{"id":12709,"date":"2016-04-12T16:30:01","date_gmt":"2016-04-12T14:30:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/?p=12709"},"modified":"2016-04-12T12:36:11","modified_gmt":"2016-04-12T10:36:11","slug":"test-futesh-te-njerezit-e-ndrojtur-apo-jo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/2016\/04\/test-futesh-te-njerezit-e-ndrojtur-apo-jo\/","title":{"rendered":"Test: Futesh te njer\u00ebzit e ndrojtur apo jo?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Njer\u00ebzit mund t\u2019i ndajm\u00eb n\u00eb dy kategori: T\u00eb mbyllur, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt p\u00ebrqendrohen te vetja e te mendimet e tyre dhe t\u00eb hapur, q\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohen te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Megjithat\u00eb, ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb edhe pak k\u00ebshtu, edhe pak ashtu. P\u00ebr t\u00eb mbyllurit n\u00eb vetvete m\u00eb shum\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh brenda mendjes s\u00eb tyre dhe n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, k\u00ebta jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb qet\u00eb, q\u00eb i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por nuk duan t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr festa \u00e7do nat\u00eb. K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz jan\u00eb shpesh edhe t\u00eb ndrojtur. Nd\u00ebrsa njer\u00ebzit e hapur, t\u00eb hedhur, kan\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb festa. Ata u kushtojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendje gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb ndodhin rreth e rrotull, sesa atyre q\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb kok\u00ebn e tyre. Ata mezi presin t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjen telefonatave dhe u p\u00eblqen t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00eb grupi t\u00eb madh shoq\u00ebror. Ata preferojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb veprimin sesa meditimin, t\u00eb rrezikojn\u00eb, sesa t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend. N\u00ebse do t\u2019i krahasonim me bateri, t\u00eb mbyllurit n\u00eb vetvete rikarikohen vet\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb hapurit, rikarikohen nga njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. N\u00eb bot\u00eb ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb mbyllur apo t\u00eb hapur?<\/strong><\/li>\n
  2. M\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb mbyllur.<\/li>\n
  3. M\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb hapur.<\/li>\n
  4. Edhe k\u00ebshtu, edhe ashtu nj\u00ebsoj.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    1. Quhesh i mbyllur n\u00eb vetvete, kur:<\/strong><\/li>\n
    2. Je i qet\u00eb dhe nuk flet.<\/li>\n
    3. Mendon p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat para se t\u00eb veprosh.<\/li>\n
    4. Preferon t\u00eb rrish vet\u00ebm.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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      1. Studimet kan\u00eb t\u00eb treguar se njer\u00ebzit jo t\u00eb ndrojtur, krahasuar me t\u00eb ndrojturit:<\/strong><\/li>\n
      2. Flasin me z\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb.<\/li>\n
      3. Jan\u00eb m\u00eb impulsiv\u00eb.<\/li>\n
      4. Jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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          \n
        1. Edhe kafsh\u00ebt mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojtura, ose t\u00eb pandrojtura:<\/strong><\/li>\n
        2. E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/li>\n
        3. G\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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            \n
          1. Cila fraz\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndrojturit \u00ebsht\u00eb e pav\u00ebrtet\u00eb?<\/strong><\/li>\n
          2. Ata kan\u00eb nj\u00eb sistem imunitar m\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt.<\/li>\n
          3. Ata nuk jan\u00eb aq t\u00eb lumtur sa t\u00eb pandrojturit.<\/li>\n
          4. Ata arrijn\u00eb rezultate m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebta n\u00eb testet e inteligjenc\u00ebs (QI).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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              \n
            1. Gjaku qarkullon ndryshe n\u00eb trurin e nj\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojturi, n\u00eb krahasim me trurin e t\u00eb pandrojturit:<\/strong><\/li>\n
            2. E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/li>\n
            3. G\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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              1. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit futen n\u00eb nj\u00eb kategori, n\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojturve, apo t\u00eb t\u00eb pandrojturve:<\/strong><\/li>\n
              2. E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/li>\n
              3. G\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                  \n
                1. T\u00eb ndrojturit veprojn\u00eb si t\u00eb till\u00eb edhe kur jan\u00eb n\u00eb internet (dhe n\u00eb rrjetet shoq\u00ebrore):<\/strong><\/li>\n
                2. E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/li>\n
                3. G\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                    \n
                  1. N\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb me muzik\u00eb, cili e ka m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohet n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e tij?<\/strong><\/li>\n
                  2. I ndrojturi<\/li>\n
                  3. I pandrojturi<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                      \n
                    1. Njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin vend t\u00eb shkall\u00ebs s\u00eb ndrojes gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre:<\/strong><\/li>\n
                    2. E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/li>\n
                    3. G\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                      1. Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb 100% t\u00eb ndrojtur, apo anasjelltas:<\/strong><\/li>\n
                      2. E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb<\/li>\n
                      3. G\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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                        P\u00ebrgjigjet<\/strong><\/p>\n

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                        1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb c-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          P\u00ebr \u00e7do person t\u00eb ndrojtur q\u00eb do t\u00eb takoni, ka nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb pandrojtur dhe anasjelltas! Sipas nj\u00eb studimi amerikan t\u00eb Qendr\u00ebs p\u00ebr Aplikime t\u00eb Tipit Psikologjik, afro 45-53 p\u00ebr qind e njer\u00ebzve n\u00eb SHBA jan\u00eb t\u00eb pandrojtur dhe 47-55 p\u00ebr qind jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojtur.<\/p>\n

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                          1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                            Njer\u00ebzit e mbyllur n\u00eb vetvete nuk duan gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb rrin\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Ky tip personaliteti ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si i p\u00ebrpunon gj\u00ebrat, sesa me t\u00eb qenit tip i hapur. K\u00ebta veprojn\u00eb duke u bazuar tek idet\u00eb, kujtimet dhe mendimet e tyre personale. Njer\u00ebzit e pandrojtur, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, veprojn\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb kur flasin p\u00ebr idet\u00eb e tyre me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                              \n
                            1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                              T\u00eb pandrojturve u p\u00eblqen reagimi i t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, ata motivohen nga lavd\u00ebrimet. K\u00ebshtu, ata marrin m\u00eb shpejt vendime dhe veprojn\u00eb m\u00eb shpejt se t\u00eb ndrojturit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb rezultatin q\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

                                \n
                              1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb a-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                Disa kafsh\u00eb kan\u00eb tipe personaliteti ashtu si edhe njer\u00ebzit. Studiuesit q\u00eb studiuan nj\u00eb grup peshkaqen\u00ebsh vun\u00eb re se ata q\u00eb rrinin ve\u00e7mas (t\u00eb ndrojturit), q\u00ebndruan k\u00ebshtu edhe kur i \u00e7uan n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend tjet\u00ebr. Peshkaqen\u00ebt q\u00eb ishin n\u00eb grup (t\u00eb hedhurit) kishin tendenc\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrballonin situatat e ndryshme s\u00eb bashku. N\u00ebse s\u00ebrfist\u00ebt hasin ndonj\u00eb peshkaqen n\u00eb det, ata duhet t\u00eb shpresojn\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb ndonj\u00eb i ndrojtur.<\/p>\n

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                                1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb c-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                  N\u00ebse ju jeni njeri i ndrojtur, ka gjasa t\u00eb keni rezultate m\u00eb t\u00eb larta n\u00eb nj\u00eb test inteligjence sesa shoku juaj i pandrojtur. Por, p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb lavd\u00ebroheni se jeni m\u00eb t\u00eb zgjuar, kini parasysh se studimet thon\u00eb q\u00eb kjo ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e b\u00ebni testin, sesa me zgjuarsin\u00eb tuaj.<\/p>\n

                                    \n
                                  1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb a-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                    T\u00eb ndrojturit p\u00ebrdorin disa pjes\u00eb t\u00eb trurit t\u00eb tyre m\u00eb shpesh sesa t\u00eb pandrojturit, k\u00ebshtu gjaku shkon m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto zona. T\u00eb ndrojturit kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb fluks gjaku n\u00eb pjes\u00ebn ballore, pjesa e trurit q\u00eb ka lidhje me kujtimet, me zgjidhjen e problemeve dhe me planifikimin. T\u00eb pandrojturit kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjak n\u00eb zonat e trurit q\u00eb kan\u00eb lidhje me drejtimin e automjetit, d\u00ebgjimin dhe shikimin.<\/p>\n

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                                    1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                      Personaliteti yn\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i prer\u00eb me thik\u00eb. Psikolog\u00ebt e masin ndrojtjen me nj\u00eb shkall\u00eb dhe, ju mund t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb pak i ndrojtur se nj\u00eb i ndrojtur tjet\u00ebr, p\u00ebr shembull. Disa njer\u00ebz bien n\u00eb mes t\u00eb shkall\u00ebs dhe shfaqin shenja t\u00eb t\u00eb dyja tipeve t\u00eb personalitetit. Psikolog\u00ebt k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz i quajn\u00eb ambivert\u00eb, ose: edhe i ndrojtur, edhe i pandrojtur (introvert-i ndrojtur, extrovert-i pandrojtur).<\/p>\n

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                                      1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb a-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                        T\u00eb ndrojturit preferojn\u00eb t\u00eb flasin me nj\u00eb njeri dhe jo me nj\u00eb grup t\u00eb madh. Ata gjithashtu kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u2019i mbajn\u00eb p\u00ebr vete gj\u00ebrat, sesa t\u2019i diskutojn\u00eb me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Studimet kan\u00eb treguar se e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb ndodh kur t\u00eb ndrojturit nd\u00ebrveprojn\u00eb n\u00eb rrjetet shoq\u00ebrore. Ata kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb grup m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl shok\u00ebsh sesa t\u00eb pandrojturit.<\/p>\n

                                          \n
                                        1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb a-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                          K\u00ebrkon t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb shok studimi t\u00eb rezervuar? Shko n\u00eb bibiliotek\u00eb. T\u00eb ndrojturve u p\u00eblqen m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrpunojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat nga brenda dhe hutimet e jashtme i pengojn\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Zhurmat n\u00eb sfond ua v\u00ebshtir\u00ebson p\u00ebrqendrimin n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, t\u00eb pandrojturit p\u00ebrqendrohen m\u00eb mir\u00eb kur ka rrotull muzik\u00eb ose zhurma t\u00eb tjera.<\/p>\n

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                                          1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                            Karl Jung, psikiatri q\u00eb shpiku termat e ndrojtjes dhe t\u00eb pandrojtjes, besonte se \u00e7dokush prej nesh ka nj\u00eb tip t\u00eb vet\u00ebm, t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, por ai gjithashtu mendonte se mund t\u00eb duhet koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuar se \u00e7far\u00eb tipi jeni. K\u00ebshtu, megjith\u00ebse ju nuk keni gjasa t\u00eb kaloni nga nj\u00ebri ekstrem n\u00eb tjetrin, mund t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb vende t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb shkall\u00ebs, n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb stazhit t\u00eb jet\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb mjedisit ku ndodheni kur t\u00eb jeni duke b\u00ebr\u00eb testin e personalitetit.<\/p>\n

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                                            1. P\u00ebrgjigjja e sakt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb b-ja.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                                              \u201cNuk ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndrojtur t\u00eb past\u00ebr, ose t\u00eb pandrojtur t\u00eb past\u00ebr. Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb do t\u00eb ishin n\u00eb spitalin e t\u00eb \u00e7mendurve\u201d, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00eb Jungu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                                                Njer\u00ebzit mund t\u2019i ndajm\u00eb n\u00eb dy kategori: T\u00eb mbyllur, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt p\u00ebrqendrohen te vetja e te mendimet e tyre dhe t\u00eb hapur, q\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohen te t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Megjithat\u00eb, ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb jan\u00eb edhe pak k\u00ebshtu, edhe pak ashtu. P\u00ebr t\u00eb mbyllurit n\u00eb vetvete m\u00eb shum\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodh brenda mendjes s\u00eb tyre […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":12710,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[219,51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12709","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pyetje-pergjigje","category-test"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12709","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12709"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12709\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12710"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12709"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12709"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/intervista.al\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12709"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}