{"id":12718,"date":"2016-04-13T11:30:55","date_gmt":"2016-04-13T09:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=12718"},"modified":"2016-04-12T12:45:59","modified_gmt":"2016-04-12T10:45:59","slug":"mesazhe-miqesore-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/04\/mesazhe-miqesore-7\/","title":{"rendered":"Mesazhe miq\u00ebsore\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ti gjithmon\u00eb ke q\u00ebndruar pran\u00eb meje. Un\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb do t\u00eb jem\u00eb pran\u00eb teje, shoku im! Shok\u00ebt jan\u00eb engjujt t\u00eb cil\u00ebt na ngrisin n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebt tona at\u00ebhere kur Krah\u00ebt ton\u00eb kan\u00eb problem t\u00eb kujtojn\u00eb si t\u00eb fluturojn\u00eb! Po t\u00eb merrja nga nj\u00eb lule sa her\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb qeshja, do t\u00eb kisha nj\u00eb kopsht p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur n\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb! Kur nuk kam mundur t\u00eb jap nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje, ti m\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb qesh. Kur un\u00eb isha e pik\u00eblluar dhe e l\u00ebnduar, ti ishe af\u00ebr meje t\u00eb m\u2019i thaje syt\u00eb. Shoq\u00ebria jote dometh\u00ebn\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr mua. Ti m\u00eb ke treguar se \u00e7far\u00eb dometh\u00ebnie ka shoq\u00ebria n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb!! Ti ishe pran\u00eb meje kur un\u00eb kisha m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti nevoj\u00eb! T\u00eb faleminderit q\u00eb ishe shoku im! T\u00eb faleminderit p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kujtimet e pazavend\u00ebsueshme\u2026 Momentet e k\u00ebndshme me dhimbje, koh\u00ebn kur lot\u00ebt nuk ndaleshin duke rrjedhur, dhe t\u00eb gjitha marr\u00ebzit\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet. Ti je nj\u00eb shok i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Kur e gjith\u00eb bota shkoi. Ti ishe k\u00ebtu me duart e hapura. T\u00eb faleminderit q\u00eb ishe shoku im! Shoku i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ai i cili mbikqyr\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha d\u00ebshtimet dhe feston suksesin t\u00ebnd! Ti je nj\u00eb shok i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. T\u00eb faleminderit q\u00eb ishe aty koh\u00eb pas kohe, prej fillimit deri n\u00eb fund, shoku im i duruesh\u00ebm. Gentit nga Bora.<\/p>\n<p>Un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb t\u00eb premtoj se ti do jetosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb ku njer\u00ebzit nuk do t\u2019i l\u00ebndojn\u00eb ndjenjat e tua, por mund t\u00eb t\u00eb premtoj q\u00eb n\u00ebse ti do vazhdosh t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh dhe t\u2019i kushtosh dit\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra vetes t\u00ebnde, opinionet dhe fjal\u00ebt e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve do t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb shum\u00eb pak tek ty. Njer\u00ebzit do t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb flasin fjal\u00eb jo t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta p\u00ebr secilin nga ne. \u00c7do dit\u00eb q\u00eb hyjm\u00eb n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, ne shohim jet\u00ebt perfekte t\u00eb miqve tani, por harrojme se sa e mrekullueshme \u00ebsht\u00eb jeta jon\u00eb. Ne shohim prapaskenat e saj dhe l\u00ebm\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat dhe njer\u00ebzit e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb jan\u00eb pjes\u00eb e dit\u00ebve tona. \u00c7do dit\u00eb q\u00eb zgjohesh, ti kujton dyshimet e tua, frik\u00ebrat dhe synimet e paarritura. Ti je e vetmja qe brenda trurit t\u00ebnd ndien gjith\u00eb ankthin,q\u00eb d\u00ebgjon z\u00ebra q\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb se ti nuk mund t\u00eb jesh ajo q\u00eb do t\u00eb jesh. Dua t\u00eb t\u00eb them se jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00eb personat q\u00eb do k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb p\u00ebr keq n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, por askush prej tyre nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb aq ndikim sa kan\u00eb vet\u00eb mendimet e tua p\u00ebr ty. Dhe un\u00eb dua q\u00eb n\u00eb momentet e tua m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, ti t\u00eb shikosh veten n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kujtosh \u00e7far\u00eb je dhe \u00e7far\u00eb nuk je.\u00a0Ti nuk je opinioni i dikujt tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr ty. Ti nuk je nj\u00eb problem p\u00ebr t\u2019u zgjidhur, thjesht sepse ke b\u00ebr\u00eb disa gabime n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Ti nuk je d\u00ebshtake, vet\u00ebm se ke b\u00ebr\u00eb disa pun\u00eb apo projekte pa rezultate pozitive.\u00a0Ti je p\u00ebrkufizimi i bukuris\u00eb dhe vlerave. Ti je e zgjuar dhe e fort\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht gabimeve. Ti je dikush q\u00eb kaloi n\u00ebp\u00ebr shum\u00eb stuhi dhe vazhdoi t\u00eb ecte.\u00a0 Un\u00eb kam kuptuar se nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi t\u00eb jesh perfekte, apo t\u00eb ndihesh e till\u00eb. R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatesh me gj\u00ebrat dhe ta bind\u00ebsh veten se ti ke plot arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb e lumtur sot. Un\u00eb jam duke m\u00ebsuar \u00e7do dit\u00eb nga jeta, por di\u00e7ka q\u00eb e di me siguri, \u00ebsht\u00eb se dhimbja t\u00eb b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe se t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh n\u00ebp\u00ebr shum\u00eb stuhi n\u00eb jet\u00eb nuk t\u00eb d\u00ebmton. Realisht, t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihesh m\u00eb e past\u00ebr&#8230;!!! Per ty shoqja ime. D.<\/p>\n<p>Ku jan\u00eb shoket? Ata t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetit, ata q\u00eb t\u00eb marrin n\u00eb telefon p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar nj\u00eb barsalet\u00eb, ata q\u00eb shqet\u00ebsohen n\u00ebse ti nuk i merr t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, ata shoke q\u00eb sapo e marrin vesh q\u00eb ti je keq, l\u00ebn\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb dhe vijn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb dobish\u00ebm me miq\u00ebsin\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, me dashurin\u00eb e tyre krejt\u00ebsisht pa interes. Epo ku do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb kjo ndjenj\u00eb? Bota po shkrihet nga ngrohja globale, por zemrat tona jan\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb male prej akulli, hap\u00ebsirat brenda nesh po mbushen me urrejtje, egoiz\u00ebm, zili. Askush nuk d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb t\u00eb kujtoj\u00eb se dashuria fiton mbi gjith\u00e7ka, se bashkimi i shpirtrave mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballet me \u00e7do stuhi, se nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb vler\u00eb se \u00e7do thesar&#8230; Ku do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb jeta? Jeta jon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb list\u00eb te pyetjeve dhe k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb vite, shekuj dhe ne nuk do t\u00eb mbajm\u00eb m\u00eb mend gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura q\u00eb kemi pasur!? Mateo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ti gjithmon\u00eb ke q\u00ebndruar pran\u00eb meje. Un\u00eb p\u00ebrher\u00eb do t\u00eb jem\u00eb pran\u00eb teje, shoku im! Shok\u00ebt jan\u00eb engjujt t\u00eb cil\u00ebt na ngrisin n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebt tona at\u00ebhere kur Krah\u00ebt ton\u00eb kan\u00eb problem t\u00eb kujtojn\u00eb si t\u00eb fluturojn\u00eb! Po t\u00eb merrja nga nj\u00eb lule sa her\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb ke b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb qeshja, do t\u00eb kisha nj\u00eb kopsht [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[836,104],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12718","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-komunikoni-me-njeri-tjetrin-2","category-mesazhe"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12718","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12718"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12718\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12718"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12718"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12718"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}