00ebse ishte djal\u00eb apo vajz\u00eb deri jav\u00ebn e fundit q\u00eb un\u00eb do t\u00eb lindja. N\u00eb muajin e kat\u00ebrt na tha se vet\u00ebm nga pozicioni mund t\u00eb thoshte q\u00eb f\u00ebmija ishte vajz\u00eb, \u201cpor mos m\u00eb besoni shum\u00eb, se nuk jam i sigurt\u201d, na tha. Ne treguam se un\u00eb do t\u00eb lindja vajz\u00eb dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb u g\u00ebzuan jasht\u00eb mase sepse n\u00eb familje nuk kishin mbes\u00eb. Motra e madhe e burrit m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi t\u00eb b\u00ebhej ajo kumbar\u00eb sepse donte t\u2019i vinte vajz\u00ebs emrin e n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb saj. Un\u00eb u g\u00ebzova q\u00eb f\u00ebmija do t\u00eb merrte emrin e vjehrr\u00ebs sime.
\nPara se t\u00eb lindja, m\u00eb erdhi v\u00ebllai nga jasht\u00eb dhe bashk\u00eb me babin do t\u00eb m\u00eb \u00e7onin p\u00ebr t\u00eb lindur n\u00eb spitalin ku thash\u00eb se kisha b\u00ebr\u00eb vizitat. Drek\u00ebn na e b\u00ebri kunata dhe deri k\u00ebtu, gjith\u00e7ka shkoi mir\u00eb. Un\u00eb u b\u00ebra gati dhe u ndava me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. N\u00eb fund, m\u00eb doli para kunata. \u201cTi do ik\u00ebsh, m\u00eb tha, por un\u00eb k\u00ebtu do t\u00eb nxjerr ujin e zi!\u201d. E habitur, e pyeta se pse, por ajo nuk m\u00eb dha shpjegim…
\nNuk u dhash\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb saj se nuk kishte shum\u00eb kapacitet, ajo me 8-vje\u00e7are ishte. Un\u00eb isha n\u00eb jav\u00ebn e fundit t\u00eb shtatzanis\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb lindja me operim. Njer\u00ebzit e mi m\u00eb \u00e7uan n\u00eb spital p\u00ebr t\u00eb lindur. Nipi i tha mjekut se donte q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb lindja djal\u00eb. Doktori shikonte nipin dhe monitorin e ekografis\u00eb e m\u00eb pyeti se \u00e7far\u00eb gjinie m\u00eb kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb se ishte f\u00ebmija.
\n– Nga pozicioni m\u00eb keni th\u00ebn\u00eb se ishte vajz\u00eb, – i thash\u00eb. – Besoj se vajz\u00eb do jet\u00eb. I kemi bler\u00eb edhe veshje shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukura…
\n– \u00c7far\u00eb thua? – tha doktori – N\u00eb fakt, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i bukur.
\n– Qenka djal\u00eb me namuz, – tha infermierja, – se p\u00ebr n\u00ebnt\u00eb muaj rresht s\u2019na la ta shihnim \u00e7far\u00eb ishte.
\nK\u00ebshtu, familja ime u g\u00ebzua shum\u00eb. Nga familja e burrit, ky ishte nipi i gjasht\u00eb q\u00eb vinte. M\u00eb telefonoi kunata, nusja e madhe e nisi t\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte se: \u201cSi k\u00ebshtu qenka djal\u00eb? Si ndryshoi? P\u00ebr nj\u00eb jav\u00eb?\u201d, po mua prap\u00eb nuk m\u00eb b\u00ebnin p\u00ebrshtypje fjal\u00ebt e saj.
\nVjehrra dhe burri erdh\u00ebn t\u00eb m\u00eb shihnin nj\u00eb dit\u00eb para operacionit. T\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen linda n\u00eb or\u00ebn 11, dola nga salla dhe mbas tre dit\u00ebsh, n\u00eb or\u00ebt e mbr\u00ebmjes, m\u00eb telefonoi kush\u00ebrira e burrit p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb uruar p\u00ebr djalin. Ajo m\u00eb pyeti p\u00ebr burrin dhe m\u00eb tha se kunati i madh ishte n\u00eb mal. E pyeta se \u00e7far\u00eb kishte ndodhur, por ajo nuk m\u00eb shpjegoi gj\u00eb, vet\u00ebm m\u00eb kaloi n\u00eb telefon t\u00eb shoqin q\u00eb donte t\u00eb m\u00eb uronte edhe ai. Sapo mbarova bised\u00ebn me ta, un\u00eb i telefonova kunatit t\u00eb madh dhe e pyeta me pik\u00eb e me presje k\u00ebshtu: \u201cMir\u00ebmbr\u00ebma, si jeni?\u201d. \u201cMir\u00eb, si je ti?! Ja, t\u00eb t\u00eb rroj\u00eb djali!\u201d. \u201cFaleminderit, po ku je ti, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi apo n\u00eb mal?\u201d. \u201cJo, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi\u201d, m\u00eb tha. \u201cMos keni ndonj\u00eb problem andej?\u201d, e pyeta. \u201cJo, tha, pse?\u201d. I thash\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb bisede m\u00eb kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb kush\u00ebrira n\u00eb telefon dhe e pyeta se ku ishte kunata. \u201cJa, po ia \u00e7oj telefonin\u201d, m\u00eb tha. Fola me kunat\u00ebn dhe m\u00eb uroi p\u00ebr djalin. I thash\u00eb se isha shum\u00eb e lodhur, por se m\u00eb kishte telefonuar kush\u00ebrira filan dhe m\u00eb b\u00ebri merak, ndaj kisha marr\u00eb t\u00eb pyesja se si ishin.
\nPas k\u00ebsaj telefonate, ajo kish filluar sherrin se p\u00ebrse un\u00eb kisha telefonuar n\u00eb 9 e 30 t\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjes e pse shqet\u00ebsohesha p\u00ebr burrin e saj. \u201cF\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb i yti, ajo e ka me ty\u201d, i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb atij. Un\u00eb isha akoma n\u00eb spital, kur ajo i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb vjehrr\u00ebs se \u201cburri im m\u00eb tradhton me kunat\u00ebn dhe f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb i tiji\u201d. Vjehrra ime \u00e7far\u00eb s\u2019i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb, por ajo e kishte kurdisur nj\u00eb plan. E mori vesh gjith\u00eb familja e q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e d\u00ebnuan p\u00ebr akuz\u00ebn e ngritur. Un\u00eb dola nga spitali dit\u00ebn e gjasht\u00eb dhe u ktheva n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.
\nT\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen, burri im kish harruar telefonin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. N\u00eb sht\u00ebpi telefonoi nj\u00ebri q\u00eb punonte me t\u00eb dhe e k\u00ebrkoi. I thash\u00eb se nuk ishte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe dola n\u00eb dritare e i tregova vjehrr\u00ebs p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb (nuk isha n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb mir\u00eb sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, isha shum\u00eb e pafuqishme). I thash\u00eb se filani po k\u00ebrkonte burrin tim. Vjehrra m\u00eb tha se burri kishte dal\u00eb, por m\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi t\u2019i telefonoja kunatit q\u00eb ta mbaronte ai at\u00eb pun\u00eb. I telefonova kunatit, por ai s\u2019po m\u00eb kthente p\u00ebrgjigje, kur n\u00eb telefon m\u00eb doli kunata dhe nisi t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiste: \u201cKu je, moj qelb\u00ebsir\u00eb, moj ashtu, moj k\u00ebshtu…\u201d, nga fjalet m\u00eb t\u00eb pista m\u00eb tha. \u201cMoj, i thash\u00eb, jam un\u00eb…\u201d, duke menduar se nuk e dinte me k\u00eb po fliste. \u201cE di shum\u00eb mir\u00eb kush je, moj!… Ti m\u00eb ke marr\u00eb burrin mua, ti po m\u00eb ndan nga burri…\u201d e vazhdoi t\u00eb m\u00eb ofendonte. \u201cMoj, je gabim, i thash\u00eb, ik e vizitohu se nuk je mir\u00eb\u201d dhe i mbylla telefonin.
\nAjo kishte ardhur te vjehrra p\u00ebr t\u2019u ankuar se un\u00eb i kisha marr\u00eb burrin n\u00eb telefon dhe sado q\u00eb vjehrra ia shpjegonte se kishte qen\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ma kishte k\u00ebrkuar k\u00ebt\u00eb, kunata nuk d\u00ebgjonte nga ai vesh. Ajo kish filluar loj\u00ebn n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb familje, nj\u00eb loj\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019e kuptonte njeri p\u00ebrve\u00e7 burrit t\u00eb saj. Ajo p\u00ebrdorte emrin e tij dhe emrin tim p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbuluar veten. \u201cEh, thosh, mua m\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb edhe tani q\u00eb jam me dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb, kam k\u00ebrkesa n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb…\u201d dhe zonja na ishte lidhur me nj\u00eb faturino atobusi t\u00eb linj\u00ebs… I k\u00ebrkuam familjes s\u00eb saj t\u00eb vinte dhe vjehrra u tha se po t\u00eb donin, mund t\u00eb vinin t\u00eb m\u00eb pyesnin edhe mua. \u201cJo, than\u00eb ata, ne duhet t\u2019i k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb falje asaj\u201d.
\nK\u00ebshtu, ajo e qepi goj\u00ebn p\u00ebr ca koh\u00eb, por pastaj filloi p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me burrin me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt \u201cdo t\u2019ju vras\u201d, \u201cdo t\u2019ju hedh nga ballkoni\u201d, derisa e la t\u00eb shoqin, mori valixhet e iku te prind\u00ebrit. Ndenji ca atje pa burrin pa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e pastaj i telefonoi t\u00eb shoqit duke qar\u00eb: \u201cM\u00eb ndihmo, jam keq, un\u00eb t\u00eb dua, mbase m\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb magji q\u00eb ndahem nga ti\u201d, etj. dhe tha i varfri \u201cpo e marr se mbase ka ndryshuar ujku zakon\u201d dhe shkoi e mori. Ajo premtoi q\u00eb s\u2019do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte m\u00eb sherr dhe familja do kthehesh si m\u00eb par\u00eb, e bashkuar, ama ujku qimen e nd\u00ebrron, po zakonin, jo.
\nShum\u00eb shpejt filloi terrori n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb frik\u00eb prej saj. Ajo duhet vizituar, themi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, por nuk pranon. \u201cM\u00eb b\u00ebni edhe t\u00eb \u00e7mendur\u201d, thot\u00eb. Un\u00eb, n\u00eb fakt, nuk e besoj q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e s\u00ebmur\u00eb…
\nNd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, djali im \u00ebsht\u00eb dy vje\u00e7 dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb identik si burri im. \u201cE hoqa k\u00ebt\u00eb fiksim, djali nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i burrit tim\u201d, thot\u00eb, ama m\u00eb ruan mua kudo q\u00eb shkoj se mos takohem me burrin e saj, q\u00eb un\u00eb e quaj v\u00eblla e jo kunat…
\nJam n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb… Kunati nuk jep nj\u00eb zgjidhje, por duron sherr nat\u00eb p\u00ebr nat\u00eb. Pik\u00ebrisht dje shkova bleva ca gj\u00ebra q\u00eb m\u00eb mungonin dhe ajo m\u00eb ruajti nga larg, m\u00eb erdhi nga mbrapa. Un\u00eb kam frik\u00eb prej saj se mos eg\u00ebrsohet e m\u00eb hedh ndonj\u00eb kov\u00eb lule nga lart n\u00eb kok\u00eb e m\u00eb l\u00eb n\u00eb vend t\u00eb vdekur.
\n\u201cP\u00ebrse, i them vjehrr\u00ebs t\u00eb vdes pa faj, n\u00ebse ajo v\u00ebrtet \u00ebsht\u00eb e s\u00ebmur\u00eb? Ajo do b\u00ebhet m\u00eb keq dhe familja \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rrezik\u201d.
\n\u201cE di, m\u00eb thot\u00eb, po s\u2019pranoi t\u00eb vizitohet, keq e kemi\u201d.
\nSa her\u00eb jam matur ta denoncoj, jam shtangur vet\u00ebm nga familja, se jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe m\u00eb respektojn\u00eb jasht\u00eb mase t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Vjehrra m\u00eb quan vajz\u00eb e m\u00eb do aq shum\u00eb sa vuan me shpirt q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb mos m\u00ebrzitem. A do t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndonj\u00eb zgjidhje ky problem? Po rrojm\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuar e t\u00eb terrorizuar nga nj\u00eb plehr\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019e meriton as k\u00ebt\u00eb em\u00ebr.
\nDo t\u2019jua dija shum\u00eb p\u00ebr nder n\u00ebse m\u00eb jepni nj\u00eb mendim se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnit ju, po t\u00eb ishit n\u00eb vendin tim…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Jam martuar n\u00eb vitin 2012 dhe kam ardhur n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje te mrekullueshme, ku kam gjetur vjehrr\u00ebn dhe dy kunet\u00ebr, q\u00eb un\u00eb i quaj v\u00ebllez\u00ebr e q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb martuar. Gjeta edhe dy motra shum\u00eb t\u00eb mira t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre. Kur erdha nuse, burri im m\u00eb tha: – D\u00ebgjo, familja ime […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":12112,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[94],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13134","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-histori-nga-jeta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13134","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13134"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13134\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13134"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13134"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13134"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}